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my boyfriend
so i am dating this guy and he just got out of rehab and we dated a month in the summer then broke up and thats when he want to rehab well hes back and me and him have hooked up again well he was doing good and not using drugs but last wednesday he relapsed which means he went back to using...well he had a bad trip and had to go to the hosiptal and then he was put on house arrest well monday he had court to see if he had to go back to rehab or juvie..well i called and his dad said he won't be home until next monday which means he is rehab or juvie...and i dont know if i should stay with him? alot happend this summer with me and him i got pregant with his kid but i miscarried and we've been through alot together so should i stay with him? PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP! thanks * aleah*
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you and himm have been through quite alot but with him using these drugs can get you and him into serious trouble you could eventually even start getting addicted to these drugs , i think you should break up because with drugs you have no future, but if you decide not to end it help him as much as you can and try to keep him busy so he doesnt relapsed again. good luck
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I think that you should take a break for a little while. Let him collect himself and get back together. Once he is clean possibly talk about getting back together. Also just because you arent together doesnt mean you can be friends. Cait ♥
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the answer it if u rele love him or not. if he stays off drugs stay with him. But if he starts up again then there is no reason to stay with him. I think you should stay with him for a while and then see how it works out.
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Woah i`m very sorry to hear this..
This is how i look at it my dad went in and out of rehabs..
Alright well i would think if he loved you and stuff he would want to stay away from that stuff and want to be with you..He puts drugs before you so he apparently isn`t ready for a steady good relationship..I think stayin by his side is a very good thing and i can understand that it must be hard for you but i think bein a friend for him is what he needs.. I wouldn`t stay with him as more then that at this moment and i would jump back into a relationship with him soon as he gets out of rehab or whatever because that doesn`t mean he is doin it for himself or you he is just there because he has to be..
See there is a difference in wanting to be there for himself and being put there..he is going to have to want to be there.. So i`d wait til he reaches that point and isn`t on drugs before having him as more..♥Dez
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I think it would be best if you stepped out of the picture for awhile and let him get his act together.
At this point, it isn't much of a relationship if he's always using and going back and forth between rehab and home.
But, of course, I know you'll do what you want regardless of what I say. But do exercise caution next time you have sex (especially if it's with this boy again). I mean, taking care of a baby while daddy is in rehab won't be easy and your baby will pay for having an absent father in all kinds of ways. Just remember that.
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