I am in Middle School, and as you know there is alot of drama. And I have this guy friend who I used to have a crush on..and my friend told him. So it got really awkward between us and then I told him that I only like him as a friend. Well we started talking again for a little while, and then it faded into just saying hi every once in a while, and now we dont even talk. I try to talk to him but he either gives me short answers or just pretends like he didnt hear me. He isnt acting like he is all mad at me because at first I didnt think he was. But then today my friend asked him why we never talk anymore, and its because he said that its all weird because I keep looking at him. Which I looked at him once and that was because i thought he was talking to me. But anyways so then I was really upset and so I told her that I hated him. And she told him and he said "Oh that sucks" and then walks away. As if he doesnt even care. Please, I really want some advice. I want to be friends with him more then anything.
And it seems to me like he's not into you as a friend or anything, and he's not really acting like you're a person who deserves his attention or respect, so why are you wasting your time?
Ignore him and do other stuff, find other friends and you may not want to talk to him unless he talks to you.
heyybaby answered Sunday March 19 2006, 11:47 pm: Okay, girl, you know what, he's a jerk. He's being rude for no reason, acting like he hates you because you 'look at him'? Wow, he should snap back to reality because he probably gets looked at by hundreds of people per day. If you want that badly to be his friend again, try talking to him in forced situations. Like homework, ask him what he got for number 2, or something of the sort. If he's rude about it, then he's really not worth your time. Honestly, he might hold a grudge for a bit, if he's stubborn, and not talk to you at all. It might take a little bit, but I bet you two can be friends again. Good luck! :] [ heyybaby's advice column | Ask heyybaby A Question ]
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