OK so I have ben flirting with this guy forever. And it was like we were going out. I loved it more then anything> i just want to have fun this year and that what happened. Untill yesterday when I told him I don't want a b/f right now. I really like him though. Well, we got in this big fight yesterday and now he doesn't like me as much. On friday my friend is getting alot of people to go to the movies to see when a stranger calls and I want to invite him. I know I could get him to like me more. If we go, should I kiss him? Or just lay on his sholder? This will be my first date and I don't know what to do. I don'tknow if I should make out with him or what. Just please help me!
Punkrocker548172 answered Monday February 6 2006, 11:38 pm: I'm a guy and if i was in this situation i would be gettin the biggest mixed signals ever, i don't mean this to you personally but if a girl just broke up with me and then made out with me or even rested her head on my shoulder it would be kinda weird cause i would have thought you didnt like me, it might confuse him so i would just hang out a few times and tell him you made a mistake and that you do want to be with him. [ Punkrocker548172's advice column | Ask Punkrocker548172 A Question ]
ludolaundry answered Monday February 6 2006, 8:04 pm: u shud definately invite him... and he prolly does like u stil but just doesnt wanna admit it or something... i dont no if u shud makeout.. but def hang with him [ ludolaundry's advice column | Ask ludolaundry A Question ]
pepermintpatty answered Monday February 6 2006, 7:33 pm: ok first of all i so want to go see that movie second you should totaly invite him but when you guys get there don't makeout wit him its a little to fast and you mite scare him away you could lay on his shoulder or grab his hand when a scary part comes around and a little good nite kiss but that is onlt if everything is going well on your date hope i helped [ pepermintpatty's advice column | Ask pepermintpatty A Question ]
maddie_l0u answered Monday February 6 2006, 7:25 pm: I think laying your head on his shoulder would be cute. im not sure if you'd wanna make out with him quite yet because he might think you're easy then and will begin to like you for the wrong reasons. i personally never makeout with a guy until were going out because then i no that he likes me for me and not because he expects to get anything out of me. but if he makes the first move or says osmething cute and you dont feel like hes using you then sure make out with him. besides u did say you wanted to have fun this year [ maddie_l0u's advice column | Ask maddie_l0u A Question ]
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