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Hey my name is Kay....
I'm a senior in high school so I'm finally graduating this year! i love school and meeting new people. my hobbies are crocheting, math, and decorating! i someday hope to become a home decorator. I'm from Pittsburgh. i don't drink. i have a lot of experience with drugs and drinking...hence the reason i don't anymore... i may only be 17 years young but i have been through a lot in the past 4 years and i just keep getting stronger. i have a boyfriend whom i have been dating for 3 years and we are still working on some things but our relationship keeps building everyday. i love with my mom and my teenage sister..ya 3 girls in one house.. just think how that is when all of us are on our periods at the same time.. its a trip all on its own. ha ha. recently my moms new boyfriend moved in and he sucks! me and my sister both hate him but life goes on. i don't have many friends but i do have a lot of important people in my life whom i love and would do anything for.. if you want to hear a little more about me you can reach me on my IM. other than that i would love to answer any questions you have about love, sex, families, or anything else you wanna throw at me!

C ya!

advice

what some other stuff i can do other than make out with my bf. no hand job or blow job. like something romantic or something.

in the new seventeen magazine there is an article on ways to make kissing more fun... you should check it out!

Kays

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i am afraid my dad no longer loves my mother. he is nice to her, but it never seemed to me like he loved her that much, excepting that he buys her almost anything she wants. today i heard him apologizing to a woman for saying something at a party. i thought it was about politics, which he is very into. then i heard him say 'i dont know if it was that u looked pretty, or the dance moves, i dont know.' and asked the woman not to tell my mother. my dad tells my mom everything. this also reminds me of when, two years ago, i was looking through the favorites list on my family computer. i saw my dad had babe-of-the-week saved, as well as other sites of the same topic. when i asked him about it, he got really mad, yelled at me, and told me i wasnt alowed on that computer. what does this all mean??

well kisses answered your question a little blunt... i wouldnt pay attention to that.. it will just upset you.. but i dont think that you should worry about your parents relationship. things happen and yes people do get bored. your dad probably had that site on there because he is a man and men though we all know it suck and are gross and like to look at things like that.. maybe you should talk to your dad and tell him you over heard the conversation he was having with that person. you really should write him a note... it could all just be a misunderstanding. you dont know. but before you get to upset talk to him.

i know you might be scared of his reaction but if you are really worried you should say something.

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theres this brother of one of the girls on my sisters soccer team and i saw him at the begining of the game and i got a feeling like "wow i want to talk to him and meet him" but because im so shy i didnt talk to him. he kinda saw me at the begining too (i think) but he was with his dad and went down to sit with him, but like after the game too the team was having their like "after game meeting" and he was looking like in my direction im not sure if he was really looking at me if you know what i mean. i dont know what to think what if wasnt looking at me i would feel like an idiot if i just went and talked to him and he had no intrest in talking to me at all. i really want to talk to him but i dont know how to not make it awkward. i know nothing about him other than his sister is on the team. what do i do!!!??

p.s. they have a game tonight and i think i might go to see if maybe hes there and maybe if i can get over being shy i might be able to talk to him? please help me do this!?

go and see if he is there and talk to him if he is maybe he wants to talk to you

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i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?

sweety,
you are not a horrible person! even though you did do this to yourself. the truth of the matter is that you need to tell your's and your boyfrinds parnets TOGETHER because then you both can get it all out in the open. have them all over for dinner. then after dinner you can all sit down and talk about it before they see you are pregnant and stat to wonder and become upset. this is a serious situation and you need to tell them. check your simptoms every other day or so and for the love of the baby go to a doctor. and an adoption agency so you can have your baby go to a nice home. but wait until your 7 months pregnant so you can know whether you are going to have a miscarriage. you need to talk to someone and NOW or SOON is the right time. you cant wait. You need the help from everybody. and their support!


i hope i helped

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16f sophmore.
Ive had this HUGE crush on this senior at school, even though i have only talked to him about 3 times..


the thing is he recently got a gf and now i want to just get over him, but i can't.


i always thought he might have had a tiiny thing for me maybe becus in class hes always staring at me and stuff but i guess i was wrong :[


so please just tell me how to get over this broken heart.

accually, you really can't i was/am going through that situation, i cant get over him eaither, i guess that i will just take a lot of time. plus, each time you see him with his gf you will get less and less attracted* o him b.c you see that you can have him, hope i helped!!

