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why me?
Okay so this whole thing is going to sound extremely silly but here goes...
I have this problem with falling for guys that coincidentally happen to be leaving the country in the very near future. Like...I got into a relationship with this guy that when we got involved, we both knew that he was going to Africa the next year. The relationship lasted about 8 months and we broke up before he left. A few months after that, I had a fling with a guy that's going to Japan next summer. A few months after that, I had a fling with a soldier who's going to Iraq in February. The last couple of weeks I've been having a thing with a soldier in Iraq...well, see, we're really good friends, he just left Thursday to go back, and he's coming back to the United States in October of 2007. This last one who left on Thursday, we've been talking and I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to be with him and all I can think about is how it's just not fair!!!
What should I do?
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My poor girl...
I have a friend that is currently going through the same problem as you...only the guy she likes is moving to Boston...
I will give to you the same advice i gave to her...
If the person is moving someplace else permanently then you should try getting over it and find someone else. Try and get to know a person before you get to like him, enough for you to know he is not going to leave.
Have you thought that maybe you get attached to guys that move for a reason? Maybe it is because you are afraid of having someone that is not leaving because they might break up with you for another reason.
All you need to do is be patient. Not all guys move. You will find someone really good,that isnt going to move. Just dont give up, and dont settle!
I hope my advice helps you. I'm with you all the way!!!
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That's a rough situation there. Yeah, it sounds like it sucks big time (lol) but, unfortunately, there's not really much you can do about it.. (It's life, you know?), but that shouldn't keep you from searching! Just be sure to find out backround information first before you try and get involved with the person,and if you know they're leaving, there's not really much point in being with them if they have to leave you..(Right?)(I know that may sound harsh but it's the truth) =/ Anyways, just keep your head held up high! You'll find the right one eventually! hope i helped! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(sorry my 'grammar, spelling, and puncuation' sucks..its how I type..which I do know how to do)
(P.S.- GO0D lUCKK!!) =D
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