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Hi im nick. Im a pyro but that doesnt mean i cant give advice. I know a lot about baseball if u have a sports question. I have had friends come up to me and ask me if i can help them with relationship problems adn other things bothering them. I am experianced at givng advice adn will help the best i can. Pyros can give advice 2.
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I have the AIM Triton, and I already edited my pro and put in what I wanted. Now, after I click Save, I go to check my buddy info and it says 'This Person Does Not Have An AIM Profile'. I've tried signing on and off after I saved it, and it's not working. Any ideas of what's going on? Anything I could do?
Thanks.
You have copy teh right thing. That happened to me just copt the code and put the whole thing there u have to make sure u keep the view my pro thing not the www.buddypro.com thing. Then hit save
ok..so this guy rele loves me, but i dont love him, what should i do? He really hurts me when he tells me that he's sad that i dont like him and that i like someone else..i hate to make him unhappy. should i ignore him....go out with him even tho i dont want to, or just act normal? i dont know what to do. its crushing me. i feel the need to just block him and get on with my life,but i can't do that to him..can i? well..tell me if you can help..cuz i need it
this is happening to me right now execpt im the boy. I love a girl but she doesn't love me. Dont just just ignore him it hurts way to much. Just tell him that you don't love. Just tell him that you could just be friends. (if you do want to be friends). You just have to tell him that you can only be friends. Tell him that it hurts you when he tells you that hes sad. If he realy does love you he wont want to make you sad. If you tell him that he should stop if he realy loves you. If he realy loves you he will do anything to make you happy. If you block him it will just crush him. And if you just go out with him then your not happy. So just tell him you want to just be friends (if you do want to be friends) and tell him that it hurts you when he says hes sad.
ok well one of my boobs is bigger than the other and i herd thats normal when your developing but in one of my boobs i have like a lump its kinda big and like not too bit but like hard and soft in some spots, my friend says its just because im developing, is that true?
doctor
My dad is really abusive...towards me and my mom. Especially my mom. He calls her degrading names and he used to abuse her..alot. Even while she was pregnant with me and my brother and my sister. To this day, I am almost 17 and he still verbally abuses and me also. My mom has considered divorce, but we have no money, no where to go. Today something horrible happenned and he was calling my mom ALOT of horrible words that I can't even say on here. I am afraid that when he comes home from work tomorrow that he will yell at her again..Also, I am afraid that when my siblings and I go to school, he will beat her. Please give advice.
save money and leave. When hes gone just leave. if she gets a divorce then she will get most ot the money because he is abusive. Get a job adn save money and leave. Thats teh best thing to do.
I have a little sister..and she thinks she's in love. Everytime she gets a new crush, she goes "goo-goo-ga-ga" over him..and then he breaks her heart, and she goes crying to me. She then states how much she loves him even though she only went out with him for a week! She cries and she cries about how much she loves this boy..until she finds another crush another week later! She then states that she is in love with this new boy! She's not just saying it..She actually means it. She really thinks she's in love..and she's only 11!!! It's so frustrating and annoying because when I tell her she's not in love---she gets soo mad. What should I do? This act is getting annoying..she's not in love.
PS she once "loved" a guy she never met over the internet.
tell her that if your 11 you dont no wat love is. Tell her that she cant love 13 people. Tell her theres a difference between a crush and being in love. Tell her to listen just once then u wont bother her any more. and she should grow out of it in time. But i understand how annoynig it can be.
so i had a friend who was my best friend for like 6 years. then it was time for middle school and my best friend and i went to the same one but the other people in our group at elementry school went to a different middle school. so everything was good, but in febuary it was my litles brothers party. and my best friend had a little sister the same age but we didnt invite her little sis to the party because my bro doesnt like her. then she got really mad and her whole family did. they took it really ofensively. they sorta harrased us and called us and got mad at us. when i say harased i mean by phone. so she left the school not because of me mainly because financil issues. she kept calling me but my parents didnt want me to be friends with her because they sorta harrased us. now she allways calls me and says ur such a bitch and stuf like that plese help i will rate high for any answers at all
PS: she still does this after two years from the fight
well just tell her it was just because your little brother didnt invite her sister ot a party its just a bday party. He was young (i hope) girls might still of been gross (im just guessing) or he just didnt like her. O well. There are some people i just dont like. And i bet she is just the same. Tell her that. Every 1 had some 1 they just dont like and ther mght be no reason at all. Just because. Its nothing personal to the who familiy. she is holding a grudge she doesnt need to hold. Its nothing that she should still care about and she needs no no that. And your the one that needs to tell her and she has to tell her familiy. If she doestn than this will go on forever. A family can't hold a grudge lik that for so long. U need to tell her wat ive told u. She needs to no that its in the past it cant be changed, and that its time to move on. Dont try to change wat happend in the past. Just try to make your future relationship between you families.
