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i've said in one of my recent questions that i've been hanging out with new people... those people would happen to be.. the druggies of our school... they've been asking me to try some stuff... and im thinking about doing it... does anyone have any advice on or websites i could go to... to maybe get some info on these types of things! appreciated!
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First of all, I'm not going to tell you not to do it. I'm not your mom. I will say that it depends on how old you are and what the drugs are. If you're 17 and thinking about trying drinking, that's not really that bad. If you're 13 and thinking about trying meth, get away from these people.
Druggies are notoriously shallow bastards. If you refuse to do drugs with them, they'll probably dump you as a friend. It doesn't really matter, though, because they're not going to do anything with their lives. No druggie I ever hung out with in high school ever made it out of high school mentally. They're either pregnant meth-heads or stoners that have no job and live in their parent's basement.
Yeah, kids experiment. Almost everyone tries something. But the fact that they're "druggies," that is, ADDICTED to something, at such a young age means that they're bad news, and probably a little screwed up in the head as well.
Oh, and keep in mind that people in the grip of addictions don't give one shit about you. They'll lie to you, steal from you, manipulate you, etc. And if they're just addicted to pot, then they'll be lazy and boring. Trust me. All druggies ever talk about is drugs, so if you've got a personality at all, you'll get bored. Hope this helps.
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i know this sounds nieve,
but don't do it.
here are my top 3 reasons;
-what if you get caught?
-what will your parents say?
-once you start you cant stop
if you need any more con's
then please talk to me.
good luck & do what you think is RIGHT.
C
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well i dont know what drugs these friends of yours use. im sure youll hear alot about how bad they are and what not and up to a point i agree. the only drug ive EVER done was pot, when offered anything stronger from my friends just a simple shake of my head an saying naw, im cool,was enough to get it on to another subject. if they really are your friends just saying no thanks will be enough to get them off your back.when i 1st started hanging out with people that smoked pot and did acid, i came right out and asked my mom about it, she told me if your going to do anything, do pot, and never touch anything else. she then told me with acid its possible to go on a bad "trip" an see all kinds of jacked up s#it. that was enough for me, i never had any trouble with pot, i dident take it to school or work, and only used occasionally with my friends. some people will think my mom was nuts, but im thankful to her because of what she said, and at 15 and having complete accsess to all kinds of drugs where i grew up hearing my mom say id rather you do pot than anything else was enough to tell me the other drugs were definately not for me. it is MY PERSONAL OPPINION, and personal oppinion only that pot is not that bad. ive also never felt as tho it were a"GATEWAY DRUG" (youll hear and see that alot as you research drugs) because people are responsible for thier own action's and myself and many of my friends are living proof, smoking pot doesent mean you just wind up on harder stuff. heres a site on pot you can start your research with [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
im not telling you drugs of any kind are ok for you, what i am saying is that if your thinking about doing any drugs you should look up all the kinds you have acssess to and know just exactly what it is your thinking about.
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That old fashioned peer pressure is really difficult isn't it? They will make the drugs seem like they are safe and harmless. They will make you think nothing will happen to you if you do them. They will even make you feel like less of a person because you are clean and they are not. However, either they don't know the truth or they are too stupid to care! You apparently know the truth about drugs or you wouldn't be asking. I don't think you are asking for a lecture so I will just give you some ways to say "no" without sounding uncool.
"I respect myself more than that".
"I know people that are addicted and they live miserable lives, I like my life just fine, thank-you."
"Haven't you heard about the new task force that is busting everyone in this area, I'd be afraid to have that stuff on me if I were you."
"I'm allergic to so many things I might have an allergic reaction and die immediatly".
" I know how to have fun without them".
Here's the sites you might like:
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Its simple- don't do it. There are plenty of examples and reasons on why not to do it so why even bother? Those kids arent going to be anything in their lives except sick or dead. I see too much of that shit on my job and what it does to people's bodies and not to mention if you get caught with possession of a controlled substance- hey good luck finding a real job any higher than Wendy's. 10 minutes of euphoria isnt worth a lifetime of regret.
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