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How to be the girlfriend and not the best friend
No matter how hard i try I can never seem to be the love interest or the one a guy is interested in. I always turn out to be the best friends instead i turn out to be the good friend. I believe that you have to have a friendship before dating but whenever i meet a new guy i like ill try to start a small friendship but some how i always end up a good buddy or a best buddy. What do i do how do i stop this from happening again?
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Oh, this can be difficult - I find myself in this situation sometimes. I agree that it's good to have friendship before romance, but I think there is a point where it crosses the line and so you can never go back from being friends, if that makes sense.
I'd suggest making friends with guys originally, but then introducing a bit of flirting quickly after - this should keep you out of the friend zone. Also, it sounds shallow, but making sure you always look good will remind them that you're not just 'one of the boys'.
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Give the guy signs that you don't just want to be friends. Throw some flirts in the mix or just tell them off the bat that you are looking for a friendship at first and possibly a relationship later on.
Good luck. (:
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