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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out? (link)
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*`you can just tell people that they should just mind their own business? looks arent everythinq and if he`s a nice quy and actually LiiSTENS to you, thats special =] dont worry about what other people think, juss follow your heart. =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
P.S.- qood luckk!
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My acne seems to get worse and worse everyday.
It's very embarrassing to go to school now.
It has not been getting better.
I got this nutrogena stuff and it's not working and i'm not going to the dermatologist until next monday.
Is there anyway I could possibly get my face to clear up just a little over the weekend before school next week? (link)
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i know what you mean! when i get my period, my acne is HORRiBLE!! =[ its the worst. there's a liquid solution you might want to try though.. it's called clean & clear adavantage acne clearing system (it's a kit);; i saw results OVERNiGHT!! =] the only thing is you can't overdo it because you have to remember acne products do tend to suck the moisture out of your skin. =[ (maybe try using it every OTHER night?) well, i hope you get a chance to use this stuff because it really works! hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- GO0D LUCKK!!) =D
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Hi, I was watching BET, and there was a song,
about like saying no to sex and stuff, and I missed the title and artist, Ive been searching on google but I cant find anything. Does anyone know what song this might be? (link)
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well..there's an old song that has morals in it..it's supposed to encourage lil kids that sex, drugs, and other things are not the keys to their future. this song is a rap
i know i can by: nas
lol im not sure what song it could be, but this is a good song anyways! =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- hope you find it soon!) =]
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Okay so this whole thing is going to sound extremely silly but here goes...
I have this problem with falling for guys that coincidentally happen to be leaving the country in the very near future. Like...I got into a relationship with this guy that when we got involved, we both knew that he was going to Africa the next year. The relationship lasted about 8 months and we broke up before he left. A few months after that, I had a fling with a guy that's going to Japan next summer. A few months after that, I had a fling with a soldier who's going to Iraq in February. The last couple of weeks I've been having a thing with a soldier in Iraq...well, see, we're really good friends, he just left Thursday to go back, and he's coming back to the United States in October of 2007. This last one who left on Thursday, we've been talking and I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to be with him and all I can think about is how it's just not fair!!!
What should I do? (link)
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That's a rough situation there. Yeah, it sounds like it sucks big time (lol) but, unfortunately, there's not really much you can do about it.. (It's life, you know?), but that shouldn't keep you from searching! Just be sure to find out backround information first before you try and get involved with the person,and if you know they're leaving, there's not really much point in being with them if they have to leave you..(Right?)(I know that may sound harsh but it's the truth) =/ Anyways, just keep your head held up high! You'll find the right one eventually! hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(sorry my 'grammar, spelling, and puncuation' sucks..its how I type..which I do know how to do)
(P.S.- GO0D lUCKK!!) =D
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i recently broke up w/ my girlfriend so have invited lots of girls to my myspace and about .5 have accepted. i need advice about what to talk about when i send messages b/c i don't have much to go by as they are still strangers. and i don't know how long to wait before making contact. please note, i think that all of them are cute and am interested in dating but don't want to come across as desperate or needy. any suggestions? thanks (link)
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i think dat you should talk 2 dem like you do 2 your friends. as girls, you do need to repsect them and their privacy soo try not to ask too many personal questions =];; try askin them what theyre into, what they like to do, etc. =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck!) =]
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i have just turned 14 and all my friends but me have gotten thier peirods.
is it possible not to get ur peirod if ur a normal healthy girl?
am i just late because they make fun of me and say im the only child left.
its iembarssing and i feel left out.
is that weird or normal?
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it's completely normal =];; some girls get it later/earlier than others;; yeah i can see how that can be a bit embarrasing, but in a way you`re kinda lucky =];; your period can be painful, give you TONS of mood swings, and make you stressed over nothing. enjoy the time you DONT have your period! but on the other hand, expect it at ANY time. be prepared! maybe carry a padd with you everywhere you go juss in case..! but anyways, dont worry about the teasing =] hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
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ok.