i think i'm anorexic... i really don't know what to do but i love the way i feel when i don't eat! but i'm just so fat! i went from 87 to 100 in a couple months and now i never want to eat anything and even if i do i don't... i can stand the way i look and i wanna change. NOW. i think im' anorexic and i don't know what to do
if your anorexic dont ask us. Ask a doctor but always remember yoru not fat but your mind makes u think you are. its all in your head. if yoru 87 pounds your way to skinny. Eat its good for u.Talk you your doctor. NOW
im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...
masturbation is actually good for u. and your not going to hell, its natural just dont do it at school or any thing. then it sucks.
ive thought about this for awhile...when guys like skaters and hardcore guys wear extremely tight girl pants. what do they do with thier thing? theres no space for it in the pants...
anyone know?
very odd question but theres always room unless u get a bonner. i no.
im 17 male 5'7" weight 130 lb.'s its it ok for my age cause i look realy skinny how can i gain weight i eat a lot fat foods but don't gain weight. can some one give tips.
u have fast mattabilism. Eat helthy foods. If u eat fatty foods your body will burn it up fast and burn up even more fat. Eat healthy and u will get a healy weight.
ok so i am 103lbs 5'4" but i have no muscle. i want to gain muscle and get rid of this roll i have at my stomach. its gross. you honestly wouldnt think at my weight i could have a pudgy tummy but it sits ontop of my jeans and it makes me feel bad. i normally skip breakfast, snack at lunch and just eat dinner. what could i do differently. ive been doing 50 sit ups a day for like 6 months and its not helping anything. what should i do? i want it gone fast in time for spring. help!
not eating break fast will actually make u gain weight and dont do sit ups so crunchs sit ups dont help they just waist energy. crunches just go up untill your abs contract
so i am dating this guy and he just got out of rehab and we dated a month in the summer then broke up and thats when he want to rehab well hes back and me and him have hooked up again well he was doing good and not using drugs but last wednesday he relapsed which means he went back to using...well he had a bad trip and had to go to the hosiptal and then he was put on house arrest well monday he had court to see if he had to go back to rehab or juvie..well i called and his dad said he won't be home until next monday which means he is rehab or juvie...and i dont know if i should stay with him? alot happend this summer with me and him i got pregant with his kid but i miscarried and we've been through alot together so should i stay with him? PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP! thanks * aleah*
the answer it if u rele love him or not. if he stays off drugs stay with him. But if he starts up again then there is no reason to stay with him. I think you should stay with him for a while and then see how it works out.
Hi! well oookay..i have a problem. I have alot of friends in school..mostly "girl friends" lol and tonight me and my mom and dad had a talk and they are like dont you have a boyfriend or any "boy friends" and i was like umm..and they are like why dont you hang out with any of them? and i was like because you wouldnt let me and they are like have you ever asked and i said no because i was afraid and my dad was like i would let you go out with a boy out to dinner or something. and my mom goes what happened to you? you use to have a lot of friends and hangout with a lot of people and this year you are like a nerd. just to let you know im a sophomore and im 15 turning 16! but this made me really..kinda depressed. i would LOVE to hangout with guys..but the thing is im soo shy and not outgoing at all. and either are the people i hangout with. just to tell you..im the most outgoing out of all of us and im SO SHY around boys..well some of them. i just really want more guy friends..its hard for me tho.. =[ my parents really like caught me off guard with this. and they are always talking about me "having no friends" i mean one of my best friends is my cousin and then i have another best friend and the one other friend i sometimes hangout with. thats it..i mean like i said i talk to alot of girls in school..we just never hangout..we say we should but it never happens..and the boy thing is also bothering me. what can i do? ive tried so many times to boost up my confidence and be more outgoing..its just not me i guess..
i will rate high for anyone who answers!
