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This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s!
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sorry if i repeat things other people have said cuz i haven't read them BUT...
theres not alot you can say without coming on too strong or sounding somewhat corny. a lot of it is alll about body language. now these things may sound corny but they're subtle things that might actually work... things like rubbing your lips together (or biting the corner of your lips w/e) when you look at him or touching his knee/shoulder and playing with his hair is very flirty. compliments are always nice too. when its kind of a silent moment instead of breaking it just kind of stare at him and give a cute smile and then maybe say something. this whole body language thing is a lot easier than talking to him and a lot more fun AND more effective i think! plus you don't have to worry about getting tongue tied, also try to avoid talking TOO much about school.. its just a sign that you don't really know what else to talk about make sure you keep good eye contact don't look away from him when you get nervous!! try and stay confident! good luck!
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first of all.. just relax
dont get too nervous
just be yourself..thats why he likes you =)
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So you say stupid things around guys... but why say anything at all? I'm guessing there are moments of awkward silence that you're trying to fill. Why are they awkward? Is he trying to indicate that he desires you? I would bet that the guys are just as nervous.
As for cute/hot/sexy, actions speak WAY louder than words. I'm not saying kiss him or grab the butt - try simply being closer, squeezing an arm here or there, wiping something off of his shirt (even if it's not there!). Make sure you smell nice.
Just try not to feel forced.
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act like you normally do. be your self. my friend andrea always tells me not to think. if he likes you its because you are you. not because you are trying to be someone else. so like i said, be you and dont try to think about what you say or already have said. the night will go as it is already planed. so have fun. i hope i helped. and goodluck.
<3 Kays
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omg! some guys do that to me! but its easy to fix.
you have to relax around him. let him talk more
that way the pressure isnt all on you to keep the
conversation going. like ask him a guestion about something he can go on and on about maybe sports
or if he is gonna play lacrosse in the spring whatever. or about the dance. think before you speak and remember its just a guy. he already likes you enough to get tickets for you so really you cant do anything that will make him think your weird.
cause he already likes you and probably thinks ur hott. just be chill and have fun. you can be like
maybe if your lucky ill save a dance for you.
or hit him playfully or touch his arm. you have
to like play a game with him. thts really sexy.
have fun at ur dance! and if he dances with another girl than you should ask another boy!
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