Question Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 1:44 am
im 13/f and i've just gotten my first boyfriend. He thinks of it as serious and so do I, he got me a dozen roses for Valentines and had them delivered to my 6th period class. I really like him and I wand to kiss him. I know this sounds incredibly stupid but does anyone have any advice because I'm really nervous and I don't know what to do and we're going to the movies saturday and I'm pretty sure he's gonna...
SxExAxNx answered Friday February 17 2006, 1:17 am: Just let things go down you kno. Look him in the eyes then lean in and let him come most of the way but you gotta come in a little bit. Be careful after you get your first your going to wanna do it alot more. my gf was nervous about it so i asked her b4 i did just w.e is easier wit u. hope it helps. [ SxExAxNx's advice column | Ask SxExAxNx A Question ]
lovexsweetxlove answered Thursday February 16 2006, 9:44 am: Before your first kiss its always nerve racking. But once it happens you feel so relieved and you want to kiss ALL the time lol.
When he leans in for the kiss, don't just sit there, kiss him back, if he starts to make out or w/e and your farely new at this, pull away. You can't be forced into something the first time. Don't move right before he kisses you because he'll think there is something wrong with him or you don't like him. Jus tgo with the flow, I know this is very vague ,but you can't really go step by step through a kiss because everyone is different. I really hope I helped. Just relax, everyone is nervous during their first kiss.
Marta [ lovexsweetxlove's advice column | Ask lovexsweetxlove A Question ]
loveataglancexX answered Thursday February 16 2006, 9:43 am: ooh i remember my first date with a guy.
which was like 4 months ago so im pretty fresh with the whole date thing too.
ok when you go to the movies,
as soon as the lights go down, hes probaly gonna put his arm around you, or hold your hand, or something like that. go for it,
then later in the movie (maybe a boring part, or when he feels the moment is right,) hes probaly gonna lean over and...you know.
idk how you feel about this, but don't kiss him at the moment if theres like a sex scene with another naked girl or something, idk i sometimes get like intimidated.
but just keep it cool,
yur gonna wanna spaz out, but if hes really true,
all of you emotions are going to just come out,
naturally.
and you'll feel that special spark.
good luck babe.
-c [ loveataglancexX's advice column | Ask loveataglancexX A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 6:44 am: Well depends what kind of kiss you mean..
For like just regular kiss just make it simple..
But i`m guessing you mean like making out..
Well hun its really not that hard and it sure doesn`t take alot.. Its not hard trust me..
Well really just go with what he does and take your time.. after a few times you`ll both figure out what you both like while kissing..
Here are some tips..
-Brush your teeth before kissing,or have decent breath
-Don`t close your mouth while his tongue being in yours
-Don`t try to gag him with your tongue
-Swallow your spit before kissing
-Maybe touch him a little bit like on his stomach/sides or behind his neck..
-Also maybe the movies isn`t a good place for the first kiss cuz you`ll be nervous it might be easier if you guys did this a lone like maybe like as a goodbye kiss.. ♥Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
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