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can u get pregnant if a guy cums in ur butt hole

No, but if the cum someone gets into the vagina then there is a chance of getting pregnant.

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I HAVE BEEN MASTURBADING ON TOP OF MY UNDERWEAR AND SOMETIMES UNDER THEN LICKING MY FINGERS JUST TO FEEL SEXY AND NOW MY VAGINA REALLY ITCHTES! I don't know if it is just from shaving or if I have an infection! I have been putting like the balmax and
baby powder in my underwear and it kind of calms the itching but i need like good anwsers! so please anwser this as soon as possible! thank you!

It could possibly be from the shaving. When new growth comes in, it itches a lot. Masturbating can't cause anything too serious.

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hi yesterday i had poo had lots blood and it happend again today but im get more blood then i am poo this has happend in the past but it worried me now as lot blood

Go see a doctor immediately.

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So, I'm getting married in a few months. My fiance is getting deployed in April, so we wanted to sign papers first and then have a real wedding next year. However, I still wanted to do something decently special for our courthouse wedding. For those of you who have done the 'signing papers' thing, I would like to know how you all did it and how you guys celebrated! I just want some nice ideas, thank you!

One of my mom's friends had a courthouse wedding and it was simple, but nice. They exchanged rings and all that with her closest friends and family there.
Afterwards, she had a small party at her house with cake, food and drinks. I'd say go for that idea seeing as it's not boring and is still enjoyable for everyone else. :)

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Hi there,

This answer:

"Well, dying wouldn't help at all. You need to gain a backbone and find something to do with yourself. Hunt for a job like there's no tomorrow, ask a friend or a family member to help.
No one on here is going to tell you how to kill yourself. You should also find some psychological help.
Good luck."

... could have done without the insult.

If you would like to re-answer with a better tone, you are welcome to do so.

I have removed the answer, and have chosen not to ban your account based on your previous good advice.

Do I know why this rubbed you the wrong way? Yes, I do. the person made the sole focus of their life about money. When you are in your 30s and your wife tells you that if the cars go, she goes with them... well, that isn't a backbone issue.

The ONE overriding thing you MUST have to be a good advisor is empathy.

As you stated: "...I do have my immature moments (who doesn't?)."

... this was one of them. Suicide questions, no matter how trivial they may seem to you, are to be taken seriously.

You are legally responsible for your answers. Since you are 17, your parents would get the call if this person died in front of a monitor with your answer telling them to get a backbone.

If you don't think people sue over this, you are mistaken. If you don't think this can be a legal as well as a civil problem for you, you would be mistaken.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes and try to feel what they feel before you answer anything more serious than "which hole does the tampon go in?"

You have demonstrated that you can give good advice. Please take the time to bring your standards back up from the point of making juvenile insults towards people who have their life falling apart at the seams.

Don't make me regret the decision to go against the request to ban your account.

DN.

I'm sorry for my answer. I didn't mean for it to sound the way it did.

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I am kayla I have 2 to 3 periods a month they last 7 to 14 days long and when im not on them I am discharging I am not sexually active what do I do?

You should go see a doctor immediately! 2 to 3 periods a month is a bit too much and you could DEFINITELY have something wrong inside.
Good luck and hopefully it's nothing too major.

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i would love to futher my education. but i just can't seem to foucus on anything. i'm not the dumbest person in the world, it just don't seem as important as i thought it would. i realy want to further my education, i want to better myself. help!

I had this same issue. I'm in my senior year of high school and I left a day high school to go to night school because it's hell of a lot easier than day school and it's also for a shorter amount of time.
But anyway, if you don't like the school feel, try to find something you like to do and find some joy in education. Also, think of it as an experience for you to better your life.
Good luck! (:

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hi, i had sex 2 days ago and since last night I've had these soft cramps i had my period when i was having sex but i just finished it this morning.. the cramps don't hurt they just feel funny. its almost like sharp pain where it comes and goes and last night it almost sounded like water...... I've never been pregnant before and the lot i was in when i had sex, the owner claims its fertile land so i should be careful, I've had unprotected sex for almost 3 years now with the same guy, no condoms or any type of birth control. oh and it kind of makes me feel hungry but when i eat i immediately feel full.. can anyone help?

Well if you haven't been having protected sex for 3 years then there is a HUGE chance that you are pregnant. Give it another week or two and take a pregnancy test to make sure.
From the looks of it, you are.

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We've been married for 6 years and I want to have children but I showed my husband a sad video on YouTube now he's crying and he's scared to have kids. What should I do ? I love him so much.

I don't know what the video was about, but if it's that traumatic, explain to him that bad things don't happen that often to babies unless the parents have a gene or the pregnancy was bad and alcoholic/drug use was involved.

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I have a fairly old TV that I would like to hook my laptop up to. It's not ancient, but it's not from the flat-screen era.

My usual way is with a VGA cable, but this TV doesn't even have that. What's the next best (and cheapest!) way?

If someone could provide me with instructions / links to the products I'd need to buy, that'd be great!

http://www.amazon.com/Premium-3-RCA-Component-Video-cable/dp/B000SJ2TJ8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1316299796&sr=8-1
:) Cheapest I've seen.

