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I still like him
I'm 15f and so there was this guy p about last year 2010 summer I fell for him he was the closest I've ever gotten to a guy. But randomly he stopped texting and calling me and when school started it was awkward then like in febuary I asked him to this dance a week later he gave me this note explaining he couldn't go bc he's switching schools.which then I took this guy from a different school and I hated it. After that I didn't see him everyday in my one class that I use to have with him. I have allways had him on my mind I tired everything to get him back to like me I've shedded so many tears for him.all I do now is cry alone bc if I talk to my friends about it at this point in time they'll think I'm weird and obsessed..today I saw him for the first time since febuary my heart dropped as he gave me a hug and we had the most casual short conversation in a way I sorta frozed but I think it made me worse bc I can never stop thinking about him and please don't tell me to give it time I have I've tried getting over him I don't know what to do I cry so much I just want 2010 back I've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss and I just want it to get it over with I want to stop crying so much:(
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the previous advisor is right
you need to get over him as there will be other guys in your life that they will love you and you yourself will probably love more than this guy. but if you keep on waiting you will lose good opportunities be in true reccuring love
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I know that this is hard.
I recently stopped talking to my ex boyfriend of two years and I still think about him every day. We dated for about 2 years and I still really love him.
Some things that help me get over break ups and moving on is to put into perspective that if it really was meant to be then it would be. Everything happens for a reason and I know that this guy seems like perfect and youre totally hung up on him...but it will only work out if he wants it as much as you do. Just try not to think about it, if it happens and you two end up together than great. But if your sitting here thinking about him all the time and crying, and he never comes back...then you wasted a lot of your time being sad and moping when you could meet a great guy that will appreciate you correctly.
I know its hard, I really really do. But just let things fall into place naturally because when things are meant to be, its beautiful and you dont have to try so hard to make it work.
You're still so young and there will be guys that affect you a lot like this. But allow yourself to move on and live and have fun. Im sure your a wonderful girl and guys will be lining up at the door soon :] Dont worry, everything will be fine.
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