i had sex with one of my really close friends last night. we used to hangout alot and hook up once in a while but last night he had a bunch of people over and we just did it. please dont judge me, thanks but im goin to a bonfire tonight that hes like hosting because its near his house and i just want to make sure hes not going to tell alot of people and not make it a big deal.. what should i say when i see him tonight.. should i pull him away from everyone
Babygurl101 answered Sunday April 9 2006, 12:08 pm: I think you should talk to him and tell him how you fell also if he starts to tell people then he isent a really good friend! I hope I helped GOOD LUCK! [ Babygurl101's advice column | Ask Babygurl101 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 8 2006, 6:37 pm: You tell him how you feel about it..Like how you would like to keep that between him && you..
If he does tell people you can always make him look stupid..
Kays answered Saturday April 8 2006, 4:45 pm: you should pull him over and tell him ow you rly feel about him and that you are not comfortable with others knowing about your sexlife and if he a sincere* about your feelings he wont tell any one but if hes just a big asshole hen he will and you will know that he wasnt a good friend from the begining. i hope i helped. send feedback on how you think everything went!
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Saturday April 8 2006, 3:14 pm: well, if hes one of your really close friends.. he prolly wont say much to anyone - especially if you ask him not to. when you see him, act normal or else everyone will know something is up. you prolly dont wanna show him that its bugging you either because then he might think you regret doing it with him [ maybe you do - idk ] but yea. personally i would just pull him aside and talk to him about what happened. if it didnt mean anything to you then just like a "hook up" then honestly you shouldnt have done it.. besides for the "having fun" part. but just tell him you want everything between you two to be normal.. like nothing happened. dont make things awkward because you could loose a good friend.. and that would suck (considering the situation and everything). do you think it actually meant something to him? and you have to ask yourself the same question.. if it didnt then tell him that. also say you dont wanna make a big deal about it because you two are nothing more then friends so dont tell anyone.
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