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Im 13 and so depressed. I think i might be suicidal. I almost did an overdose before i went to school today. I guess that does make me suicidal. But instead of an overdose i just cut my wrist, hip, and thigh until you could barely see through all the blood. My question is do I need help? And if I do, what kind of help? I have no friends, i cant pass science or metal shop. And my drawings are getting bad. What should I do. Please help me.

You do need help. I went through this phase when I was your age and I realized I was NOT depressed. I was just looking for attention.
I talked with my mom about how I was feeling and told her everything and she helped me so much that I changed and never tried to kill myself ever after that.
So, I recommend talking to a trusted adult about all your problems.
Good luck hon! (:

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ok, so my best friend and I have been good friends for about half a year. I don't know if I'm her best friend but she's definitely mine. Anyway, ever since the beginning of summer I feel like we have sort of been drifting apart. Like, we still have sleepovers and hang out all the time, at school and not at school, but I don't know it just feels like she doesn't even really like me. Also, I feel like she's using me for my older sister. My sister is 16 (I'm 13) and we are very close and she hangs out with all of my friends. I think that she doesn't really like me and uses me for my sister, because whenever we hang out, she always insists on going to my house, whenever My sister and I together, she'll hug my sister first, she'll always sit next to my sister and walk with her, and she mainly just talks to her. I love her so much, she is my bestfriend and I don't want to lose her. Please give me some advice on what to do. I don't want to seem like an overdramatic little girl but this has been bugging me for months. Is there any way to get her to like me more?

Be up front and honest with her. If she's acting like that, then obviously something IS up with her. If she cares for you so much, she shouldn't be hugging your sister first or acting like she doesn't even give a crap about you.
You should never have to make someone like you more. They're either worth your friendship, or they aren't. So, just let her know how you feel and tell her your issue.

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My name is Marian and I like two guys at school they are both funny and smart but I dont know one of them is older and i dont get to see him as much but we still talk. The other one is in the same grade as me and he always wants to sit next to me, i like the attention but i dont know what to do.

Go with the one you feel most comfortable with. I don't have much information to go off of, so, good luck in whoever you choose! (:

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I'm going to see my favorite country singer in a few months about 4 days before my birthday. I'm gonna cry if I meet him because he's my idol. Would he be able to comfort me if I cry ?

No one can say what someone else is going to do. I highly doubt he will comfort you, though, seeing as he is a celebrity and many people probably cry over him daily. Just don't get your hopes up.

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My uncle does mass amounts of crack and has stolen so many things from me. I used my camera to recently take photos of me standing plainly in my underwear to track my weight loss. I did not delete them. My uncle took my camera and pawned it, or gave it to a drug dealer idk... can i charge him? I'm 17 in the state of texas

Well if you know he's doing crack, then yes. You can tell someone and they can scope out his place (if he has one). Also, you know HE stole it. Cops can figure this stuff out easily.
Good luck and sorry to hear about the pictures :S.

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No matter how hard i try I can never seem to be the love interest or the one a guy is interested in. I always turn out to be the best friends instead i turn out to be the good friend. I believe that you have to have a friendship before dating but whenever i meet a new guy i like ill try to start a small friendship but some how i always end up a good buddy or a best buddy. What do i do how do i stop this from happening again?

Give the guy signs that you don't just want to be friends. Throw some flirts in the mix or just tell them off the bat that you are looking for a friendship at first and possibly a relationship later on.
Good luck. (:

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My friend was hugging me today and crying because she's on her period and she said it really hurts. She wants me to cuddle with her. Is it ok ? What else can I do to help her ?

Ummm...if your friend is having that much pain on her period she should be taking pills for it or telling her doctor, but to answer your question, if you don't have a problem cuddling with her, go ahead. You are just friends and also you can make her laugh or do stuff to get her mind away from the pain.

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So, me and this guy talked since march. he messaged me on Facebook one night and was like wow why haven't I seen you at school, you're really cute and blah blah blah. we talked off and on until school was over. when he would see me going to my homeroom in the morning he was with his friends but he would still give me a "hey what's up" head nod or look at me as I passed by and would say hey. over summer he would text me almost every single day. sometimes he would text me and say hey cutie and ask me if I wanted to have out with him, although we never did. back in June I flat out told him I like him. I guess he thought I was kidding because I texted him that and he replyed with "what?" So this year we have 1 class a week together and all 5 of our lunches. sometimes on the way to lunch he'll be walking right behind me and my friend but he won't say hi. it seems like he doesn't even acknowledge me anymore. why? what should I do?

Ask him what his problem is. He was the one making the notion that he liked you and you just acted upon it. Boys like to be bipolar sometimes so maybe he's just having one of his moments.
Good luck though. (:

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Well, I was peeing and looked at my underwear and noticed that there was a little brownish red spot on the inside. I havent had any cramps lately and I have never gotten my period before, so I dont know what to do. I also noticed that that was all there was, there wasnt anymore. . . . Whats going on?

Mine was just spotting over a couple days when I first got it and not everyone gets cramps during their periods. Talk to your mom (or guardian) about it or see a doctor.

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okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women

any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'.

Umm, crap. I was never good at buying stuff for anyone, let alone my teachers lol. So just get them something simple like a coffee mug or just little things they can put on their desks.
Good luck though! Sorry if I can't help much. (:

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