you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend
summerGIRL_xo answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 6:12 pm: yes, that sounds like a good breakup. its very nice and sweet and it shouldn't hurt his feelings more than you ahve to.
however, if you are thinking of doing this over the internet its not always smart because its impersonal so call him or talk to him!
UberLucifer answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 2:44 pm: i love it :) Of course its going to hurt him but time will heal all wounds. Just dont force him to friendship or you may absolutely lose him. Let it all just happen naturaly (just with your little obscure help ;) ) and I belive that in time itll be fine. Good luck [ UberLucifer's advice column | Ask UberLucifer A Question ]
BlackAngel answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 9:42 am: I think it's a pretty darn nice way of saying 'it's over" and probably a lot nicer than most guys would get. I'd say go for it, but don't forget that it's still going to hurt him that you're breaking up with him.
Good luck with this, I think you have a strong, fair and nice breakup idea and hopefully he'll be understanding and remain your friend. [ BlackAngel's advice column | Ask BlackAngel A Question ]
Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 9:39 am: I think that's quite good actually. It's great that you are completely honest with him, yet you are still kind and considerate to his feelings. Its sweet that you still want to be friends with him, and I hope you can still remain close like you said, but be prepared if he isn't ready to do that yet. He may need some time! But I think that sounds really good, I'm sure this must be hard for you, but good luck! [ Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong's advice column | Ask Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong A Question ]
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