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Alright. So for about three years i had the same best friend. We were really close and nothing ever got in between us. After three years though, i met another girl who kinda took her place. We were best friends for about a year and a half, but then i met ANOTHER girl who also took the place of my other best friend. After a very short time, me and that girl got too much of each other. I really dont know what to do. It's like i can't have a best friend but i always have at least 5 really great ones. Can anyone relate or give advice on how to get used to my best friend's flaws?
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I have to admit, I'm not a big fan of the term 'best friend'. It's just a way to judge one friend against all your other friends and I don't see why it has to be that way.
As we get older, we make and lose a LOT of friends. It's unfortunate but it's just a fact of life. Rather than struggling to see things differently to how you do now, accept that you just haven't yet found a friend you can really stick with. It may be as you get older, you will be more accepting of other people's flaws but until then, you should carry on being friends with as many different people as you can and if they leave your life, try to just accept it as one of those things, rather than a failing on your part, because it's really not your fault.
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Don't worry yourself over it, you'll find someone who, even through the little annoyances, is just so amazing that you can't imagine life without them. I've known my best friend since I was not even a year old, but many of my other close friends have known theirs for only a year or two. You will eventually find someone, its just a matter of time.
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I can relate totally, its a really hard situation to be in when having more than one best friend, because eventually they will all feel left out somehow. So what i suggest trying to do is just spread your time evenly amongst them and everything should be ok.
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well having a best friend is cool i know cause i've got 1 2 even if she lives in london cause i used to live there 2 but we moved to america! i got friends here 2 and all but sometimes you just cant decide right? uhm i would say : just keep it 2 your self and dont tell anybody who's your best friend cause you can make them feel bad trust me! by the way its normal 2 have more really good friends! well there is nothing i can do sorry but i hope i helped
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First of all, ytou don't have to ahve a best friend, actaully a lot of people don't and that is tottaly fine amd Well what i think is that you shouldn't look for a PERFECT best friend becuase nobody is perfect, not to be rude but maybe your problem is accpeting people. Just accept your durrent best friend and you'll get along great, if she can't do the same for you, tell her that she shoulda nd if she can't she doesnt have her lessson learned. Try not to fight with them and just be real getntle when confronting them with a problem
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Well I think the best thing to do is make all your friends friends with eachother, if you cant have one best friend treat them all equally dont have on take the place of another. Have a group of close friends. It works out for everybody.
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this is deifnately a girl thing. most girls think you have the 'one best friend' when you shouldn't. i have a lot of close friends, kind've like a circle of best friends. that's an easy way where everyones accepted & you don't juss have one friend that's a girl that you can depend on. you have many friends that are girls that way.
-hope that helped!♥
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