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ok to guys out there plese help, would it sound all clingy and stuff if i asked my boyfriend if he loves me more than he loved his ex?
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um yeah sorry it would sound a little clingy and needy. maybe not if you guys have been togethor for like a year or more. but in my opinion i think you dont need to ask him this. it might sound like you cant trust him. hope i helped and plz rate me thanks ♥ terri!!!
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The question is, do u really need to ask yur bf this? It might cause him to think you dont trust him. I would better stick with not asking him!
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Well, you could ask him but from first hand experiance, it can get kind of messy. He does love you now and you know that because he is with you now and not her. it's understandable that your curious but he could get very uncomfortable and when I asked... he got very quiet for quite a few days. So I personally wouldn't risk it.
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It's not clingy, but it's best not to bring up past relationships. Of course he's going to say he loves you more.
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It's probably not the greatest idea. I've seen firsthand that this is the kind of stuff that gets a relationship into trouble... of course i dont know the guy, but generally, guys arent big on uncomfortable questions about exes, etc.
He loves you! Definitely be grateful for that. Don't worry about his past relationships, because you have him now and you're a lucky girl for it.
good luck <3
xo maddie
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I understand your curiosity but I don't think it is a good idea to ask.
Not that you would be clingy or any of that, its just I don't think its a great idea to bring up somebody's ex. It automatically puts them on the defensive.
Rest assured, if he really loved her at all, it wasn't in the same way he loves you. All relationships are different.
If you do ask, then don't come unglued if he should say no. Guys are not necessarily well known for choosing the right words. If it was a big deal he would still be with her. Hes not. :)
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No i dont think it would. Im not a guy- but if you want to know something i think you should ask.
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Well, I'm not a guy (if you couldn't tell my the name) but I personally don't think it would sound that way. It may seem like a very awkward question if you aren't that far into your relationship... say 5 or 6 months. However, this is just in my opinion. What I think wouldn't be a clingy sounding question might sound that way to someone else. So what you can say to him is "I know this seems so random, but I really have to ask you something. Don't take it the wrong way and don't think that I'm being jealous or anything.. But do you love me now more than you loved your ex?"
I always live in the moment. Never doubt anything. Just roll with the punches.
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You deserve to know!! ♥ Dez
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