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Ok I need to know if I'm overreacting when it comes to something that happened today.
This is the story.
Last week I left for a convention[for a week[ thats about 12 hours from where I currently live. I have a boyfriend of a year and a half and he couldn't come with me. Everytime I called him he was at this girl dianna's house. They have been friends for about a year now. But when I'm there he never goes to her house and not to mention it was prom weekend. Then today I came back from the convention intenting to get a warm welcome. I called him on the phone and the only thing he could say was that he was sooo tired. So finally he got off the phone and said he was going to bed. So about an hour later I had to go to wal-mart to pick up my brother but before I went I cruised by my boyfriends house because I wanted to give him a hug before he was too asleep but his car wasn't at his house..but guess who I saw at wal-mart when I got there?Him and Dianna, he sure was happy. He didn't even notice that I was there..he was so focused on her. And so now I don't know if I'm overreacting or if something might be going on or what. Please help me.
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ok well ur not overreacting!!!!! if he lied to you n then you seen him at a stor wit another girl i think tyhats something!! i wouldnt brake up with him but talk to him and find out everything!!!! b/c it seems like he is spending alot of time with this girl! sooo talk to him n if u really car bout him then just let it go but keep a good eye on him!!! if its not that serious then taKE A BRake or something but definelty talk to him!!!!!!!! n make sure hge nos that if it happens again then its over!!!!!!!!!! no one should get cheated on!!!!
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Guys will be guys. The sooner you learn that the better. He lied. Period. Thats it. Whether it was a big lie or not. He lied. You need to confront him. Ask him what he did that night and if he said he was just at home, you know what to do. You are not over-reacting. Someone who says they care for you wouldnt try to hurt you. He's sneaking around with her [whether or not he is doing anything, he still is not telling you everything]. You need to tell him what you saw and confront him about his lie. If he stutters, drop him. And drop him fast. There are many many other guys who would love to have a devoted girlfriend by their side. You are better then that and need to know that.
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I'm not sure if there is or isn't anything going on but to be honest if he lied about something like that then there's no telling what he has been lying about. I've always thought that if you're innocent of any wrong just tell the truth since you've nothing to hide. He seems to have something to hide since he didn't tell you the truth - unless he went out to Wal-Mart after getting your call? There's no way of being able to tell and more to the point, there's no way of knowing if he is telling the truth or not. Thing is though he hasn't made any secret as to who he's been with when you've been away so he doesn't have any reason to start now. I'm guessing you didn't comfront him at the store - which may have been a good idea.
Only thing I can suggest is either try see what's going on (if anything is going on) or confront him about it and ask him what's going on. I'd say you have every right to ask and know since one second he's too tired to go out and is about to go bed and the next he's at Wal-Mart with his friend. I'm sorry I can't really be of more help on this but if this had happen to me I would want answers.
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Um no, you're not overreacting! He lied to you! You should have confronted him right when you saw him & his friend together at walmart. But since its too late for that, you need to pick up the phone & call him & let him know that you saw him. You need to ask him why when you had called him, he acted as if he was soo tired that he couldn't even speak to his GIRL FRIEND but he could go to walmart with another girl. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but sorry, I can't & I won't. I do believe that there's something going on between him & this friend. & if he's not, he's fuckin you over for another girl. Call him up & set him straight. ASAP.
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