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Well I'm 23 yr old guy that finally got his first serious job. My dad's best friend helped me out to get involved with their company. But I was transferred to a different state so I packed up and moved.
Now I won't get into big detail, but my Boss's secretary quit all of a sudden so he asked me if I was interested. I ended up taking it and it was a pretty o.k job. Paper work, answering calls, setting up meetings and such, everything was going so well. Until he asked me to take care of some "personal" business.
He had me pick up his 16 yr old daughter from school and take her home then babysit. Their nanny never called or showed up and he was in an important meeting. So I figured, he's a nice a guy why not. When I picked her up she stared at me funny, than sat in the passenger seat. The whole ride to their home was very awkward and silent.
We finally got to her house and she thanked me, then rushed inside. I followed and sat in their living room, wondering if I should just let her do her own thing or if we should watch a movie or play a video game or something. I grew up in a family of 7 and I played with my little bro' all the time.
After awhile she finally came down stares, dressed in ridiculously short shorts and a tight tank top with no bra. I was shocked and disturbed. She smiled and sat next to me and began asking me a lot of random questions about my job with her dad and about myself. I didn't know quite what to do but answer them as I looked away.
She then asked how many women I'd slept with, I didn't answer of course and scooted further away. She scooted closer and asked if I thought she was hot. I felt very awkward and told her I didn't find minors attractive. She then stated that it was "only" a 7 year difference and her father and new step mom are 9 years apart.
She told me to wait down there and ran up stairs, then came back down with a small baggie full of brownish stuff. I've never done drugs so I didn't think it'd be weed. Until she asked if I would smoke with her. I said absolutely not! And told her I'd tell her father once he called but she just laughed and said she'd tell him it was mine and make him believe I was trying to get into her pants. I was appalled by the extremity of her lie.
She then stated that she was in control now and there was nothing I could do about it, then went on to tell me about all the nanny's, housekeepers, and music teacher's she's had that she'd gotten her dad to fire and some arrested. I'm not sure if it's true but I am a bit frighten none the less.
I mean to be put in jail for something you didn't even do?
So later off she had me take her and her two best friends to the mall, I was so relieved since I'd get some time to myself while they were off. But then she told me her nanny follows them everywhere and holds their bags for them. So I did to. It wasn't that bad until her friends started talking about how cool it would be to date an older guy with a car and such. Then my Boss's daughter grabbed my bum and ran off with her friends.
At this point I was just really pissed off of having to put up with all the b.s. I head back to the car with their bags and waited till they called to go home. I decided to look threw their bags and they bought a lot of racy undergarments and clothes. I'm really disturbed at how these kids act.
They finally came back to the car with even more bags of God only knows what, I drove her two friends home and then went back to her home. I was so thankful that there were only two more hours for her father to get home.
I wondered were her step mom was but didn't bother to ask. I sat in the kitchen petting their cat and she goes on to say, "boy you sure like to pet pus*y." I was annoyed by her presence and just told her; If she were my daughter she wouldn't be in those terrible clothes, speaking the way she was and acting the way she was. She just laughed and asked if I was gay. When I didn't respond, she said she'd be happy to do me in the back with, you can only imagine what.
Her dad finally came home and I was so mentally exhausted I didn't even bother to tell him anything and went home. I guess I'm worried of him not believing me and believing his daughters horrible lies.
It's been a week since then and I kept avoiding those "personal" favors of his, but he wants me to look after her tomorrow since she got suspended from school for getting into a fight.
What do I do? Do I tell my boss? How?
Sorry it's so long but I really want to keep my job but have no interest in putting up with his underage daughter's crap. (link)
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fess up
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My boyfriend gave me a necklace for my birthday a few weeks ago. I wore it to school, then took it off at the end of the day in the locker room so I could change for tennis. I thought I put it in my backpack but I looked and I can't find it anywhere. I checked all around my house too. So tomorrow we have a date and he asked me to wear the necklace. I really don't want to tell him I lost it! I don't know what to do! I feel horrible! (link)
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be truthful and then go later to buy one that looks like it. if he truly likes you he will forgive you
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My teacher is 27 and Im 17 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front of teachers and students and they just laugh at him because they think hes joking. I don't know if hes playing or what. He'll be in class teaching and put his arm around me. I don't think he'll try to do anything but sometimes he gets close to me and its really uncomfortable, even when I back away. He just stares and smiles at me a lot. Or he'll walk over to my desk and stand there for a while. I'm a pretty strait forward person, so after a while I turn around and ask him what he wants. He'll ask if I need help or something. One time he looked up my schedule and took me out of PE class because I was mad at him and someone told him that I didnt like him, he took me out of class just to ask me if I didnt like him and he looked seriously hurt.
Maybe I'm just overreacting but I just wanted to know what somebody else's opinion was about the situation. Sometimes I just can't tell if hes joking because he knows I have a crush on him or if hes being serious. Please answer, thanks (link)
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please for your owm sake avoid him at all times and if you have the courage report him because going on with this thing can have serious consequences
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Hey in 16 yr old female about to turn 17 in a few months.. I'm with this guy who I love with all my heart and he just turned 22 about a month ago we are basically 5 years apart I don't find it weird at all and neither does he.. he does not pressure me to do anything sexually that is not y he is with me.. do u think I'm to young bc some ppl say I am (link)
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adviceman49 is right
im not saying you should be away from your true love but try to restrain urself from having sex as it can have negative effects not only on ur body but on him and everyone connected to both of your lives.
my parents themselves have at least the age difference you have and notin stoped them from their love
you shud also talk 2 him about this and if he truly loves you he wud respect your wishes and think of what is best for you besides it would be a good way 2 test how strong his love for you really is
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I'm 15f and so there was this guy p about last year 2010 summer I fell for him he was the closest I've ever gotten to a guy. But randomly he stopped texting and calling me and when school started it was awkward then like in febuary I asked him to this dance a week later he gave me this note explaining he couldn't go bc he's switching schools.which then I took this guy from a different school and I hated it. After that I didn't see him everyday in my one class that I use to have with him. I have allways had him on my mind I tired everything to get him back to like me I've shedded so many tears for him.all I do now is cry alone bc if I talk to my friends about it at this point in time they'll think I'm weird and obsessed..today I saw him for the first time since febuary my heart dropped as he gave me a hug and we had the most casual short conversation in a way I sorta frozed but I think it made me worse bc I can never stop thinking about him and please don't tell me to give it time I have I've tried getting over him I don't know what to do I cry so much I just want 2010 back I've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss and I just want it to get it over with I want to stop crying so much:( (link)
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the previous advisor is right
you need to get over him as there will be other guys in your life that they will love you and you yourself will probably love more than this guy. but if you keep on waiting you will lose good opportunities be in true reccuring love
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