It's perfectly normal - we all want to feel wanted, and we all like attention and to know that we're desirable.

I can assure you that the majority of people still want attention from their preferred sex when in a relationship - as the previous answerer said, it's human nature.

This sounds like your period. What you've described is 'spotting'. As you've never got your period before, it's possible this happen a few times before your period becomes heavier. It's nothing to worry about, but make sure you have sanitary towels handy.

Your hair can change as you get older, but it has nothing to do with your periods. My hair, for example, used to be dead straight and shiny, but has gradually become drier and naturally curly as I've got older.

Look at your older relatives and see which kind of hair is most common - it's possible that if you have lots of relatives with curly hair, yours will gradually become curly too. It's not a definite, though. Some people's hair stays the same, some people's changes. It's the same for colour too - people's hair often becomes darker or lighter as they grow older.

Oh, this can be difficult - I find myself in this situation sometimes. I agree that it's good to have friendship before romance, but I think there is a point where it crosses the line and so you can never go back from being friends, if that makes sense.

I'd suggest making friends with guys originally, but then introducing a bit of flirting quickly after - this should keep you out of the friend zone. Also, it sounds shallow, but making sure you always look good will remind them that you're not just 'one of the boys'.

As a girl myself, I can tell you that unfortunately we are often drawn to those tough, cocky guys even when we find them a bit ridiculous. Honestly? I think it's down to confidence. You need to be confident but not overly so.

You say that you 'kind of have no life' - well believe me, I know how that is as I'm in the same position at the moment, and the thing is, having 'no life' and keeping yourself to yourself stops you from meeting people and is a great hinderance to your love life.

I know that it can be difficult to start socialising and going out, because as I say, I'm trying to get myself to do the same at the moment, and as an introvert who has lost ties with friends, I mostly prefer to spend my time alone. I'm guessing it might be the same for you. However, you really need to do so. Do you have many friends? If you do, make an effort to hang out with them more. If not, try to make friends with acquaintances. Speak to people in your classes. Try and go to any parties you hear about. Join clubs. It may seem off topic, but doing these things will get you out there and you'll be more likely to meet girls in the first place.

Now, I'm going to be straight with you, I don't know you but what you have written here comes off as a bit snobby and narrow-minded. I understand that you're interested in topics such as politics and science, and you don't feel as if anyone else is, but do not assume that none of these girls you know aren't smart - plenty of girls who spend their time talking about things such as texting/tv shows are smart. The thing is, most people are smarter, more interesting and more deep than they appear. People are often scared to show these more true sides of themselves and so conversation tends to stay lighter.

I'm mentioning this because I think one of the reasons you might not be getting far with girls is because you're dismissing them before you get to know them - understand that there is most likely more beneath the surface and try to get to know girls before deciding they're not right for you. Take it slowly, though - if you start asking a girl a bunch of deep questions, she may be freaked out. You say that you talk to girls about the things you're interested in? I'd suggest starting out on lighter topics, because this means they'll be more comfortable with you - then maybe bring up things such as theories or politics, then more personal things. Talking in class about what you're currently studying could be a good idea, too.

Also, if you join clubs in things you are interested in, you may be more likely to find girls who are interested in the same topics.

I hope it goes well for you, and don't hesitate to message me if you want anymore advice!

I'm not entirely sure I've got the right idea, but firstly, you could try out certain talent show formats, for example: The X Factor, Britain/America's Got Talent (use the name of the town/city you live to make it more personal), Pop/American Idol etc.

Or, you could follow other themes, such as: Glee, Disney, Shakespeare, Original (people would have to sing their own songs, perform their own plays etc.). Things like that. With the first three, people could do anything related - sing songs from, re-enact scenes from, do a parody of, draw art based on etc.

I hope this helps, and if you want any more info, or any more ideas, just contact me.

I always used to be worried about this, but I can tell you that it does not hurt, as long as you follow the instructions on the package (and don't worry, it's not difficult.) Just keep practicing, it doesn't matter if you don't get it right the first time. It may be a little bit uncomfortable at first, but after time you won't notice it's there.

I used to be worried that I would leave in it too long as well, but as long as you check how long it's meant to be in for and remember, it will be fine. In all honesty, I've left them in for double the amount of time you're supposed to before, and I've been absolutely fine - I'm not recommending this, because it's always better to be on the safe side, but I just want you to know that if you leave it in a little too long, it's very unlikely it will be harmful.

The problem here is not age, but getting him in proximity, so that he notices you and you have the oppurtunity to get to know him. If your mutual friend likes you, then he could easily be saying the guy is out of your league to try and turn you off him, so it's probably best to ignore that. Bear in mind, though, that this friend could be a bit of a problem - but if you and this guy did end up liking each other, it wouldn't be a big enough problem to stop you getting together. It could just complicate things a bit.

