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I can never find jeans that are right for me. I have large hips, but I'm short and I have small tighs and a small butt. My jeans are always too big or too small. Does anyone know a store where I can find jeans that would fit someone like me? Websites would be nice. (link)
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Hollister and American Eagal are the best stores to get jeans. They are made for people with ur body type. The jeans will be more then $45 if they are "dystroyed" which means they have rips and stuff they will be like $60. I think there jeans the regualr ones are $40. I hope this helps.
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im not sure but i think i know someone who suffers from bulimia. i really want to know. i have confronted this person about it but they just deny it. i told them facts about doing this and how bad it is for thier health but i still think they do it. is there a way to tell if they do it without confronting them and if so is there a way i can help
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OK so this is very bad. I know someone who is like that also. Yea they get mad because in a way there mad at themselves thats why there doing this to them selves. I think your at the point that you NEED to tell and adult so she can see a docter, psycologist or a nutritionist to help. Also just be there for her. Be like i really care about you your my really good friend and im worried about you. If you need to talk about it im here for you. I really hope your friend gets better. Its a really scarry place to be.
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I have a problem where i eat WAY TOO much! but i hate the way I feel afterwards and last spring I stopped eating completely and I loved the way I felt and looked but when i went to camp i just started eating again.... All I can ever think about is food! I'm not fat! (I was actually voted hottest younger sister by my older sister's guy friends!!!) But I'm just uncomfortable with the way I look. I'm on the shorter side with huge boobs that make me look thinner then i am but still... I want to feel thin! HELP ME!!!! (link)
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ok I know how you feel. Not eating at all is not the solution it SOO bad you might feel good but you arent good like inside. Its so dangerious. What you need to do is eat and balance your food. Dont eat TO much but dont stop eating. Make sure you have protien and other good heathy food. If you want mroe information ask your docter or parent. Also feeling thin is all pycological. If you feel good about yourself and you think your eating right then you will feel thin. I have that same problem and its really bad. So i mean your sisters bf said you were hot so i mean if people think your pretty and everything you should 2. I hope you get better and feel better about yourself. If you want more help just leave me a comment in my feedback.
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Ok if you really like someone, but they're going out with someone else but you know they like you, would it be stupid to wait for them? I really need to know what you guys think about that. Thank you so much!
XoXoJamie (link)
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If they really like you then why are they with someone else?! I think you should talk to him cause if they like you and you like them then why is he with this other girl. But they migth tell you that they like th other person more which might hurt since you really like them but its better knowing then waiting for a wile and THEN finding out that they dont like you.
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Do you think 5ft 4in and 140lbs is large (fat) for a 13 almost 14 year old? Especially one who is a dancer? So many different websites say so many different things I do not know who is right! Plus, my instuctor at my dance studio is stressing how in shape we need to be for the preformance and how we all need to be at slim weights so we will look "fabulous" on stage and in our costumes. So far I am the biggest girl in my 2 classes, whoop de do! (link)
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You are fine. I mean to me you sound healthy you dance which is good so you are excersising. I bet it isnt fat and also girls are all diffent so dont compare yourself the the other girls in your dance class cause they might be built differntly than you. If its really bothering you just ask your mom to call up your doctewr and ask her if your at a good weight I bet most of the weight is musell form dancing. Dont let it bother you. Like my friends tole meEvery girl is a princess if she wants to be lol :)
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Does anyone know any cute hair styles?
I am so sick of the plain half pony, wearing it plain down, or ponytail.
I want to try somethign totally new and cute.
If you have any ideas that are easy and quick
or if there are any good sites
it would be greatly appreciated.
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well i got ym ahir cut and layerd and that was really cute and when your hair is layerd different styles look really good.
My favs:
scrunching you hair
curlying with an iron
messy bun
wavy (loose curls)
low pig tails (stright)
thats all i can think of
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can anyone name me some foods that have protein but arn't really fatning. thanks!
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Protein ais good for you, you need them to survive. So if its little fatty like meat then its fine cause without protien you cant survive. So protein: Meat,yogurt,tofu,eggs,milk,fish,,peanutbutter and there are more but i cant think of them.
