Ok well somedays ago i went to this party.....my best friend was there but his g/f wasnt......so he was flirting and doin all that shit with this other girl.....his g/f found out and they broke up.....so we started talkin and she said she was likin me more and more everyday and would consider goin out with me sometime.....well a minute later her "boyfriend" called and siad he wants to get back together with her and he lied to her just so they could get back together.....so she pretty much abandoned me. but she did say "I really do like you maybe as just a friend but you mean a lot to me" I need help!!! (will rate 5's for any)
I.Am.A.Pyro.Advice.Giver answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 5:10 pm: This has happened to my friend before he broke up but she came back. Theve broken up adn come back a lot. But your friend is probably like mine he stills "loves" her but he also realy likes another girl the thing is love is a little more important. First u should tell her that he lied. I would im i had a gf that didn't no some1 lied. Also he will break her heart if he's just like u said he was be her crying shoulder when he does. Be there for her. And just be a good close friend till then. [ I.Am.A.Pyro.Advice.Giver's advice column | Ask I.Am.A.Pyro.Advice.Giver A Question ]
pepermintpatty answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 4:54 pm: ok it really wasn't kool to just leave you if she breaks up wit her b/f and she comes bac to you just say that you don't want to get together cause you have to rememeber wat she did to you get some1 else [ pepermintpatty's advice column | Ask pepermintpatty A Question ]
wildNcrazy231 answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 4:01 pm: it sounds like she was on rebound. she probably likes you but not as much as her "boyfriend".
your friend doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend
so when its over if you still like her you might have a chance. but dont get your hopes up on this girl. she is taken. [ wildNcrazy231's advice column | Ask wildNcrazy231 A Question ]
Buffy33111 answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 3:46 pm: tell this guys girlfriend that he lied just so he could get her back. On second thought this girl is to wrapped up in this guy, I mean once a guy cheats or messes around he'll do it again, and if she liked you she would not have abandoned you, she was using you to make herself feel better until her boyfriend came back. You can do better, forget about her, you could do so much better. Good Luck. [ Buffy33111's advice column | Ask Buffy33111 A Question ]
OhBurn answered Tuesday February 28 2006, 8:02 am: Well, first of all, I agree with you. It wasn't cool to leave you hanging like that, but as a girl, I also understand her point of view. She must really really like or maybe even love your friend. He did an awful thing to her and it must have taken tons of guts for her to take him back. Also, she was on the rebound when she was talking to you, so she might have not meant a single word she said, which is what you seemed most upset about. So don't sweat it, he's most likely going to "cheat" on her again, just because all guys cheat more than once if they do it at all. Just tell her that he's going to do it again, maybe she'll see the mistake of taking him back.
Hope everything works out well for you.
~Manda. =) [ OhBurn's advice column | Ask OhBurn A Question ]
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