thanks.
just start hanging out with guys do u like any just hang around. Its just like when u first start like boys or in my case girls. when your like 12 or 13. Just hang out with them exept your a little late. Im a boy and i bet girls have dont things that they think are embarassing and we forget so wats the worst that could happen. (we forget some things but if we want to we can remember)
I'm in sixth grade and I have a boyfriend. All of my freinds have held their boyfriends hands and I haven't! I haven't had a boyfriend since 4th grade and I'm scared 2 hold his hand! Should I just do it or wait for him 2 hold my hand or neither?
first of all this is your first bf ever. You see 4th grade isnt a bf its a boy you have a crush on. Next crab his hand. and wat the hell are all this kids in 6th grade having bf and gf. again grab his hand your bf and gf just grab it. Or else its not a real relationship.
Aim, PyroManiac788
i am 14 i really like this boy and i think he likes me too. Yet he has a girlfreind .i think he really likes me though we always make eye contacts and he treats me like a boy who really likes a gurl sometimes i wonder that maybe he went out with the gurl so he can get rid of all the gurls who are all up on him and save the best for last. But i see him but he never answers my emails i'm to nervouse to call him . Now his brother also seems like he likes me as well . What do you think what can i do.
he wants u to be jealous. Thats what use boys do. Go for it and how old is his brother. but thats not the important part. Talk to him. He likes u. dont think he likes this girl more. Its just a way to get you to talk to him.
AIM Linuz12 adn PyroManiac788
ive been "talking" with a kid for 6 months now.
Talking is when your not going out but your "about to" and you both like eachother & know it
well im still liek nervous around him and idk were so different but i think thats what makes it good uk...well i guess what im wondering is should i wait around for him? dont tell me "if i think its worth the wait" because i wouldnt be here if that was the case idk hes 17 im 15 and yeah. leave your AIM sn so we can talk more and i can give details if you want.
ask him just go for it don just jump into asking him out but just more a conversation itno the topic. dont wait. My friend did and she was taken in a second. So he could be taken fast also. Tell him how much u like him.
AIM Linuz12 and PyroManiac788
okay so ive liked this guy for a loooong time, and well his friends always joke and say "stop flirting with your girlfriend" and "okay we're here to play basketball not flirt with brittany!" and i want to know if they are just teasing or theres some truth beneath all that.. how can i get him to honestly tell me if he likes me without throwing myself out there and seeming all desperate? please help
there just joking if he looks embarassed than he likes you. just ask him casually if he realy likes you. thats what i would want my gf to do.
How do i switch all my ipod to my library in my new computer without deleteing any? and how do i add music 2 the ipod without deleting any music on the ipod???
PLEASE HELP ME
save all your songs on a CD or a flopy disk (i would recamend a CD) use Itunes and burn a cd then on your new computer download Itunes adn put the CD in then drag them for windows media player to itunes. to add songs to your ipod just drag them from your library to your ipod file
you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend
me being dumped before (like 3 times by the same person) i think that that is a good way to break up im friends with my ex.
I've been dating this guy on and off since I've known him.We're best friends and spend all of our time together.
I love him ver much. He loves me too, and cares about me just as much as I care about him.
He lost his job in December because of a car wreck. Since then, I've been going out of my way to help him with just about everything. I buy him cigarettes,gas, beer and food. I've taken him to concerts, free of charge. I'm going to give him my drum set because he likes to play it and wants to really get good at the drums. I make him mixed cds. I e-mail him when he's down to help him cheer up. I buy him awesome Christmas and birthday presents. And actually, I really don't mind doing this for him. I love him and I want him to be happy.
The problem: He says "Thank you", but that's it. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. And I just found out that he sent a girl that he used to date an E-card because he hasn't talked to her in a long time. Okay, so maybe that shouldn't really matter, but it does because all I want is to know that I matter to him. That's all. He'll go out of his way to do something for her and he hasn't seen her in about a year. I want him to appreciate me and want me around. He usually doesn't even call; I call him.
Should I talk to him about it?
Should I just stop being upset and forget it?
How can I make him see all that I do for him and make him appreciate me?
Please help me. I'll rate high.
Talk to him and tell him that you did all this because you care about him and you want to no why he wont do anything more than thank you. Also i think he is talking to his ex becasue hes sad. He wants a lot of comfort.