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crazy boy...
okay, there's this boy that i can't decide if i like or not. Half the time, he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the other half, he's a horrible jerk. he'll be a total jerk to me (although he says he's just kidding, it's still very cruel), then when i get mad at him, he'll be super sweet. Whenever he calls or texts me, i can't help but smile, because it's always something funny or sweet. But in some ways, i can't stand him. He's really shallow sometimes. he's had girlfriends, broken up with them, and had another a day later. i don't want to be one of those girls. but what if he asks me out? i think he might like me. Should i give him a chance?
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Give him a chance. But warn him about how you don't want to be a girl that he breaks up quickly and dates another the next day. Ask him if he would do that to you. If he says yes or seems hesitant then tell him you can't date him then. Or you could do what you want and listen to your gut feeling.
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i'm probably being a downer but i think you should avoid going out with this guy. as a 17 year old guy in high school, i know a thing or two about how guys are, the way they act and pretend to get what they want. i'd have to say at least 75% of guys in high school are full of sht when they talk to girls. guys aren't going to change while they're in high school because they'll always be in the same atmosphere, like same friends and stuff like that. so if he's had a bunch of girlfriends so far, he'll probably continue the same trend.
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Theres nothing wrong with testing the waters. If you do end up one of those "girls" then you know what not to look for in another boyfriend future-wise. If he asks I'd totally say yes if you really like him, ya know? But thinking about it isnt going to prove anything!? :) Good luck with the boy!
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