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best friends
ok well i have a best friend and i lov eher so mucha dn weve been best friends from like the first time we met and were always together and everyone is always like 'ur like the olsen twins,always together, always the same, never fighting' and we love that were totally different, shes blond long hair with fair skin and angelic girlie dress sense and im brown hair rock chick.
anyway this new girl has come and totally taken her away! what do i do ignore or say something
thanx
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ok i kinda know how you feel sence me and my best friend now go to different high schools and she never stops talking about her other friends. heres the deal you and her are best friends and that will never change if your up set let her know in a kind unjelus sounding way.
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omgg are you me?? like im in the same situation also! but i have already solved it...talk to her and tell her that you feel like your loosing her as a bestfriend and everything , when i said that to my bestfriend shw said no one could take my place and its true what you have with your bestfriend, that girl will never have and shes knew so im sure your bestfriend is just getting to know her
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say something! you've been best friends for a while - if people call you the olsen twins it means you're really close- dont loose a good firend because of a new girl
<33 meg
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I know that this is a really rough thing to go through. But don't let your amazing friendship fade away! This new girl is a threat to you, but i think the best you can do is stay with your friend, and continue doing the things together that you always have. It's not really worth trying to sabotage the new friendship, because that will just hurt everyone. Actually, if you like the new girl enough, you could try hanging out, the three of you, together. If you develop a friendship with this new girl, it could be the beginning of something new, and very good. But if that's not gonna happen, then just stick it out and do your best to keep your old friend too.
good luck!
xo maddie
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Id tell her "I miss OUR friendship" Let her know how you feel. Then leave it up to her to decide what she feels & wants. If it truely is important to her she will include you in more. And if she ends up not caring- then you will know she is not a friend you need.
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