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Okay so last night at this dance party I was dancing(more like grinding) with a whole bunch of different guys. Then i noticed that this one guy had a hard on so i really rode into it. Later on that night I danced with my crush and he didnt get a boner, should I feel wierd because I wasnt doing a good job or what? Any Input?
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It really depends on the guy. Not every guy will get turned on because you were grinding with him. Don't feel bad because you weren't able to turn on your crush and you were able to turn on the other boys. That's the difference between boys. Different things, turn different boys on. So, don't feel bad. ♥
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No,different guys get turned on by different things.Some guys dont get turned on right away so it takes awhile,dont think because he didnt have a boner you didnt do a good job.
♥ danielle
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If you were grinding with a whole bunch of different guys, then you have a lot more problems than whether your crush gets a hard on with you or not. You are creating an image or reputation of being easy or slutty. Even if your crush were to have gotten hard dancing with you, do you think he would want a long term relationship with someone who will grind with every other guy? Or maybe he just thinks you're easy. You might want to rethink your plan.
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Some guys don't get hot easily and some do. So don't feel bad at all!
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There's nothing wrong with your crush not getting a boner from dancing with you, and it has nothing to do with you doing a bad job or anything like that. Some guys get excited by things like dirty dancing and others don't.
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