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I recently went out with a guyfriend of mine, we really like eachother but we dont live close (an hour away). Anyway i decided that i didnt want my first real boyfriend to live so far away that it was like not having one at all. He said he agreed and it was just badtiming and that it would work out later. So when we were going out he told me he loved and he always told me how beautiful i was and he would make all these crazy promises to take me around the world and take me to my favorite bands concerts etc. soo, now that we are just friends again it feels like we still go out a little, he still tells me how beautiful i am, that he loves me, and still is telling me all these crazy plans for us when were older, and i think that because he still acts this way i still love him and want to be with him but we cant (were both too busy for long-distance). I also keep getting jealious of this girl Hope that hes friends with. Hope is all preppy and pretty and well annoying but he talks to her like everyday for 5 hours and he tells her shes pretty too and on his profile its says "Hope is soo cool i love her". And its making everything soo complicated, i tried to tell him that it was bothering me but he doesnt understand that im jealious and hate her because it feels like im being replaced. Ok sooo sorry its so long but i really just need advice on this thing, a new perspective my friends just tell me to move on and that hes not worth even being friends with but i really think that i love him and i DONT want to see him with anyother girl but me. (i know that sounds soo selfish and mean but i cant help it) Help please i rate 5's!!!!

well, what i say is go for it if you think you love him and u actually know what it feels like it make sure to tell him, because nothing is worse than the feeling of regret

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I don't know whats wrong with me, i get mad so quickly but only when im with family or the people im more comfortable with, it seems like my mom and dad are never happy with anything that i accomplish, i just want my dad to pay more attention to me, but he's always siding with his girlfriend on everything and it makes me feel like shes more important, i get mad sometimes and slam my hands down on somethin and have even broke a few things (not of great value) i just wanna know what i can do besides count to 10 cause i just get even more mad by the end of that.

talk to your dad about it, thats really your only other option, but when your talking to him stay calm and dont raise your voice otherwise he will side with her again, i know this sounds childish but maybe you can even get a little teary-eyed and that should work just fine.

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i need to make $200 by the end of march bc i owe my friend money....do u hav ne ideas of how i can make the money? nething wud be really helpful

first of all it depends on how old you are, if your too young to get a job, ask your parents if you can go try to make money by mowing lawns. if your old enough to get a job then get a job because by march you will have enough money

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just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

definitely go to the funeral, beacuse if you never go to it you will regret it for the rest of your life

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ok well heres the thing, i like this one guy {lawrence} alot alot, and sometimes i even think more then just alot alot. so i thought i knew him pretty well. then one day his cousin and him were in a fight and his cousin told me that he was lieing to me about his virginity, and how he never lost it, he was just trying to impress me. and stuff like that. and i told his cousin that i didnt really care if he was a virgin or no, what bothers me is that he lied and stuff. so after that i just went home, and i didnt really care like i honestly didnt. so usually lawrence calls me like everyday just to talk or w/e or someitmes i call him. well for the past few days he hasnt called once. and then his cousin told me that he had told him that he told me about that whole lieing thing. and so now lawrence knew that he told me, so i was like okay maybe he thinks im mad at him. because lawrence knows that i cant stand people who lie.and so now he hasnt called or anything. and i just like want to call him. because i know if like i was in that situation i would have wanted him to call me to tell me he wasnt mad at me and stuff. but at the same time, i dont know...i just dont know why every part of me is telling myslef not to call him. hmm but yea help please =/

definitely call him, if ur not mad, dont try to play games guys hate it

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So I know this guy likes me and I like him but he doesn't know I like him. Anyways, this one friend of mine who's friends with both of us is telling me to ask out the kid who likes me because he knows he's going to say yes. Anyways the problem is, I don't ask people out anymore because of really bad experiances with it, and apparently he wont ask me out because he's to shy and thinks I'll say no. Even when the middle friend tells him I will say yes he wont do it. Should I give it time or forget the whole thing?

PS please dont say ask him out because im not going to

you should say something, it doesnt matter if u ask him out just tell him that u like him and if he reacts weird then back off and give it some time but never give up because the hardest things to get in life are truly the best

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OK so I have ben flirting with this guy forever. And it was like we were going out. I loved it more then anything> i just want to have fun this year and that what happened. Untill yesterday when I told him I don't want a b/f right now. I really like him though. Well, we got in this big fight yesterday and now he doesn't like me as much. On friday my friend is getting alot of people to go to the movies to see when a stranger calls and I want to invite him. I know I could get him to like me more. If we go, should I kiss him? Or just lay on his sholder? This will be my first date and I don't know what to do. I don'tknow if I should make out with him or what. Just please help me!

definitely dont make out with him easy equals sleezy

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I have a best friend and he has been my best friend for eleven years. He has been in love with me probably for the past couple years. He is the most loving, respectful, decent guy I have ever known. Whenever I am depressed or whenever I am having a problem, he is always there for me. He used to live in Maryland and I live Pennsylvania and whenever I needed something, he'd drive all the way up here to see me even if I didn't ask him to. He's just always been there for me through everything. He makes me absolutely happy and I'm sure that my happiness is more important than his. People always ask me why aren't we together, and honestly, I don't think we'd work out. Even though he is perfect for me, I dont think that I'd ever be good enough for him. I think I'd only bring problems in his life. Secondly, and this may sound weird, but I can't see myself having a relationship at this age with a guy I cant see myself being intimate with. Dont get me wrong, he is pretty cute too.. Lastly, I don't know if for some reason things doesnt work out and we'd break up and ruin our friendship.. Sometimes I hate myself for what I put him through, knowing how much he loves and wants me and me not being able to give him what he wants. Am I wrong? Like, I love this guy.. More than anything in the world. I'd like to be with him.. but I dont know.. I don't know what I should do.

Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.

20/f

just come out and tell him how you feel because when you do not only will it be the best feeling you've ever felt but if it works out right it can get better. he may say something like that he likes you or something, if you need any advice on what to say just ask me, trust me i will help you if you need it.

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 months now and I really like him...but the other day we had a really big argument and he broke up with me and we spent 2 hours on the phone and by the end of that we were back together. The day after that he tells me he'll be home early to talk to me and he his but he says he has to run to the store and get something so I wait for him to call back. When he finally calls back he's with his friend (who i hate and is the biggest jerk I've met) and I kinda get upset because I haven't had a good day and I just want to talk to him and his friend starts insulting me and my boyfriend starts laughing at me and then he gives the phone to his friend. They start drinking and they're insulting me to the point I'm crying. I really love my boyfriend and when he's not around his friend he's the nicest guy I know but I dont know what I should do about it.

Please answer! I'll rate you high!

ya definitely dump him, i mean this is from a guys perspective, and thats still consider shitty

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