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13/f
i want to know if you are going to makeout with someone for the first time how would you do it? to make it look like you have done it before with out over doing it!!???
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okay well just act confident like you have done it millions of times. and just go for it. usual the boy takes control so just copy him basically. and if your worrided about where to put your hands which most girls do, well if he puts his hands on your back or anywhere just either put them on his shoulders or his back. good luck <3
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Really, if you have to come to an advice website to ask how to make out, then I doubt you're ready. I don't want to patronise you, but I wonder if you even know what making out involves..
Anyways, you kiss the guy, with or without tounges,it 's your choice. Slap his hand(or don't) when he tries to slip it up your top. Just don't feel pressured into anything, and don't date a guy older than fifteen. Also don't pretend (sorry , there's a lot of no no's). It's not smart, it's silly-you'll have more fun if you let him know you have no experience. Be honset in all matters sexual!( I speak as one who used routinely to fake orgasms-a singularly worthless pursuit, which does no one any favours). You have your whole sex life ahead of you(I feel quite envious as I think of that). There's no need to rush anything.
Good luck!
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Ok first. It is ok if you dont know how to make out. You know making out makes us guys horny and activates the launch system. I am telling you this because you may be worried about how to make out but soon your problem will be how to deal with a horny guy. Its kinda like a 15 year old getting in his dads car and turning it on and reaving up the engine, but leaving it in park because he is not ready to drive yet. Why get him all excited. Also if your scared he wont like you if you dont make out with him. So....what.... That is stupid you dont want a boy who will stop liking him if you dont make out with him, because next it will be a handjob, then blowjob, then SEX i.e. the act of making babies....the problem is he dont want no babies he just wants to use you. You know a boy likes you if he would like you and show you he likes you by his actions.i.e. Respect. Chances are you not going to marry this boy, and what you do with him you will do with somebody else and it will just get pushed a little farther and farther and next thing you know you will have some seriouse issues on your hands. I recommend a book that I just read. YOU WILL LOVE IT! its Called "IF YOU REALLY LOVED ME" by Jason Evert. Sorry I kinda didnt really help, but maybe I did in the long run.
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You can read and read and read about kissing but until you do it, you don't know any more than you did to begin with.
Don't be so concerned with pretending you know what you're doing. Just go for it. We all start somewhere. The point of kissing is to enjoy it. Not to calculate every move.
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I know this sounds cliche, but you know how to, without knowing. It'll come naturally. But, you are NEVER good at first. So study up!
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One of the BEST sites out there.
Good luck with your kiss. The most important thing to remember, ENJOY IT AND HAVE FUN. =]
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