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Saying NO
13/f
When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?
Can I have an example of what to say?
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Everyone else said exuses that may or may not be true for you. If you dont want a boyfriend at that time, say it. But don't lie. Basically just say something like "thank you. I think you are cool and all but i just don't like you like that." Just tell him the truth, but dont be mean. Whatever you do, don't say "ew no. you have cooties!" haha.
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"I'm flattered but I'm not interested in having a boyfriend right now."
"I'm not allowed to date."
"I had a bad experience and I want to stay single for a while."
"I think of you more as a friend."
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welll how to say that is....... say that you only like him as a friend and we should just be friends
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yeah when a guy asks a girl out, its kinda awkward if we wanna say no and and sometimes we even get a lil nervous and dont know what to say..so i know how you feel! try smiling and saying "im sorry, but i only like you as a friend" or "im flattered, but id rather be friends" hope i helped!! =]
sincerely,
chikita
(P.S.- good luck) =D
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Just tell the truth: "I'm really flattered, but I only see you as a friend! I'm really sorry!"
hope i helped!
-Bess
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Hey,
You should simply say what i always say, and it always works out. Say ' I am not ready to get involved in a serious relationship,I simply can't handle commitment '.
If you need any other help please be free to contact me or leave your email in the feedback for further advice personally.Goodluck:)
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you could say something like
aww thats sweet but i dont like you like that.
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thanks but i dont want a boyfriend right now
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umm i dont know, i would rather be friends.
things alone those lines.
and really, there is no nice way to say no its gonna hurt them somewhat no matter what.
Jess<3
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i would say
can we just be freinds because i would prefare to ot go any further than being freinds
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well, usually what i say is "aww. well, i don't really see you that way. :[ like, i only see you as a good friend." and just those simple words work. it's not too harsh, and it's just right so that he gets the hint. so try saying that! good luck.
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Dear 'Saying No'
Most of the time it depends on the guy but personally my favorite is "Im going through a very complicated time right now and I dont think that I could handle a relationship at this point in time, your a really nice guy but I need to staighten out my life first. Im really sorry."
That usually works for me. I hope it works for you as well. Good Luck !
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Just say you are fladdered that he asked you out but you just want to stay friends. Or he isnt really yu type of guy and he will find the right person it just isnt you.
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"Your cool and all, but I just don't see you in that way."
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"You're a great guy, but I think that we'd be better off as friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend. I hope this doesn't change anything. You're a really great guy, but I'm just not interested".
Hope I helped. xx :]
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I'm no expert here, so please don't yell at me if you don't think that this is good, but you could just say, "Listen, you're a great guy and eeverything, but it wouldn't be right for me to go out with someone that I didn't truely like. It wouldn't be fair to you, adn you wouldn't appreciate it later. As a friend you are great, but i just dont like you in that way. I'm sorry, but I dont decide who I like, unfortunately." or something along those lines, but do it nicely adn remind him that there is someone out there for him. and make sure its in person.
Hope that helped =)
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