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What do I say?
I had this girl my best friend since iw as in 1st grade. i have 2 other best friends too but i havent known them for as long as i knew this one. i mean i knew them i just wasnt close to them... lately this girl is not being herself really. she would put all these people before me. all she wants to do is try to be popular. all she wears is abercrombie just to get people to notice her. shes dating a guy she hardly even talks to. its jsut not like her. so last night i told her how i felt.. i was just saying that shes never there for me anymore and idks tuff like that. and we just ended up yelling and cursing at each other. it was really bad. i got really upset and i just wnat things to go back to normal. my other friends are saying i should just forget about her because shes mean to me adn treats me like crap. and it doesnt matter how long ive known her because people change. whcih is kind of true but its just.. i cnat just ruin a friendship over this. right? i want to say something to her but i dont no what to say. do you have any ideas? please help =/
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well if she was truly your friend she wouldn't be tryin to be popular and she wouldn't be treatin you like dirt if you realy want her to be your friend still then talk to her have a heart to heart
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OK, i had this exact situation a few times with my best friend kays, ok heres the deal talk to her one on one, and say ok look i am not gonna get mad at you over this whole thing, and if she forgives you then thats great but if she doesn't then just be like ok but remember i will always be ur best friend and i will always care for you even if we do hate each other or don't forgive each other, and then just walk away most of the time if they are really sorry they wil stop you from running away! it works it did with me and kays, and we are still best friends to this day on.
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I have a friend like that too. I havent really done anything yet. I would just tell her what she's doing and if she doesnt believe you, kick her azz or if you really want to keep her as a friend, say your sorry and get on with your life (without her as a GREAT friend). Im sorry if that sounds confusing. Hope I helped.
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