15/f.
My question is.. does age really matter? like i like this guy.. we'll call him... M. well M is a bit younger then me.. like 6 months or something.. we're in the same grade and everything.. if we were to go out would that be wrong because of the age?
Like i'm gonna be 16 in February but he'll still be 15.. i guess all i'm trying to say is that.. since we're in the same grade.. would age matter?
thank you. any help is appreciated:] (link)
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age definitely doesnt matter. a lot of people can have a large age difference but it doesnt matter because as lonq as they're in love, nothing else matters =] and 6 months isnt relle a big deal! so if you like him, go for it =] hope i helped!
best wishes,
chikita
(P.S.-GOOD LUCK!) =D
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Ok so my cat somehow chewed my ipod headphones. Does anyone know a good replacement because I really dont want to pay 30 bucks to order the same ones through apple. Thanks! (link)
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try goin to a local supermarket or something and check out their electronics department. they actually might have BETTER headphones than those lil ear buds. you could probably by some that kan wrap around the back of your ear which are a lot more comfortable. or you can juss by normal ear buds if das what you perfer..its all about preferance && style =] hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
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I can't loose him.
I can't.
He just broke up with me.
I love him.
I can't do this.
I can't give him up this easily.
What do i do? (link)
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da way i see it, you hav 2 optionsz;;
-tell him how you feel (let it all out, tell him you dont wanna let him go && you still wanna continue your relationship wid him)
OR
-TRY to move on (cry it all out, face that there are other fish in the sea, and your opportunity to hav a relationship will come agen)
i kno its hard but you cant juss sit there cryin, regretin everythin, and juss bein completely miserable! juss think about wat you really want and if this guy is worth it. hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- GOOD LUCK)
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I have aim triton and I want to save and upload my buddylist and paste and save it to a different name.
Does any1 know how to do that? (link)
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it doesnt work on triton =[ ;; dat AIM is kinda messed up ;; consider downloadin da newest version..i think its called AIM 6.0..its a WHOLE lot better and WAYY easier 2 use! =] hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
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16/f.
alright well i really like this kid "B". and i really thought he liked me too. we talked and everything and then we hooked up at a party. he always flirts with me and everything too. well last saturday he called and invited me and my friend to a party. we went. but he was being a real asshole to me. he was calling me a bitch and everything in the car. then we got to the party and he was like slapping my butt and tapping me on the shoulder and moving. then i was talking to this girl and she said that she just met him and she wanted to hook up with him. she said that he kissed her before he left to get us. that really made me mad. and THEN he started kissing me in front of her. and then they had sex. then he was kissing every girl BUT me. he even tried kissing my friend even though she has a b/f. she pushed him away of course. i was so mad i sat in the bathroom and i wanted to cry. but then i decided that i wouldnt let him ruin my night. so i went back to the party and i started talking to his best friend "E" that ive known since like 4th grade. he was really drunk but he kept hugging me and he told me that he's always thought i was cute but he doesnt know why he never talked to me. he said that he liked me. then i danced with him and after an hour of us talking he kissed me. he did tell me that he acts like a whore when he is drunk. he said he just wanted to stick with me. but i went upstairs and then came back down and the chick that had sex with "B" was flirting with "E". then she started making out with him. i got mad again and i just sat down. my friend went and called him a whore and said that he was an a-hole. i sat next to him and started talking to this guy about something and "E" was like "do you hate me" and i told him no but i thought that he was a whore. then he was like "im soo sorry i really like you" and the kid next to me was like if you really liked her you wouldnt be making out with the chick next to you. well by then the chick was making out with another guy. well "E" went upstairs and layed down and i had to go up there for a drink and me and him started talking and he said he was really sorry. but then "B" kept touching my shoulder and moving again. he kept asking if i was gonna have sex with "E" and i kept telling him no. he started being an a-hole again. well when everyone fell asleep, me and "E" went downstairs and hooked up. we didnt have sex though. well then that chick had sex with another guy. she was disgusting. but then the next morning "B" kept asking me if me and "E" had sex and i kept telling him no and he kept calling me a whore. "E" held my hand the whole way home and everything and gave me a kiss goodbye. the next day i got his number and i called him. then yesterday me, him, his sister and "B" hung out. and he was holding my hand and everything but "B" was again being mean to me. he kept calling me a bitch and we all went to mall. he was like "dont walk by me" and i was like "w/e" but then when we got into the car to go get something to eat he was like "why are you so mean to me" and i was like "are you kidding me? your mean to me" and he told me he was sorry and he kissed my hand right in front of "E". then when "E" was in his house to get something "B" was like this is my song to you and it the beginning went "i never knew how loved felt until i fell in love with you" and he kept flirting with me. we all went out to eat. and he kept staring at me even though i was sitting next to "E". idk what to do. there both a little "whorish" but i really do have feelings for them.