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iam 15, and i weigh only 100 lbs. im 5'4". so im inproprotioned. but im a lil puggy. i used to work out everyday. then i got into a wreck and couldnt,because of my medical stability. i want to work out again. but with physical therapy and school and cheerleading and everything, i dont have much time. what can i do to tone up a lot, with out taking too much time. ill rate high (link)
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Well your height and weight look good and healthy. I think if your a lil puggy its fine becuase it will go away naturally. But i was a cheerleader ((a lil bit at camp)) and its hard work! By cheerleading you proobly are working out and building strong muselles ext. I think maybe when you get home you can go for a run or ride a bike to a place near by instead of driving. Things like that. But maybe just eat healthy stay healthy and that might be the best solution...you never know...
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I think i'm gonna sell my iPod and buy an iPod video. However, I've been thinking about whether I should wait for apple to come out with the next iPod or not. Should I buy the new iPod now, or wait and see if a newer one comes out? (link)
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I think you should wait. Cause i got an ipod photo for my birthday and then like a few mounths later a new one came out and i wanted that one. So i think you should wait and see if u like the new one better and if u dont there will sitll be ipod videos in the store that you can buy.
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my bf just broke up with me and i still love him like majorly. i have a shrine devoted to him in my closet and i save his dirty tissues and i stole his gym shirt and one time i even cut off a lock of his hair. (i've done all this AFTER he broke up with me) i rly love him and i spy on him all the time. hes rly hot and i get jealous of his new gfs. the last time he had one i slapped her and called her a bitch but i think that was fair cus hes all mine. only his mom called my mom and i heard them using the words "restraining order". help
PS: andy is a sex god andy if ur reading this plz have my babies! (link)
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hmm well i think you should stop collecting his stuff and adding it to your shrine its a really big turn off. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you love him. Also if ur gonna hit his gf's wear a mask so they wont know its u. Well also i bet this guy thinks your a crazy stalker by now and hes prob creeped out so maybe you should lay off for a wile find a new guy to stlak. umm ya your starting to creep me out so im gonna stop answering goodbye.
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u scare me....
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ok well im 13 years old and i like have a bladder problem. like i still need diapers cus i pee in my pants a lot. i was at my friends house and i accidentally peeed on her dad's leg. i've tried not using diapers but then its worst.... the last time i tried that i peeed on my gym teacher's leg IN SCHOOL!! (link)
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That must be hard. I meen wearing dypers at 13 people must think your a freek. But its not yourfult. About you peeing on people maybe you shouldnt sit on people....just and idea.
Its ok my dog is going through the same thing right now. I beilive in both of you. Maybe you should see a docter
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i have this majpr problem! This kid in 8th grade, in some of my classes called me flat! I kinda am but it annoys me that people think of me in that way. What should i do so that people stop thnking of me that way?
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Well
A. this aNOYing kid is very imature
B. he said it cause he gets sprey on tans and was embarresed
C. I think you should hit him with your planner and give him dirty looks.
D. ALSO if u didnt know he doesnt have a penis so its ok!!
dont worrie about it everyone BUT him thinks your hott and he has no penis so its ok!! be happy!!
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I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do? (link)
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OMG this happend to me! I am always the one to stand up. Well it seems like shes a fare weather friend. Like when she needs a friend she will hang out with you but then when she has the other "popular" "friends" she just trys to fit in. You should tell her how you and your friend feel and tell her that if she isnt gonna be a true firned to you like you are to her then maybe this isnt gonna work. You shouldnt have friends who use you because then there not really friends.
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okay i have brown hair, curly, layered, about shoulder length....is there any other thing i can do w/ it besides striaghten it?? i tried 2 scrunch it, but it gets frizzy and doesnt look right...plz help!! (link)
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It sounds like my hair. A really good way to make it look nice ok condition your hair. then brush it in the show while the warters running then when yous dont your shower DONT touch your hair dont brush it just leave it alone. then get scrunching moose and gell. Instead of scrunching up run your fingers through your hair so its goes down. like your brushing through it. then twist the hair into a bun and clip it let it dry and in the morning it should look good. Also you can do half ponys when the pony part is curly and the bottom is stright.
