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im confused.
okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused.
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no dont worry youre not lesbian OR bi youre totally normal, your ex turned bi doesnt mean you made him bi.God created guys for girls and girls for guys.youre just young and your hormones are changing and so is the way you think.cmon can you actually look at another girl and say shes hot?!if you can than turn your face away and go "ew"
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hey, well im in the same boat as you, im 13, and have no idea what i am. but just give yourself some time to think about what you think you are, whether it be, bi, straight, or lesbian.. just give it time, and if you want, try experimenting with other girls to see if you like it. if you're not sure, about your sexuality, don't tell people, that you're bi, because in time you could realize that youre not bi, and everyone wouldnt believe if you were or werent bi..so give it some time, and just think about it..=]
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well if your bi your bi but im sure you can help yourself by going to a gay rehab
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Ok, so first of all, Theres really no need to put yourself into categories. I know that doesn't sound like great advice, but it'll get easier.
Most adults will think your just going through a 'phase' but if you really need to talk then there has to be an adult (Ide say kid, but this probaly isn't somthing you want everyone to know, hey?) who take you seriously and you trust.
If i was you ide just go with the flow, and don't lable yourself with anything.
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I do choose to call myself a bi-sexual, but like you; at thirteen I was just horrifically confused.
My best advice to you is to not rush yourself. You have soooooo much time to figure out what it is you like and what labels you want to apply to yourself. Your sexual life is only just beginning, no need to rush it at all.
Pay attention to your feelings, but don't stress over them and don't feel the need to discuss them with people you think will judge you unnecessarily.
Sexual identity is a pretty fluid thing and no one expects you at thirteen to have it all figured out. Give yourself a break, take a deep breath, and let life take you where it will. Don't beat yourself up about anything you feel, just pay attention to what is you want in your relationships and go after that.
Good luck babe.
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Of course your confused. And I wish I had some brilliant thing to say to you to make you feel better but I don't, other than you are 13, so your hormones are kind of crazy.
I know this advice kind of sucks, but the best thing I can say is to give yourself some time to grow and mature. If you are bi or lesbian or straight will be something you will know for sure in the future.
Until then, I would say that this whole "bi" thing you are feeling may have something to do with your ex, or it may be just simple curiosity. Like I said, your hormones are crazy right now and they don't help matters any in knowing what you truly want.
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Im only 13 2. personally, I dont belive in labels. It's not a matter of who you want 2 be. Its a matter of who you r.And nomatter what your family could never hate you. they're ur family! anf if your friends are really your friends, they wont hate you either. If your bi, your bi. If your straight, your straight. Be who you r, not who you wanna be.
~lucky
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well your going through puberty and all and hormones and sexual preference change. sometimes adults blow it off cuz they know you will grow out of it when horemones balance out later. if you dont want to be bi, dont act out anything with a person of the same gender as you. you might get used to it and stay bi for life.then wait and if you think your still bi when your older and still dont want to be, stick with guys. if your fine with it by then try different things
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I honestly don`t think you are. Just because your exboyfriend is doesn`t mean you are. If you have thought emotionaly or physically about being with the same sex, or both sexes then you are bi. Kids around your age say that because they think it is cool. Before people find out they are really bi - they are bi-curious. Hope this helps. ♥
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