Firstly, you just need him to notice you more. Smile and say hi when you see him. Start making excuses to ask him a question or compliment him. Strike up conversation on Facebook. (Do this gradually, though - if you do it all in one go, you could scare him off, and your intentions might be too obvious.)

After this, find ways of meeting up with him - if you know he's going to a party, try to go too, and talk to him when you're there. Hold a gathering or party yourself, and invite him along. Start inviting him and his friends out with your friends - it shouldn't seem too odd if you already have a friend in common. Always talk to the guy yourself, instead of asking your mutual friend to invite him along, as your friend might not pass the message on if he likes you.

Once you consider him a friend, you can start talking to and flirting with him on a more personal level - spend more time with him if you're both out with friends, talk to him more on Facebook, don't be afraid to go up to him and chat to him if you see him around. If you get good vibes from him, maybe ask him to a one on one thing in an innocent kind of way - for example, say he knows how to play an instrument, you could ask him to teach you how.

If that goes well, you could properly ask him out.

I hope this helps, and if you want any more advice on it, or on how to approach certain things, just contact me whenever you want.

That probably was the start of your period, it can happen like that - you may notice every now and then it being brown, and then eventually it will start being a week long period, with more blood. All you need to do is check throughout the day (whenever you go to the loo, for example) and if you notice it's brown, just use a sanitary towel in case you get a full period.

I do understand where you're coming from, as I've liked guys a year younger than me before and been a bit hesitant about doing anything about it, purely because I liked the idea of being with someone older. But when it comes down to it, age is such a petty thing. If you like him, you can't let a silly little thing like age get in the way (and in my case, it was me being shallow and thinking, 'well, it's just a bit cooler to date an older guy, isn't it?' which is such a pointless reason not to date someone, and I can say from experience, if you don't make a move because of a reason like that, you'll regret it.)

8 months younger is not something that will affect your relationship, were you to have one. You should definitely do something about it - I don't know whether you're on speaking terms with him or not. If you're not, start by smiling at him whenever you see him (confiding in his sister may not be a bad idea either). Then, start saying hi, occasionally ask him a question. You can use sites like Facebook to strike up conversation too. To get to know him better, you could always throw a gathering or party at your house (garden parties or barbeques are always good for summer!) and invite him along. Once you know him as an acquaitance, you could even him to smaller things (for example, if you and your friends are going to the cinema, invite him) and the eventually ask him out on his own.

If you want any more advice on the subject, feel free to contact me.

If you really like him, I would say give it a go. Yes, long distance relationships are tough and - sorry to be negative - there's a higher chance it won't work out than with a usual relationship, but you just don't know. It could end up working out really well, and even if it doesn't, it will have been an experience and at least you'll know you tried.

Say yes and just see where it goes from there - you've nothing to lose. If you want any more advice on it, feel free to contact me.

Sorry I've taken a while to reply, and don't worry it's not too long at all!

This is tricky because it's really hard to know what he thinks about the group and what it means to him. It might not be anything to worry about, but on the other hand, it could be. I feel like I'd be able to help more if I knew what kind of things he posted, and who he lets be members of the group. For example, are the members of the group a bunch of his guy friends and does he use it for boasting about the physical side of your relationship? Because I think if that's the case he's definitely not respecting you, and he most definitely knows that you wouldn't be happy with it, which is why he hasn't told you about it.

On the other hand, if it's various people and he just talks about how he feels for you, what your relationship means to him and maybe things you've done together (but not sexual) or said to each other, it may be that he is just really happy with your relationship and proud of it to the point where he wants to show it off to the world, and is maybe emabarrassed of what you would think about it, which is why he hasn't told you about it.

I'm kind of confused as to whether you've asked him directly about the group. If you havn't, it could be that he doesn't think it's bad and therefore didn't mention it to you when you asked if he had any secrets he wanted to tell you. If you have, and he denied it, then depending on what the group focuses on, I think the reason is one of the two I've mentioned above. If you havn't, I would ask him about and see what he says.

I think, if the group is him boasting about the physical side of your relationship, then he knows it is wrong. If it's talking about your relationship and his feelings towards you, then perhaps he doesn't, but is too embarassed to show you it. You need to tell him you know about the group, and that you feel he's invading your privacy because you don't feel comofortable with other people knowing these things about your relationship. If he apologizes and says he will remove the group, I'd try and get someone who was a member to check. If he doesn't, then it's your choice what you do from there. If you feel like you can't be with someone who doesn't respect your privacy, then you're going to have to make the decision whether you stay with him.

You need to work out whether he realised this would hurt you or not, and if you know the content of the blog and can talk to him about it, hopefully you will.

I hope this helps, and if you still need help on it, just message me again, and I will try to reply quicker this time!