P.S. i know it's REALLY hard


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Ok this story may take a little while...
My best friend's has a boyfriend and about a month ago she found out that one of our other friends liked her. Even though she didnt like him somehow they ended up talkin more and they always got upset cuz somehow the subject of him liking her always came up. Well through their fights and talks, they have become like best friends. They see things the same as each other or something. i felt jealous that my best friend was gettin stolen away so i confronted her about it, and she told me that it went her bf, me, then this other guy on her list of friends and she wasnt just sayin that cuz she was talkin to me. but it feels like she confides more in him, and she talks to him a lot. sometimes it almost seems like shes blowing me off, in general, not just for him. every time i try talkin to her about it it always comes out wrong and i end up sounding mega possesive and like im making a mountain out of a molehill and i hate it. it seems like my best friend is slipping away and theirs nothing i can do about. what do i do? and please, if theres anything you can say that doesnt just involve "talking about it to her" that wud be even better, although i would take anything i can get

how bout, you try calling her, talking to her about your life, some to her with your problems, confide in her. that boy may be her best friend, but hes her BEST GUY FRIEND and you are her BEST GIRL FRIEND and her boyfriend he is.....well, just her BOYFRIEND. i hope that helps you a little!


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Does anyone kno any good sites to get myspace layouts?

www.myspacepimper.com
www.myspaceland.com

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I'm eighteen years old, and female.

This morning, I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was allright during, and it was fully consentual, but now, several hours later, I can't shake this feeling of guilt.

My question is, is it common to feel guilty after a sexual act? If there's any advice that you can offer, I would appreciate it. I'm feeling ashamed of myself and I don't want to let my boyfriend touch me sexually ever again, and I really want things to be the same as they were before.

maybe your mind is telling you that you wernt ready for sex. maybe you have to re-think this boy and how much you rly like him. you probably dont like him as much as you thought you did so now you feel guilty b/c if he wants to do it agian, what are you gonna say, "i felt guilty after last time so i cant," no you cant do that. so you rly need to think how much you like this boy b4 you do it again. and also if you WANT TO do it again

hope i helped
*rate*

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I want to lose at least 20 pounds before summer

am i waaaay to late to start a diet right now? will it be like impossible to lose 20 pounds before june 1st?

drink 8 bottles of water a day. by june first you will have peed all your weight out, a friend told me this. she read it in a magazine

GOOD LUCK

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i am going away in july (i went to aruba last summer and met a bunch of friendly locals) but my family and i are going back and i have gained over 15 pounds since august. i hoenstly do not know how i pulled it off, im very upset about it. before i had a really cute figure but now its just terrible i am 5'5 156 lbs. my arms are flabby, my stomache is wide and my legs are also flabby and i despise myself as of right now. well my cousin and i have kept in touch with the people we`ve met there and not only for my vacation but for this summer i reallly need to lose weight. alot of it. i know hydroxy cut and diet pills are bad but would they help if i took them and worked out a whole lot. help pleaseee

18/f

dont take n e pills. i heard from a friend that is you drink at least 8 bottles of water (like bottles you get in the store) a day you loose a lot of weight b.c you pee out all of your weight. excercise* everyday. jog in the morning after breakfast and in the night after dinner, just around your block/neighborhood. also, on the weekends you can go the the gym if you are up to that much commitment if you do this everyday until you go on vacation you shold loose at least 20lbs by then. hope i helped.

GOOD LUCK!!!

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okay i am 15 and i smoke. mainly cigarettes but every now and then some pot. i dont really even remember how i started to smoke. the weed doesnt bother me because it isnt a daily thing but the cigarettes are killing me. it is so hard to keep it a secret from my mother and most of my friends since they hate smokers. i want to stop but i just cant. i have tried. i would love some advice on how to quit but by myself. i dont want anyones help. i have thought about the gum and/or patches but then my mom would find out and plus those are expensive... some tips on how to at least cut back would be greatly appreciated....

cold turkey......

that is the best that you can do if you dont want your mom to find out you smoke. dont look/smoke a ciggarett. chew a lo of gum and forget about. try to find another habbit. maybe bitting your nails. i hope i helped a little.


