sup kids
you can call me C
i give advicce to my friends ALL of the time,
& i absouletly love it.
soo i thought i'd so advicenators would be sweet.
xoxo;
C
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I think french kissing is really gross.. the whole open mouth part. I wouldn't mind making out though even though I haven't done either of them. Do you have to french kiss before you can make out with a guy? And what exactly do you do when you make out with someone? Where do you put your hands? How do you know when the time is right to start using your tongue? Any advice? I rate 5s. (link)
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ugh, i tottaly agree.
about the gross part, that is.
french kissing as you know already, is like tounge on tounge, and when youre like done, your face is all like slobbery and stuff.
making out is like passionate kissing, which can include frenching but its optional.
for both: where to put your hands you ask?
well to make the kiss show signiture and whatever
put your hands around his neck, or in his hair.
best of luck;
-c
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im 13/f and i've just gotten my first boyfriend. He thinks of it as serious and so do I, he got me a dozen roses for Valentines and had them delivered to my 6th period class. I really like him and I wand to kiss him. I know this sounds incredibly stupid but does anyone have any advice because I'm really nervous and I don't know what to do and we're going to the movies saturday and I'm pretty sure he's gonna... (link)
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ooh i remember my first date with a guy.
which was like 4 months ago so im pretty fresh with the whole date thing too.
ok when you go to the movies,
as soon as the lights go down, hes probaly gonna put his arm around you, or hold your hand, or something like that. go for it,
then later in the movie (maybe a boring part, or when he feels the moment is right,) hes probaly gonna lean over and...you know.
idk how you feel about this, but don't kiss him at the moment if theres like a sex scene with another naked girl or something, idk i sometimes get like intimidated.
but just keep it cool,
yur gonna wanna spaz out, but if hes really true,
all of you emotions are going to just come out,
naturally.
and you'll feel that special spark.
good luck babe.
-c
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is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old? (link)
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no, its really not;
well now it might be,
but when you're older its not big.
my 14 year old friend (whos in 8th grade)
is going with a 17 year old (whos in 12th grade)
THAT is an age difference.
just don't sweat it.
it may be a big deal now, but not later.
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i've said in one of my recent questions that i've been hanging out with new people... those people would happen to be.. the druggies of our school... they've been asking me to try some stuff... and im thinking about doing it... does anyone have any advice on or websites i could go to... to maybe get some info on these types of things! appreciated! (link)
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i know this sounds nieve,
but don't do it.
here are my top 3 reasons;
-what if you get caught?
-what will your parents say?
-once you start you cant stop
if you need any more con's
then please talk to me.
good luck & do what you think is RIGHT.
C
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i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared. (link)
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no babe, i understand,
i would be tottaly feeling like this too.
i really don't think you are pregnant,
my one friend gets her period like in a weird pattern
such as it tends to skip months
i think you should ask a docter,
maybe any you know personaly?
if not, or its too awkward
look it up.
ask a health teacher.
or even ask a bold friend to ask a professional,
good luck
C
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ok so sorry this is sorta long. well i came downstairs today and my mom is sitting at the computer looking at flights and she goes, "ok so there is this mothers weekend thing at ur sisters college, but its the weekend of your birthday." (she was asking me what i thought, but ovbiously she was already looking at flights so she wanted to go there.) so i told her it was fine whatever, to go. then i just walked away. then i hear her quickly call my sister and say, "shes fine, im coming." i am so mad. not only is it my bday its my sweet 16. its like she likes my sister better and cares nothing about my birthday. would anyone else be offended/upset if this happened? i just dont know what to do. i feel like crap. (link)
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yow,
no i would absoulutely feel the same way,
what your mom is doing is wrong,
she is being selfish and un-fair.
just bc you said its ok dosnt mean its ok,
you should tell her that.
if that dosnt work, then ill try to help more,
good luck;
C
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alright i ahve had a bf for 6 months and i have been havin ttrouble wit my parents since. they think i should have a black bf but i cant help. it is what i like not them. i have really strong feeling for him and i only see hime 2-3 times a month. i am 15 and he is 16. he doest go to the same school as me but i have been dealin wit it. anyways i have tryed tellin my parents that i cant help who i like and they cant stop me from it. well they havent stopped but now my mom says i always have an attutide wit her and i have changed. thing is i havent changed i just gotten older. and she still treats me like a kid. what should i do.. (link)
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oh my. usually my parents are telling me not to be racist, and to never judge a person by the outside, but on the inside.
seems to me you need to teach your parents that lesson.
tell them straight out-
that they are being racist and cruel.
and tell them they are the ones acting like the kids.
ask them if they've ever heard the phrase
"never judge a book by its cover"
then if that dosnt work, then talk to me.
hope everything works out,
C
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ok i have this new boyfriend. well he really is not that new but you get the picture. well we just started to hug today like when i saw him in the morning and when we left school we hugged to say good-bye. well he says that he thinks that we are to young to kiss and stuff but i almost kinda wanted to have my first kiss with him but i don't think that that would happen because he thinks that we are to young to kiss. what should i do?