Not at all. 5'4/5'5's average height. Besides, even if you were tall, I don't think that's a reason not to wear heels - you should wear what you like and not be ashamed of your height!

How about Richelle? It's lovely.

I think you are a pear. You might not be exactly the same, but not many people fit the exact description. For example, I'm an hourglass, but I don't have broad shoulders like hourglasses are supposed to.

As for 37 being too big a measurement, I'm not sure, it might be. Try searching 'required measuremenst for models'.

It's different for different types of models though - catalogue models, catwalk models, editorial models, glamour models etc.

A normal one.

Honestly, I don't know anyone that hasn't kissed people they never got together with.

And actually, only five girls seems like quite a small number to me (I'm guessing your a teen, like me), so I really wouldn't worry about it.

Sometimes kisses don't mean anything, sometimes they're just sexual attraction, sometimes they're kisses that meant something at the time but never resulted in a relationship.

Honestly, this doesn't say anything about him. It's fine, don't worry about it.

Definitions of naive:
1. Lacking wordly experience and understanding
Unsuspecting/Innocent

I'm not whether it's a good thing that he said that or not. Often, guys like naive girls because they can use them, they're easier to persuade and deceive, etc.

BUT, he might just mean he likes your innocence. That he thinks that's a good queality of yours.

It's hard to tell, but watch how acts with you and try to figure it out. I wouldn't ask him about it, though.

Either they're still growing or you're going to stay a 32A. I really wouldn't worry about it, though. You say you wear push-up bras to make people think you have really nice tits when you don't, but having 32A boobs doesn't mean they're not nice. They are. All sizes are, it doesn't really matter.

I know it's hard to accept what you've got. I'm 16 and my boobs are 28FF, so I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum. I find it hard to accept because personally, I'd prefer them smaller. But I'm learning to love what I've got, and you should too. There are both pros and cons to having small boobs and big boobs. Neither are better. You may want to big boobs now but eventually you'll probably grow to love them, and they'll become part of who you are. You'd find it weird to have it any other way.

Also, contrary to what you might think, most guys don't care about breast size. I know they always go on about big boobs and joke about it, but hey, that's lad culture. And when it comes to down to it, they don't really care. Some may have preferences, but most just like boobs, whatever size.

Wear a push-up bra if you want, but dress for your shape. It's a lot easier when you have small boobs, trust me. You can get away with wearing much more fashionable clothes and don't have to worry about your boobs getting in the way.

They might grow, they might not. I know it's hard, but try not to worry about it at the moment. And about the beach/pool, you could try a bikini with padding in it?

There's not much way to make them grow. You can try breast exercises which make them perkier and can sometimes increase breast size or at least make them appear bigger. Putting on weight also makes your boobs larger, but you probably don't want to do that. Make sure you eat healthily and eat a lot of protein.

If in later life, you're still really unhappy with them, surgery is always an option.

Oh &, you say everyone your age has bigger boobs, but I'm sure they don't. I know girls my age with boobs your size, boobs smaller than you, some big, some average. And they're all seen as attractive.

But please, I know it sounds cliche, just learn to love what you've got.

Well, it depends on the guy.

It either means he wants to have a deep conversation with you about life (ie. profound stuff about what you think of love, life, people etc.)

Or, he's pretending he wants to have a conversation about it so he can get into your pants.

I'm in the exact same position as you right now. Because I'm working through it too, I can't tell you the exact right way to stop yourself from holding back, but I can tell you how I'm dealing with it and that might help a little.

It's really hard, I know. I think you need to try to be yourself, and if you feel yourself putting a guard up, bring it back down. As far as the physical side of things goes, it's tricky. Although you should only do things when you're ready, sometimes you are ready but you're just too worried about how you'll be at it that you pull away. In these cases, it's best to just make yourself do it. For example, if you've got to the point where you really want to kiss him, but still feel yourself pulling away, just make yourself kiss him. You'll most likely be happy that you did.

I think you've got to take the relationship slowly, and try to stay in the present rather than thinking about the future of it. Don't take it too seriously and just enjoy things in the moment and for what the are. I know how hard it is to open up, don't push yourself into it but slowly begin letting your guard down, if you know what you mean. If he does something that makes you suddenly worry that he doesn't care (I'm the same way you've described yourself, and I know I can very quickly jump to thinking someone doesn't care because of a tiny little thing) remind yourself that you're a great person, and that he does care. Don't push him away because you're worried that he doesn't. Don't try to 'hurt him before he has the chance to hurt you' (I do this all the time and it's ruined all possible relationships). Just try to stay strong, positive, live in the moment and take things slowly.

I hope I havn't rambled on too much and have been clear. If you want any more advice or want me to explain anything further, just message me, I'll be happy to help.

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