Is it normal to want attention from the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?
Question Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 2:07 pm
Do you think its normal to want attention from the opposite sex when your in a relationship? nope, not flirting or any of that, just notice the fact that they seem to like you and you like that but you dont do anything unloyal, you barely talk to them or stand around them cause you know its wrong, isnt this just something you cant ignore and cant help but feel you like it? what do you think?
DearAbby92 answered Wednesday September 14 2011, 12:11 pm: I've been a relationship for over a year, and I like receiving attention from other guys.
Firstly, it's human nature. We are hardwired to flirt, attract 'mates', and have hormones that make us boy/girl crazy sometimes.
One reason is you aren't on the market anymore so you aren't in the mindset that you need to flirt and impress another guy. I also find that since I've have a boyfriend, I don't talk to as many guys. You can start to miss that, so when another guy admires you or even flirts with you it makes you feel special.
Like the person below me said, it's a confidence booster. It reminds you that guys are interested.
It also reminds my boyfriend of what a catch he's got when guys stare at me while were together, so thats fun too :P
chakra answered Wednesday September 14 2011, 8:25 am: it's absolutely normal. If someone finds you attractive, it's such a confidence booster.
You're not doing anything wrong, no ones being unfaithful [ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question ]
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