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14/F
hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks
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Well, I would say that really anything over 11 is okay for kissing, depending on how serious the kiss is because 11 years old doing tonsil tennis is always a little shocking to me.
As for anything sexual, I am - I'm sad to say - a member of the 'only 16's and over' club. I had my first kiss when I was 17 and first had sex when I was 18 and am pleased with this, as I had waited until it was with someone I truly love (and am still with him now).
Obviously, it all comes down to your own personal choosing but my belief is that you should only kiss someone when you really like them, that you should only have sex (or indulge in any other sexual activity) when you are 16 or over and that it should ALWAYS be when you're in a stable relationship. There's a lot of risk and responsibility where sex is involved and you need to know that you're sharing your body with someone who will appreciate it and not take it for granted, as well as needing to know he will be there for you if anything should go wrong.
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I dont think its too young to make out at 14, especially because now a days 10 year olds are making out. But i think 13 or 14 is around the age where its ok.
As for the going all the way but not, 14 is very young for that, and at that age you can't really make good decisions so I would wait until you were older. Its really up to you though, and if you do decide you want to, think about the consequences. Write them down if you have to. :]
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I think 14 isn't too young. I'm 13 and I've made out, it actually how you feel. Do u feel comfortable about making out? Then do it. Do u feel like going just a little ways? Then do it. If you feel ready, then go for it.
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i began making out at 11. i guess it depends on the person. but 14 is the youngest for sex. i advise 15 sex, but 14 year olds in my region do it. i guess a lot of my friends are sluts, but whatever
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14 is a bit too young.
16 is a bit more appropriate.
sex and teenagers should never mix but they often do.
and it is a bit overrated.(both the sex and making out.)
this is my view.
But today, society is implanting lies into the weak. They all feel it is alright, but have no reason to prove it so other than "everybody is doing it."
they could make out, but not at random or with random people. MOst, (not all) of those who do so are sluts, whores (future whores). few self respecting people would be caught there at such an age.
It leads to misunderstanding. the making out makes them feel loved. they get distracted and lose sense of reality. then when they have taken down thier guard, some fool changes thier mind and breaks thier heart. the guy or girl i made out with (and/or had sex with ) never loved me. And the fools just do it again and again and again. I have no idea why they do so.
but if they are older, I believe making out is alright and it really depends on how far they get to sex without doing it is what matters. Feeling is wrong. hugging is not. lying on one another is not. licking or kissing in other places is wrong.
As i said before though, THIS IS WHAT I BELEIVE.
Cj
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to me, i think it's ok to make out at 14. but anything more than that is just too much, for that age. i'd wait until 16 to do anything more.
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Well, everything really depends on the morals, religion, and beliefs of the person. Me personally think making out is ok at 14. I mean if you are making out with your boyfriend like the second day you are going out, and constantly, than i think that is a little out of hand...
Well some people actually consider not going all the way but "fooling around," still sex. It really depends on the person. Personally I think that if you have to question weather or not you want to do it, and you dont feel 100% confident than dont do it, it is not worth it...
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I think making out is just fine at 14. And about the sex I really don't know because every one thinks different on that.If you really love someone and would give up just about anything for them and are for sure you will last long then yeah but most people at 14 aren't like that.♥
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I think that 14 is a good age to start exploring sexuality. As you said, sex is much too far to go, but kissing and maybe even a little more is definitely an okay thing for a 14 year old to do. As others have said though, many people don't get their first kiss until they are 16 or older. Whenever you are ready and have the opportunity is the right time to start. Good luck!
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Making out is normal for this age.
Sex, I think is slutty at this age.
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Fourteen i think is like the average age for people to get their like first kiss..So i difiantly don`t see anything wrong with it if your ready..
Sex is a different story i don`t think any fourteen year old should be having sex..I don`t think they`re ready for the possible consequences such as teen pregnancy or STDs.. Those are very possible to happen to anybody and not thinking fourteen year olds have sex and then end up with one of those things.. [Not everyone of them but it happens ya know?]
I think waiting until you know those things and are ready for those..Honestly,i think you should be in love dearly with a person also and not just doing it to do it..
Hope you got a view from this..
♥Dez
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Well, I'm 14 and I think that if people our age have sex, it's just stupid. It's too young and they should wait until that "special" person comes along or when they are ready. Since we're all just teenagers we don't really think about all of the consiquences and what could happen as a result of the things we do but when it's too late, well.. it just sucks. Making out and kissing is fine because everyone does it and it's nothing really serious. Doing other things at a young age is really stupid and whoever is doing it isn't thinking clearly at all. Everyone has different opinions and some people think it's totally fine to be having sex at age 14 or even a bit older but I don't really. I understand if they really cared about the person and such, but they shouldn't go that far.
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hey, im pretty open and i think that age isnt so much of a facter as maturity and love. maturity is really important, you need to be mature enough to handle the consequences and emotions that come with sex, as for making out its the same you just need to be ready. also you need to be in love for sex, or at least respect yourself enough to do for the right reasons. Have fun but be safe and always respect yourself and your body
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Well i say a little ways is good a litttle more than a little way is ok for 14 do wat u feel comfortable with. I made out when i was 13, 14 cant be to young. If you get a bf your realy comfortable with than go until your not comfortable. Its your choice hope i helped
Pyro Maniac
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hey hun. in my opinion, youre ready when youre ready and only you can know when that is. if youre asking for my personal opinion I dont think its too young at all. its a good age to start experimenting and determining what kind of guys you like and practicing your kissing when nobody has all that much experience yet. I wouldnt do anything more than make out with a guy I wasnt boyfriend/girlfriend with because that should be with someone you really care about. of course wait until youre ready to go a little further once you have a boyfriend too. 2nd is good but maybe wait until youre a little older to go beyond. but its all about feeling comfortable and sure of yourself.
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Go however far you want... its how far you wanted to go when you did it... if you go all the way or just a lil ways.. your ready for the possible consequences! And just as cheerleadr said.. Don't go any further than you want to
Hope I Helped,
Jamie
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well hey who cares what other people think just be protectedd and don't just do it b/c you feel pressured do it b/c you want to but i think its to young
hope i helped
gOd bLEss-
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It shouldnt matter what others think, if you feel your mature enough, then it should be you who has the say in it. Making out isnt that bad, but it shouldnt be taken for granted. At least make sure you truly do like your partner and such. And if it does lead to sex, hypothetically speaking, just make sure your stable enough for it and are 100% ready. :]
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Its their prerogative.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
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who cares what other people think as long as you and your partner are ok with it, it is all going to be great.
hope it helped. <3
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