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My best friends new best friend
Ok this story may take a little while...
My best friend's has a boyfriend and about a month ago she found out that one of our other friends liked her. Even though she didnt like him somehow they ended up talkin more and they always got upset cuz somehow the subject of him liking her always came up. Well through their fights and talks, they have become like best friends. They see things the same as each other or something. i felt jealous that my best friend was gettin stolen away so i confronted her about it, and she told me that it went her bf, me, then this other guy on her list of friends and she wasnt just sayin that cuz she was talkin to me. but it feels like she confides more in him, and she talks to him a lot. sometimes it almost seems like shes blowing me off, in general, not just for him. every time i try talkin to her about it it always comes out wrong and i end up sounding mega possesive and like im making a mountain out of a molehill and i hate it. it seems like my best friend is slipping away and theirs nothing i can do about. what do i do? and please, if theres anything you can say that doesnt just involve "talking about it to her" that wud be even better, although i would take anything i can get
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Oh man, I have a similiar problem, but now it's getting better. Here is what I did...
1. JUST IN CASE! Make friends with other people and become even closer to your other friends. That way IF your friendship wasn't meant to be you won't be completely lonely.
2. Talk to her about life, your friends, ask her about her friends, and ask her to do stuff just the both of you.
3. Eventually, you will have to talk about it with her or else you will know that things were really solved. When you do this say something like, "It hurts when you tell him everything and don't tell me, your supposed best friend." She might not even realize she's doing it.
Good luck!
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how bout, you try calling her, talking to her about your life, some to her with your problems, confide in her. that boy may be her best friend, but hes her BEST GUY FRIEND and you are her BEST GIRL FRIEND and her boyfriend he is.....well, just her BOYFRIEND. i hope that helps you a little!
<3 Kay
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