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i want to start waxing my legs. and i did a patch test to see if i was allergic to any of the wax like it said in the directions. but it didnt really do much, like it didnt pull out much hair in the area. did i do something wrong? i followed the directions though. or do i need to let the hair grow more? thanx. ill rate high!

you have to let your hair length grow or else it will only cach dead skin cells. and it may give you a rash or make your leg red. be careful.

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Hey everyone!
For some reason I feel like reading I would really apreciate if you people would recommend some of your favorite books and a little bit on what it is about =)
Thanks,

i have 1 book for you ----> "Agusta Gone" its by Martha Todd Dudman. It is such a great story. its based on true life. accually the mother is Martha. her daughter is rly bad like she does drugs. drinks, and deals drugs for money. and her mother and fater send her off to this camp. omg it is soooo good. take my word for it. i dont like to read but its sooooo good!!!


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i had sex with one of my really close friends last night. we used to hangout alot and hook up once in a while but last night he had a bunch of people over and we just did it. please dont judge me, thanks but im goin to a bonfire tonight that hes like hosting because its near his house and i just want to make sure hes not going to tell alot of people and not make it a big deal.. what should i say when i see him tonight.. should i pull him away from everyone

you should pull him over and tell him ow you rly feel about him and that you are not comfortable with others knowing about your sexlife and if he a sincere* about your feelings he wont tell any one but if hes just a big asshole hen he will and you will know that he wasnt a good friend from the begining. i hope i helped. send feedback on how you think everything went!

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i am 14 year old female. ok so in the past 3 weekes my dad has been yelling at be for everything i do. like this morning he came in my room and started yellin at me saying you are so rude and you have to learn how to take care of ur self. and i was soo confussed on wat he was talkin about cause that is the first thing he said to me all day. i just wish i knew why his is yelling at me for stupid little things that i havn't even done. and i can't stand the stress right now and i am thinking of running out of my house cause my mom dosn't see how much this is hurting and she is a very hard person to talk to. and the only person i can talk to is my brother in college and he isn' around any more. so please help me deal with this cause i am ready to leave my family and go find my own place.

please help please


the helpless

well, what i think is that you should keep trying to talk to your mom because evantually shell want to know something and you will not want to talk to her, although you dont want to talk to her right now, you should. and with your dad, you cant be perfect. he might just have had a bad day. i know how you feel. my dad yells at me too all the time about stuff i dont or didnt even do. i think you shouldnt give up. you cant run from your problems. it doesnt stop or solve any thing. it may even make it worse. i would know. i ran away and it just made things decline for a little while then it increased to an even higher level and it was worse.so like i said, just keep trying and dont give up.
hope it helps.

love, Kays

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how can i tell what people in the world are honest and good?

and why is everything always about sex lately?

its so fckd up.

i rate high. :]

use good judgement. if they strike you as a honest and good person, try and talk to them and get to know them. then you will know for sure if they are really what you thought when you first met them.

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This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s!

act like you normally do. be your self. my friend andrea always tells me not to think. if he likes you its because you are you. not because you are trying to be someone else. so like i said, be you and dont try to think about what you say or already have said. the night will go as it is already planed. so have fun. i hope i helped. and goodluck.

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Every night I walk for about one hour which equals to about 3.67 miles and I burn about 560 calories.

Well I'm pretty tired of walking because it just bores me so what other exercises would be about the same? Meaning burn a lot of calories as much as walking does. I don't have any time to go out and buy thing or lift weight, so anything else?

Thanks.

its getting close to spring, go out and ride your bike

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I hate my hair. It is not straight but not wavy. I like to scrunch it andstraighten it but I would like some new styles. Does anyone have any ideas cuase I want it to look different for once. I am not sure. I look everywhere and I cant find a style I like amybe one of you have a style you love. My hair is blonde and brown and I have layers but not bangs just long layers, and the lonest part is about 3 inches below my shoulders!
Thanks for your help, if you can help me...lol...

>take a piece of you hair in the front on each side and make a little braid*
>you can put it some up some down, and then you can scrunch it if you want

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hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks

who cares what other people think as long as you and your partner are ok with it, it is all going to be great.


hope it helped.

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