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He's seventeen, a senior, male. I'm sixteen, a junior, female.
He's my best friend.
He knows me. He calls me, he texts me everday. He tells me about his day and I tell him about mine. He know's my secrets and I know his.
He protects me. He beat up my ex-boyfriend when he slapped me. He doesn't let anyone hurt me, inside or out. He wont allow me with boys he doesn't approve of.
He cares about me. He hugs me when I cry. He holds my hand when I'm anxious, or nervous. He tickles me when I'm down. He wrestles me when I'm in that goofy mood. He's the funniest person I know.
We have never kissed, or had any kind of romantic relationship. We aren't like that.
But he's dating a new girl. She doesn't like me because of how close I am to him. He says its not, and that it won't, but everything I've mnetioned before is starting to fall apart, and I don't know how I can live with out him...
What am I supposed to do? (link)
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If you really do tell each other everything then I suggest telling him that you are upset that you don't talk as much anymore. You and his new girlfriend could make an effort to get to know each other a little better. It's normal for a woman to be a little jealous of her boyfriend being so close to another girl. I think it's important that she see that you and your friend have more of a brother/sister relationship and not a romantic one. If you really care about him as much as you seem to then you don't want to put him in a position where he feels like he has to choose. To be honest, even if his relationship with this girl doesn't last you will likely run into the same problem with every woman he dates. Male/Female relationships are tricky but can absolutely work if everyone involved trusts each other.
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My teacher is 27 and Im 17 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front of teachers and students and they just laugh at him because they think hes joking. I don't know if hes playing or what. He'll be in class teaching and put his arm around me. I don't think he'll try to do anything but sometimes he gets close to me and its really uncomfortable, even when I back away. He just stares and smiles at me a lot. Or he'll walk over to my desk and stand there for a while. I'm a pretty strait forward person, so after a while I turn around and ask him what he wants. He'll ask if I need help or something. One time he looked up my schedule and took me out of PE class because I was mad at him and someone told him that I didnt like him, he took me out of class just to ask me if I didnt like him and he looked seriously hurt.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I just wanted to know what somebody else's opinion was about the situation. Sometimes I just can't tell if hes joking because he knows I have a crush on him or if hes being serious. Please answer, thanks (link)
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It doesn't matter if he's joking or not. He's your teacher and any comment like that - joking or not - is inappropriate. If he is making you uncomfortable then I would seriously consider reporting him. Given that you are 17 I would assume that your time at that school is almost done so you wouldn't have to deal with much aftermath at school if you do choose to report him. Teachers are supposed to be the ones you can go to with a problem but this teacher seems to BE the problem. He seems like a creep and will probably move on to another young girl when you graduate, which is another reason to consider reporting him. His "flirting" may seem harmless now but he may take it to the next level with another student next year. You are not overreacting, his behavior is NOT okay.
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Hi, I am 17 and female. I am a senior in my high school and have yet to take my SAT's. I am registered to take them very soon. Before I take them, I intend to do some college visits. I know I should have done this over the summer but I was to busy with work. After I do college visits, then take my SAT's, I plan to apply for the colleges of my choice. That would probably be in 2 months. I am very concerned that applying that late would already make me not eligible to be accepted because I know you need to apply super early.
Am I correct in thinking this? Or will I get accepted to a college this late when I do my applying? (link)
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It is always better to apply early but as long as your application is submitted by the due date you will be fine. Stressing about being late might make you more likely to overlook or forget things that are required for admission. It's a good idea to slow down for a minute and make sure you have everything that is required. The first thing you should find out is the admission deadline! Most colleges have a check list of some kind on their website for new students. Make sure you print it out and go over it BEFORE you begin the application process, that way you know ahead of time what you need and have time to get anything that you are missing. To help move things along, if you have a few colleges in mind already it wouldn't hurt to visit their website now and see what you will need as far as application requirements.
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