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friends and boyfriends eh...
ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?
please help me :'(
confussed luv
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you should first try talking to him and telling you how you feel about all of this. Let him know your side and let him be aware that you don't like it and this could end your relationship with him. If he really likes you then he will stop this behavior.
if he doesnt...you deserve so much better. You will find other people with all his good qualities minus the flirting.
you should also try talking to your best friend and find out what's going on between the two fo them. if my best friend was going aroudn kissing my boyfriend's i'd be pretty upset.
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I think that you should talk to this kid and give him a warning before you break up with him. Tell him that it bothers you that he flirts with your best friend. Also tell him that you really like him and want to keep this relatinship going, but if he doesn't stop flirting with her, you are gonna need to break up with him. He will prbably get the idea from that and will stop flirting with her, but if he doesn't stop, then he isn't a lotal boyfriend, and isn't good enough for you, so then don't be afraid to break up with him.
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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I Think That You Should Talk To Both Of Them. If you're friend kissed your boyfriend than shes not a real friend. Now i think you should Ask Your Boyfriend if he really likes you. If hes not serios about this than hes probbly lieng or you should try another time later in the day. If you want the realationship to go on with your boyfriend then ask him politly and serios to stop flirting with you friend. If he dumps you than you don't desver him.
I HopeMy advice Helps!? :-/
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You should talk to him and your friend. If your friend is your real frined than she shouldn't go around kissing your bf. And if your bf really likes you than he should stop flirting with her. I think both of them are not good enough for you.
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First, if your best friend knew you liked him and were dating, 'dump' her.
Second, if he kissed her back and you two were not supposed to be doing stuff with other people, totally forget about him.
Cheaters always cheat.
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Well your friend isn`t a very good friend to be going and kissing your boyfriend.. you should ask your friend to bakc off.. Also tell him how you about him doing this to you.. ♥Dez
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I think that you should talk to your friend because if she's going around kissing your boyfriend then shes not so good of a friend. If anything I would dump your friend.
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you deserve better.
hellz yes you should give him an ultimatum. :]
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sweetie..... i think you should confront your friend before you tell him n e thing. because then your friend will know how you feel about the situation. i think it is bullshit that you have to go through that and you need to tell your friend how you feel anout the kissing thing. good luck.
lots of love.... Kays
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Hey Im here to help you the best i can.Well i would talk to him if i was you. Ask him if he has feelings for your best friend but let him know that you wont be mad or anything. You just want to know.If he says no and you can tell that hes lying, just ask him if he is lying and if he says no again just say swear on are relationship. Yea that might sound a little korny to say but hey it works for me. Well if that doesnt work just tell me what happened and ill help you again.Well hopefully this helped
<3 Brittany
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I wouldn't put it so blunlty as "Pick her or me, buddy. Right here, right now." He'll probably hate you for it, and that'll effect his decision. I would, however, bring up the flirting. Not anything like, "Why the hell are you doing that?!" but, you know, more subtle.
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