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So now what?
Ok, so I like this guy. Alot. Like, he's all I think about, and my heart skips a beat every time I hear his name/voice and I kinda semi stalk him (wich I'm trying to not do, cuz I know it's wrong...and kinda creepy)
Anywho, I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him/ask him out because not telling him and pining away in silence is killing me, but being rejected would only kill me faster.
I think he's kinda hung up on/hurting from these other girls, but he might be over it, I dunno and so now I don't know if I should make a move or not...
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if you really want him, but you think hes still hung up on these girls, become his friend first and just have a good time talking about random. Maybe he will get over those other girls and see something in you. But if you don't feel like waiting that long, then just make a move and see how he reacts, or leave him a note in his locker.. something that will catch his attention and think "wow i already like this girl, shes doesnt do stuff the normal way"
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If you want REALLY WANT HIM, REJECTION WILL NOT STOP YOU FROM ASKING HIM OUT. Trust me, when you're dealing with the game of love, you're going to have to deal with the ups and the downs that are apart of it. So, BIG DEAL. YOU WANT IT, DON'T YOU? SO GO FOR IT. Don't let your fear of rejection stop you. Trust me, you don't want to look back on certain opportunities that were thrown at your foot and question yourself. Questions like , "I wonder what would've, I should've, I would've done, would I have been happy." Don't fear rejection. THink of it as this, that persons only providing you with more time to find the person that you're truly meant to be with IF they reject you. It's not a bad thing. It's just one of those things that are apart of love, and life.
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Well you didn't say it you were on speaking terms with this guy or not, but I will try to answer this for you.
I think that you should focus on being friends with him first, like hanging out and talking.
Then when you guys are friends and everything then go for it, because it you don't you will regret it for a while.
But if you guys do talk a lot or are friens, then I think you should just go ahead and ask him, because like I said before if you don't ask him it will hurt more knowing that you could have and didn't.
And if you don't he is probaby going to find another girl, and I am sure you wouldn't feel to good about that...
Good Luck with him!
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