i get that weird feeling in my stomach when "B" touches me like i just want to be with him and when "E" touches me all i want do to is cuddle with him and be with him. their best friends and that makes this really hard. "E" has some flaws to though. he's always talken about hooking up with other girls in front of me. i try not to pay attention but it gets me mad. so does anyone know what i should do??? (link)
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W0WW;; you have a real situation on your hands here =/..well 1st things 1st =] dont let that girl get to you! she seems like a lil hoe and you shouldnt waste your time worryin about her..number 2- be careful on which guy you choose! both these guys seem like they cant control themselves very well which can lead to a lot of misunderstanding and stress! i cant tell you which guy to choose, but what i can tell you is just listen to your heart. i know that may not seem like much, but its all you really need to do! =] hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
(p.s.- GOOD LUCK!! =D)
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What is everyone's favorite songs?
I need to add more songs to my ipod, since it was stolen. List about 5 of your favorite songs, with teh artist. please? Thanks! (link)
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here are 5 of my favorite songsz =] ::
dem jeans- chingy ft. jermaine dupri
naggin- ying yang twins
rock yo hips- crime mob ft. lil scrappy
irreplaceable- beyonce
you should be my girl- sammie ft. sean paul
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hi well my i have a dwarf rabbit thats about a yr. old. he is really cute and everything but i can never take him out because he is always nibbling on things and stuff so i have to keep him in a smaller place whenever i let him out. Does anyone have any ideas what i can give him, like toys rabbitsl ike, or a good place for him to run around.
thxx xo Amber (link)
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try buying your rabbit some chew toys. i used to have a guinea pigg who chewed on everything it could get its grubby lil paws on! =/ but if you go to a pet store, dey should have sum wooden chew toys dat should keep your rabbit busy. or try givin your rabbit a carrot. =] lol hope i helped!
