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I really, really like this guy...
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i am 13 years old and i'm a female duh :-) ok and i really like this guy named uhm peter and i never realised i like him untill i had the feeling he likes me! he always smiled at me and once he talked to me but i was kind of meen because i never wanted him to know that i like him i know its weird! so i think he was upset but one week after that another guy told me: cornelia (thats me) robert ( a nother guy i really hate)loves you i was like : so i dont care! and then peter heard that and said : i love you 2 and i tried to be your friend but you where so meen! and then i was meen again I HATE MYSELF i was like: yeah 2 bad ore something like that :-( and now he wont talk to me anymore so he ignores me and i want to appologize but i cant because i am kind of shy when it comes to things like that and he always hangs with his friends so i wanted to call him but on my list where 3 numbers so i never knew which one to dile! and i peter is all i've been thinking about lately and i really really like him! so i need some advice! how can i appologize and what should i say without seeming stupid? I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!! thanks!!!!
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tell him youwere just nervous and you didnt mean what you said i think now is a good time to tell him how you feel so maybe he'll understand better i know it will be hard but its better than him thinking you hate him , try taking a risk.
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Well you made a big misake, let him know that. Tell him you were just so starttled by him admiting his feelings for you that you just blurted out the first thing that came to your mind out of shock. Tell him that you really like him and say sorry. Cait ♥
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Okay, not exactly a simple case of shyness. You seem to blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, which seems to be what you'd think would end the situation as soon as possible so you no longer have to be in it.
So what you could do is go through this in your head and call him. Go through each number on your list until you find him. If you dial the wrong one, I doubt anyone's going to bite your head off. Just try the other numbers until you find him. Explain to him that you were just nervous around him, that's why you reacted so harshly to what he said, then apologize. I guarantee you that you won't come off as stupid if you say that. It can go along the lines of:
Hi, is Peter there? Oh, hi Peter, this is Cornelia. About the other day, I wanted to apologize for being rude. I was rude because I'm so nervous around you. What I said isn't how I feel, so I'm sorry.
You know, or something like that. I'd hate to put words in your mouth, so you might want to change it around to something you would say. If it helps, write it down first before you call him. In any case, I suggest doing this soon. If you wait too long, it'll be even more awkward.
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Sometimes the easiest thing to do is just say what you want to say.
It can be risky. But it's a lot better then just being tongue-tied and letting things slip through your fingers.
As for how to contact him, if you can't speak to him directly, you could email him, or text-message him, or IM him, or phone one of those three numbers and leave a voicemail with your name and number, asking him to call you back.
Or you could write an old-fashioned letter to him. His address is almost certainly in the phone book, after all. Don't get too extreme, of course; just tell him that you like him, and you're sorry you were mean to him.
But do say something to him, somehow, because if you don't you'll probably regret it. Good luck!
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