theres this brother of one of the girls on my sisters soccer team and i saw him at the begining of the game and i got a feeling like "wow i want to talk to him and meet him" but because im so shy i didnt talk to him. he kinda saw me at the begining too (i think) but he was with his dad and went down to sit with him, but like after the game too the team was having their like "after game meeting" and he was looking like in my direction im not sure if he was really looking at me if you know what i mean. i dont know what to think what if wasnt looking at me i would feel like an idiot if i just went and talked to him and he had no intrest in talking to me at all. i really want to talk to him but i dont know how to not make it awkward. i know nothing about him other than his sister is on the team. what do i do!!!??
p.s. they have a game tonight and i think i might go to see if maybe hes there and maybe if i can get over being shy i might be able to talk to him? please help me do this!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? losers1 answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 12:46 am: just talk to him. he's just a guy. don't be afraid. it's ok to be shy, but like think of something that makes you laugh and put it on him. or picture something that you really like and put it in his place and just start talking. it'll all be fine. it's kinda like going on stage where you have stage fright and then someone tells you to JUST BREATHE! thats all you have to do. just breathe. hope everything turns out great! tell me all about it! bye! have a great summer!
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Xineph answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 9:42 pm: Talk to him! The best case scenario: He's interesting, wanted to talk to you, you hit it off, and get something started. The worst case? He was never interested, it's awkward for about forty seconds, you both walk away, and you never have to deal with him again. It will be FINE. I wouldn't waste the oppurtunity. [ Xineph's advice column | Ask Xineph A Question ]
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