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hmm sounds like you're kind of young.
if you are under 7th grade than ill say:
you are kind of young to be kissing, and you should respect his wishes, think about it, what if you were in his place?]
and if you are 7th or up:
seems like this kid is a prude.
if you really like him, you will respect how he feels, dont dump him bc of not kissing, thats just dumb, (i would know.)
so what i am trying to say is:
respect him & his not wanting to kiss...yet.
best of luck;
C
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Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...) (link)
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Oooh dear,
I know you might "love" eachother for now.
but you don't want this the rest of high school,
and maybe collage. just think of all of the things you might miss out on.
if he proposes, i would say no, because
1. how will your parents take it?
2. how will HIS parents take it?
3. how will everyone else take it?
i mean, if you love him you wouldnt care,
but you don't need to be tied down to a man at the age of 15!!
best of luck my darling;
C
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I know that my boyfriend is going to officially propose to me (19/f) sometime soon. He told me he bought a ring and that he's waiting for the right time to give it to me. I'm okay with the fact that he told me, I'm actually pretty glad about it. You see girls in the movies all the time that are pressured into going along with engagement. I think it was really respectful of him to talk about it with me, it's just that I'm not quite sure how to act when the time comes. Obviously I'll be happy, but since I'm probably not going to be surprised should I sort of pretend to be? I tend to show very little emotion and I think it might hurt his feelings if I don't appear to be happy or surprised or SOMETHING. I want it to be really special. Can anybody help me out here? (link)
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even though i am far, far, far from this stage,
i think that he will catch you off-guard, beacause if he loves you so much to want to marry you, he will know your "emotion problem"
well not really problem, but you know.
just act nautural.
ooh and good luck,
C
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14/f...okay I really really like one of my better guy friends named Warren. But no one knows it except me. Anyways I he was talking with one of my other friends and he said that he thinks that I like him a little (I tend to make things obvious). I totally freaked out and avoided him for a while so now he doesn't think I *like like* him anymore. It's good for now but I have a feeling that he *might* feel the same way about me. I'm not sure though. Even if he does we both don't want to make a move probably because we don't want the other one acting weird. I have no idea what to do. As far as how to act. Eventually I want him to know that I like him. But I'm not sure about the timing, or even if I should tell him. Should I wait for him to make the first move? What if he doesn't? I'm really confused...PLEASE HELP ME!
thanx
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haha i appreciate your enthusiasum.
i think that you and this kid need to talk.
straight out.
no if's, and's, or but's.
just lay it down. see how he feels, and just make everything tottaly calm and honest.
be confident, and strong.
best of luck to you;
C
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My best friend Shianne has now screwed me over 2 times. It seems every time I tell her I like a guy, she offers to "help me with them" and she always ends up giving them her number, and dating them behind me back!! But she doesn't even tell me until the day after they start dating!
She did it with a guy named Steven, and now Brandon. Then whenever she breaks up with them, she expects me to not like them anymore, and to not want to date them because "friends ex boyfriends are off limits to other friends."
What do i do?!?
Should I really consider her my BEST friend if she's done this to me two times already?
Should I wait to see if she does it again?
I honestly don't know what to do, and I'd LOVE for some honest suggestions.
-Thank you so much!-
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ew. seems to me your friend is a skank!
that is like horrible.
OBVIOUSLY she's not your best friend and probaly i won't be the only one to tell you this but...find a new best friend. it may be hard in all of thes cliques, clashes, and cliches, but i think a brilliant girl like you could fit in.
best of luck;
C
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i was typeing on my computer and i hit a key and it made all the print 5X's bigger. so if i go on a website all their print is much bigger than it should be . how can i undo this ? (link)
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go into internet; at the top there are things taht say file, edit, view, etc. go to view; go to fonts, then chose the size you want!
& there you go!
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