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guy friends// ex boyfriends
I recently went out with a guyfriend of mine, we really like eachother but we dont live close (an hour away). Anyway i decided that i didnt want my first real boyfriend to live so far away that it was like not having one at all. He said he agreed and it was just badtiming and that it would work out later. So when we were going out he told me he loved and he always told me how beautiful i was and he would make all these crazy promises to take me around the world and take me to my favorite bands concerts etc. soo, now that we are just friends again it feels like we still go out a little, he still tells me how beautiful i am, that he loves me, and still is telling me all these crazy plans for us when were older, and i think that because he still acts this way i still love him and want to be with him but we cant (were both too busy for long-distance). I also keep getting jealious of this girl Hope that hes friends with. Hope is all preppy and pretty and well annoying but he talks to her like everyday for 5 hours and he tells her shes pretty too and on his profile its says "Hope is soo cool i love her". And its making everything soo complicated, i tried to tell him that it was bothering me but he doesnt understand that im jealious and hate her because it feels like im being replaced. Ok sooo sorry its so long but i really just need advice on this thing, a new perspective my friends just tell me to move on and that hes not worth even being friends with but i really think that i love him and i DONT want to see him with anyother girl but me. (i know that sounds soo selfish and mean but i cant help it) Help please i rate 5's!!!!
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I think you need to tell him the complete and honest truth about how you feel. I was in a long distance relationship for 8 months. That guy is still amazing to me. We are amazing friends today. I feel the same way about him. I got into another relationship a few months after me and *J* broke up because I thought he was over me. Later, I found out his feelings were still there, but we just can't do anything about it right now cause of where we live. He lives a little over an hour away. We may or may not go to college near each other next year, but we still try to see each other when we can. He knows he means the world to me. If your guy is willing to take the chance, I would say go for it because if he is worth it, it is worth a learning experience. I wouldn't change anything. I know how you feel about the other girl thing. I feel that way right now cause the guy I was with was my first love/kiss, and he's the greatest guy I know as of now. So, good luck with everything!
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well, what i say is go for it if you think you love him and u actually know what it feels like it make sure to tell him, because nothing is worse than the feeling of regret
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