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long distance relationship?
well i like this guy and he just asked me out and hes moving in 5 days and ya soo i told him i would think about it but i dont know what to say please help :S
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I totally understand you,because my boyfriend is in Texas,and I'm in Illinois.But it might work for you.Just tell him why you don't think it would work.And if you do think it will work,then go for it.
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Well , I went through the same exact thing you are going through . He and I ended up dating for a month and eventually broke up because I knew it wasnt going to work out . My opinion is to take risks in life, like this one but you also have to think about the consequences . As do you really want to miss him, with a broken heart when you know he is somewhere else ? Do you want to go somewhere where you will see so many couples and tell yourself "I really wish he was here" I know I ask myself all the time . Since I was in this same situation I would say yes but I would also say no . So think about it okay ? If I had to choose again I would take a shot at it ONE MORE TIME but at the same point, talk, text, video chat or something so you dont lose contact with him . (:
Good Luck .
- Jackie ♥
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honestly babe, it really sucks that he waited until he was moving to ask you out. and i know you like him but honestly i wouldn't go out with him right now because then you will get attached and it will be even harder to watch him move.
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well.. you know its going to be a long distance relationship right? well.. your very aware of it so you should know whats going toh appen you wont see him VERY often ,but you can text call phone cam and stufff.. or you can go and visit him or you do that.. if you really do like him you shouldnt be asking this question , but you know if you do like him say yes, he asked you out he knows he likes you and so do you , its your choice
goodluck
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I would say yes because if you really like him I would defintly except(: and if the long distance thing don't work out after a while then you ca always breakup! I hope I helped Good luck(:
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If you really like him, I would say give it a go. Yes, long distance relationships are tough and - sorry to be negative - there's a higher chance it won't work out than with a usual relationship, but you just don't know. It could end up working out really well, and even if it doesn't, it will have been an experience and at least you'll know you tried.
Say yes and just see where it goes from there - you've nothing to lose. If you want any more advice on it, feel free to contact me.
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Well, it kind of depends. How much do you like him? Is he a close friend, or just an acquaintance? Can you see yourselves being together (or in a LDR) for a long time? These are all questions you have to ask yourself... Long distance relationships are very difficult, so if it is worth your time and effort, I would say go for it. Or, if you need more time to get to know him, say so and you can always exchange emails, phone numbers, etc to keep in contact. Just because he's moving away doesn't mean it's "now or never". There are also many people who decide to date even though they are many miles away and never meet each other before starting to date. You have many options, but it's up to you to know what your true feelings are for him :D Hope this helped! and Good luck!
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