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Okay guys. I need help. I've been suffering from anorexia for about 3 months now. i've went from 140 to 105 in those months. my dad is starting to get suspishious. i need help. i hate anorexia, but i don't want it to go away. i don't know. help?! i rate highh, higher than the sky. haha. (link)
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OK i know what your are going through. What you need to do is go to a nutritionist. It helped me SO much!! Also start eating slowly dont just one day diside to eat 3 full meals cause its not good. By now your body is is starvation mode. It thinks there is no food around so if your not hungry alot thats why. So start out slowly and you will get hungry a little faster. I know how you feel like you dont want it to go away. I also lost alot fo weight and i was scared cause i was really close to being in danger but i liked loosing the weight. Thats why go to a nutritionist a psycologist and maybe even your docter they really help. Also my friends really helped me so maybe ask your friends for help. PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!
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im very tiny & skinny .. but i have a little bit of fat on my stonmache that i want to get rid of .. i want to loose about 10 pounds only on my stomache - how and what should i do to loose these pounds?
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Your 13 you do not need to loose weight!!! Like you said your tiny & skiny a little fat is healthy. When you get a growth spirt it will go up. Just let it g away natrually its the best way. But if you really cant stand it then excersize not TO much just a little and make sure your healthy and you eat right. Dont let little things like that bother you at 13. Have fun with your friends and hang out those should be the important things fmaily anf friends not weight and diets.
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I'm an advicenator on here, but I really need help for this.
[TiNA_DUH]
K, I weigh 145 lbs & I'm 5'3" and I think I'm fat. Now, everyone tells me I'm not [especially guys] but, I feel like I am. I checked my BMI and it's 26 which is overweight. :( That made me feel really bad about myself. In November, I weigh 137. I gained 8 lbs in a little over 2 months. I really wanna lose weight, to weigh 105, so I'll be healthy again, but everytime I try to go on a diet or change my eating & exercise, I never do. I lack enthusiasm. It's either that, or I just never have time. I'm a freshman in highschool, and I'm piled with homework, so it takes me a while & sometimes I babysit, and then I have to do stuff around the house, and by time I'm done with all that & my shower - I don't have time! How do I manage my time so I can exercise and lose this weight. I hate being fat!
Please help me. My confidence is really going down because of it. I know I'm pretty - but I wish I had the body to go along with it.
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OK i have had the same proboblem as you. I am 5'5 and i was underweight to start but i thoguht i was fat and i stoped eating and lost alot of weight and i got very sick. What happend is i went to a nutrisionist (how ever you spell it) and she helped me see that if you eat the rigth foods its fine if you gain weight or w,e cause your healthy. So i think you are fine the way you are and dont lsiten to those BMI things they arent true they are what got me to stop eating. So if your really worried which i dont think you should be you can see a nutritionist and she/he can help you. Ok just please be careful!!!
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ok, i'm in need of some advice on this one. . .my old gf (let's call her M) from about a year and a half ago has recently been acting very very nice to me. i think she has started to like me again, but i don't like her. and plus, i have a new girlfriend (let's call her C). C and M are both friends, but i don't know what to do about this situation. . . (link)
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This happend to me and my friend. I think you should tell M how you are happy with C and you dont wanna mess up there friendship but you dont like her. Maybe spend time with M also and be nice so maybe you can become really good friends. Then M and C will be happy cause they would both be with you and no one gets hurt. Also since M and C are friends mayeb all three of you can hang out sometimes.
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how do you get on myspace on a school computer ? (link)
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I use to do myspace but your school probobly blocked it becuase alot of schools are trying to get the students to stop doing myspace since its really unsafe. I know my school has a code to get into blocked sites so you can ask a computer teacher if she knows how to get to it but they proboly dont want you on it...I cant think of what else you could do...maybe just fix your myspace at home??
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