Question Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:46 pm
i recently broke up w/ my girlfriend so have invited lots of girls to my myspace and about .5 have accepted. i need advice about what to talk about when i send messages b/c i don't have much to go by as they are still strangers. and i don't know how long to wait before making contact. please note, i think that all of them are cute and am interested in dating but don't want to come across as desperate or needy. any suggestions? thanks
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Friday December 22 2006, 3:30 pm: notreallly.
myspace probably isnt your best bet on finding someone for a relationship, but you can b/c my best friend has been going out with someone from myspace for a little while now.
as for convos, just talk about anything. school, music, hobbies..all that gay stuff. but its really probably up to her, look on myspace for something that she likes to do (hopefully appropriate) and who knows you might like it too. you can make a conversation out of anything haha. well good luck. but i wouldnt let the girls know that you just added a whole bunch of girls on myspace and you want a girlfriend, and you just broke up with your last g/f. just a heads up
L0CACiiTA answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 7:40 pm: I suggest you just talk to them like normal people. Like friends thats usually how you get to know people, not by making awkward conversation then your just sitting there asking weird question, just talk, say 'hey whats up i think your really pretty and i would like to get to know you better' I hope i was able to help you
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xojessii answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 6:35 pm: casual conversation.
like sports, music, school.
those are always good questions because everybody loves talking about themselves.
crack_is_wack answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 6:10 pm: Hi,
I think probably the best thing to do would be to ask them about their interests. Things like "What kind of music do you like?" or "What's your favorite movie?" are simple, easy to answer, and can tell you a lot about a person. You can also look at their profiles, and if you see something you have in common (like that you both play soccer, for example, or if you both like the same band), follow up on that. You don't have to write long messages, just something friendly to show you're cool.
beanie answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 6:03 pm: Dear new myspace friends,
Just send a little message such as, How was your day? or How are you? and see where it leads to from there, if it keeps continuing leave some comments on one of the girls pictures that you have been getting the most feedback from, leave little messages like "this picture of you is very pretty, or this pic is my fav, or this is a cute pic."
girls love those little messages guyz leave behind, i did. and almost all my friends let me know if a guy comments on their myspace and they like it, so take it slowly and if u kee bringing it up a notch and then once you think it may be safe to ask them out on a date JUST DO IT! be like would you like to come over and order some pizza and watch a couple movies,
it's cute and not too flashy,
so just go for it
and don't hold back
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