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Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 months now and I really like him...but the other day we had a really big argument and he broke up with me and we spent 2 hours on the phone and by the end of that we were back together. The day after that he tells me he'll be home early to talk to me and he his but he says he has to run to the store and get something so I wait for him to call back. When he finally calls back he's with his friend (who i hate and is the biggest jerk I've met) and I kinda get upset because I haven't had a good day and I just want to talk to him and his friend starts insulting me and my boyfriend starts laughing at me and then he gives the phone to his friend. They start drinking and they're insulting me to the point I'm crying. I really love my boyfriend and when he's not around his friend he's the nicest guy I know but I dont know what I should do about it.
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ok first of all you do not want a guy who is mean to you and laughs at you now when he is around his friends he shouldn't act any differently around you so i know it would be hard but first try talking to him then if that doesn't work break up with him
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the boy who kisses your forhead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."
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Oh honey I am sad just reading this question. This guy has no regard for your feelings or what you want. If he is not standing up for you with his friends and protection you. Then what kind of boyfriend is he. You deserve way better than this.
I know that you have heard the expression You are who you hang out with.
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ya definitely dump him, i mean this is from a guys perspective, and thats still consider shitty
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This guy sounds like a guy you don't want to be around, if he really cared for you, he would have told his friend to back off long ago, and would have been concerned when you were upset, if he is going to go out and drink then u should just let him go because you can find lots of better people, there are so many nice guys out there and its important to get to know someone before you judge, just give n e guy (who you know is at least a halfway descent person) a chance and itll all work out for the best. Don't be afraid to talk to me further about this.
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Most of the time you aren't going to be able to get a guy to change his friends. Chances are they have been friends forever!
If you really can't stand his friend, and he is going to treat you like crap when his friend is around, I would seriously reconsider having him as a boyfriend.
Find a guy who will shut up any friend who mistreats you or cuts you down. They are out there to be had!
Any guy who will let his friends make fun of you or will actually join in on the torment, is not someone you want around.
Talk to him. If he agrees to change the behavior and you really care for him you can give him the opportunity to change. If he doesn't change, send him packing. :)
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Don't take this offensively in any sort of way - but, your boyfriend's an asshole. First off, what guy who claims to love his girlfriend, insults her, acts completely different around his friends, and makes her cry? I say drop this guy because you can tell a lot about a person by who they hang out with & what they do when they're hanging out. The quicker you let him go, the faster you find a NICE guy who actually really does love you. :) One day, you'll find someone who treats you right.
&TiNA;
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You can tell a lot about a person's real character by how they act when they're around their friends. If I were you, I would break up with him now before you waste more time on a guy that isn't who you really think he is.
Breaking up sucks, but the sooner you let the bad ones go, the sooner you will meet a guy that actually treats you right.
If he makes you cry, insults you, and lies to you, then it's time to let him go and find someone better!
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