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I'm going crazy
My bf broke up with me, he gave me an excuse pretty much he said well if we fight this much now how are we going to have a future and we're going to ruin our friendship. Ok it's an excuse bc I was willingly to do anything for us to not fight but he wasn't. I really love him, when he broke up with me I had to have one of my friends stop me from not starving myself or cutting myself. I can't stop crying, it just can't be over I need to talk to him. What do I say is this over u heartbreaker? lol It's weird bc we only had a few fights and stuff and we were doing good a few days ago..please what do I do I'd do anything for this boy and anything to get him back ik thats desperate..but I LOVE HIM!!!!!
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well. i understand what youre going through. i did too. my boyfriend told me the same thing, and some other shit and excuses. its not good to cut and starve though. it is not going to get him back at all. i think that you should just ignore him for a couple weeks. yes, this will be hard. but for me, i finally got the strength to ignore him even if he contacts you for a couple weeks. then start talking. tell him how you feel, one more chance. if not, i know this is hard.. but you will find other guys. experience, possibly make him jealous. and maybe, just maybe, your boyfriend could come back to you in awhile. you gotta stay strong and confident and not hurt yourself. it wont solve anything, or help anything but sympothy. and thats not what you want your relationship to be based on, sympothy and fear that you will hurt yourself more if he does something wrong. imagine how he must feel ...
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Well, is you love him you should realise what is best for him. Talk to him ,work it out. Explain how you feel. Or write him a letter, explaining exactly how you feel about this whole situation, and how much your in love with him. If you keep it all up inside of you, then you're most likely to feel even more emotional pain. I think that the fact that he thought there was something wrong with your two's relationship is what is REALLY getting too you. let it out. Talk to someone. Letting it out will help you so much.
-Ava
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well missy, I know exactly the situation you're in, and I felt exactly like you. Except, i did do "it" and it sucks, so dont do it, it leaves scars, and i wish i never would have done it. so please dont do it, its a mistake. and well you know im here for you so email, IM me, what ever. and i know what you mean it can't be over, who knows maybe its not, maybe he will come back to you. you know how blake is, he always changes his mind, just dont let him get to you. And it was the same exact way with me, we were fine a couple days before, and then WHAM he did the worst thing possible. i'd do anything for him too, and we are very desperate.. haha.. well we cant help it, we really truly deeply love him. And we believed it when he said he loved us. And it could be true, you know, he could stil love you, he could still love me, or not, but you know wat we will get over him, just not any time soon. And hopefully his new g/f will realize wat an ass he is, and dump him. all you can do really is just let time go by and maybe one day he will come bcak, just have faith. if its really meant to be, love will find a way, trust me. and if not, then im sorry, but you will find another person and be like "wtf, blake was just a first love, and he wil not be forgotten,but i love bob now"..well hope everything works out.. dont let him get to you.
-amanda-
lylas, much
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i like that bob character too!! lol..only if he would hurry up and come!!!!, lol
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i think he was giving you a excuse because mabe he has found some one else. or mabe he just doesnt want to go out with you anymore because he just wants to be alone. I think that is excuse to. Just call him and say " look im really sorry about all the fights, even if you dont go back out with me i just want you to know i truly am sorry." if he chooses to move on except that. there is way more hotter and nicer boys out there. you dont need him if hes going to be like that. if he finds another girl, ya you will probably get jealous but just go out with some one and that will take your mind off him. dont you dare missy cut yourself over him. if you do you will either end up in the hospital or have these horrible scars that will stay for along time. and plus you will be ashamed of your self when you see them. and think "how stupid was i". you can also get put in a mental home. ive felt just like you before. i mean JUST like you. you have to accept that its part of being a teen. and you will grow out of it even if you dont notice. you will realize that you shouldnt care what other people think or do. yes it hurts you but youll hurt more cutting yourself. my best friend cut her self over a boy. and now she is totally over him but still has a big scar on her arm. and ive wanted to kill myself over boys before but now im happy i didnt do it and didnt even try. if he was your first love then youll never forget him but youll learn that you have to move on. and if you guys go back out i wish you the best of luck.
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