sincerely,
chikita
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what are some way to become the life of the party? (link)
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bein the life of a party or even juss a group at a party FEELS GREAT!! ways of bein the life of a party include crackin jokes, dancin (ALOT), and juss bein urself! personally, im wild, loud, silly, and outgoin (most of the time) and all dis helps me hav GREAT times at parties..but the key element is to not think so much! juss be urself. hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(p.s.- good luck) =D
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hey...i got this big-ass bruise from my brother slamming my arm in a door...twice...and its all like dark brown and yellow...and i know that it turns yellow when its getting better but it keeps getting more brown and blueish instead...is that bad? what do i need to do? (link)
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you should try gettin some icy-hot cream, rubb it on your bruise, and wrap it. it may be a lil painful, but it helps! if it keeps turning back to dark blue, it may mean you`ve hitt your bruise again (try to be careful!)..im not much of a doctor, but this is what i do when i have bruises! hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- get better soon!) =D
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ok well im 14 and me and my friend have been best friends pretty much sense we were like 3 or 4 and like ever sense i can remember she has always been kind of like jelious when ever i get a new realllyy good friend she like freaks out. like right now in 7th grade i became best friends with my friend bailey, and now she has like been oh my gosh is bailey taking my spot? am i just like some annoyance that thinks shes your best friend? and i don't know its like really bothering me and i keep telling her no one can take her place, but like today i told her i wasn\'t gonna ride the bus home because my boyfriend was staying after school and hes been sick so i wnted to like hang out with him, and she left me a voice mail saying ok what is up with you, i mean if bailey is your new best friend then maybe i should just get some one to act like my bew best friend and i dont know she is just like totally going over board and i don\'t know what to do, like the more she does this the more i am getting annoyed with her and not wanting to hang out with her, but how do i tell her to stop? please help me with this guys!!! thanks! (link)
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sometimes, friends come 2 weird conclusions dat sum1 could juss come out of nowhere and take their spot! =/ what you need 2 do isz have a long talk wid your friend and tell her dat NO MATTER WHAT, you`ll always be der 4 her and no1 could EVER take her spot (make shure she feelsz confident about what your saying)! tell her how you feel about her as a friend and show her dat you care about her feelings. explain 2 her dat your new friend is sum1 you`re close wit, but she wont replace her as a friend. and if you have this talk in person, it might be a little better cause den you can give her a bigg hugg for comfort =] hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck!!) =D
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13/f
When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?
Can I have an example of what to say? (link)
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yeah when a guy asks a girl out, its kinda awkward if we wanna say no and and sometimes we even get a lil nervous and dont know what to say..so i know how you feel! try smiling and saying "im sorry, but i only like you as a friend" or "im flattered, but id rather be friends" hope i helped!! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck) =D
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ok so like im like this girl and like i really need your help. im frends with this girl named nicole sanchez but i just dont know how to tell her that i love ur because she is the bestestestest frend in da world. she rocks my socks off. she is one of my bestest frends and i dunno wat i would do without her. PLEASE HELP. thnxx bye.
--Holly =D (link)
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W3ll ii THiiNK iiF SH3 R3AD DAT..SH3`D HAV AN 100 WATT SMiiL3 =]
P.S.- DAYUMM SH35Z R3ll3 lUCKii 2 HAV A FR3ND LYK YU
sincerely,
chikita
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i dont know what is wrong with me i dont know weather im afriad of committment or not i want guys to like me i want to have a relationship i want what other people have you know but everytime i get asked out i always find a fault and say not and no im really not shallow or anything and i want a boyfriend so bad some times and than other times i dont you know i just cant make up my mind everytime when i can have a relationship i always seem to convince myself that'll it'll never work out and most of the guys i like never ask me out so am i just being picky or am i just afriad of committment its so confusing i want somebody so bad one minute i want to be loved touched and you feel wanted but than i can never bring myself to really say yes and go for it because i dont know help me please (link)
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dont try 2 force yourself 2 have feelings 4 someone! when you really like someone you`ll know. but 1 thing us girls have a problem with isz expectations. sometimes we expect 2 much from guys. try 2 give one a chance! =] even if you neva thought of you 2 together..try it out and see what comes out of it! who knows..maybe you`ll end up wid da type of guy you`ve been longing for! =]
hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.-good luck =])
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uhm, last year i was popular. well not the most popular group in school but my clique was 2nd most popular..
this year i dont know what happened! when i walk by in the hall no one even notices me. last year people were always screaming my name. i miss it =/
i wanna be more popular again but nobody will let me in their group. dont tell me just to talk to them, i need more then that. its not that easy (link)
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yeah popularity kan seem like a bigg issue theze daysz..if you really want 2 be popular, try being on a good page wid every1..sometimes,like you said, talkin 2 people iznt dat easy. what you might wanna consider tryin is makin your OWN group..individually it might seem hard to talk 2 people, but if you`re in a group, it might be a lil easier! hope i helpedd!!
sincerely,
chikita
(good luck) =]
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