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what are some really good mascara that is cheap (likebelow $10) that i can find at the store that seperates your eyelashes and makes them thicker/longer ?

Covergirl, its cheap($3-4) and it works really good for me and it sperates your eyelashes too!

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I havce 3 morbid, discusting habits, And i need help on stopping them.
- I forget to wash my hands after using the bathroom. Gross, How can i remeber to wash them?
-I chew on pens I literally take them apart and chew on different pieces and usally end up with no pens, its sad. How can i stop?
-And i can never remeber to flush the toliet.
And thats gross to.
Help me with theese horrible habits!

Well habits are something you can overcome very easliy. For habit number 1, washing your hands after using the bathroom thats simple.Put yourself a note on the soap, so everytime you come in the bathroom and leav the bathroom the note with catch you eye and remember that you have to wash your hands.(i had a habit that was something like that, i would always always leave my straightner on so my mom wput this note up there and it helped me out, and now i turned my straightner off everyday) okay back to your problems. Now for your second problem get mints or gum and keep it with you and whenever you have the erge to chew on your pen caps take out a gum or mint. And the last habit forgetting to flush teh toliet, but a note on the toliet seat, adn also the flusher handle. Everytime when you put the toliet seat up and down you will always see it.Well im very sorry that was so long and i hoped that helped

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I'm a good singer and its my passion. How can i get even better at it besides practice?

Practice makes perfect.If you dont practice you wont get better. And then not practing for a while and trying to go back and hit those high notes your voice will be all messed up.Or even get a vocal coach to help you.Well hoped this helped

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15/f
what do you get for a guy that you have been only going out with for about week? lame, huh? i really like him though. we have liked eachother for sometime too...
thanks. ill rate, no need to ask.
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I understand that you want to get him something even tho its only been a week but also think about how long you guys will be together.You may think forever but it wont, but then again i could be wrong.But as i heard a girl isnt supposed to get a guy anything.You should make sure he is getting you something first,before you go off and spend your money.Well anyways get him chocolate,card,something that has to do with his favorite sprots teams,things you know hes intrested in.I hope this helped

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This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥

If i was you i would talk to him about it and let him realize that whenever he gets mad he takes it out on you and you dont like it at all. He will understand.If you dont talk to him about it then he will just keep getting you in a mad mood.Alright,well i hoped that helped.

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my friend is having a problem she is in 7th grade and so am i she got asked out by a 8th grader and she likes him a lot but she doesn't know if she should go out wit him or not some people say he is really weird and everything so can u please help my freind out

Dont listen what other people.Go by what you think and what your heart si telling you.If you always lsiten to what other people think you could never find out that guy could be perfect so dont listen to other people give the guy a chance. Well i hope that helped

And i hope everything works out with your friend!

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alright so ive had the flu before and everything but what i have right now i have no idea what it is. so for the past 4 or 5 days ive woken up with a horrible headache and a really bad pain if i like moved my eyes the wrong way. weird i know. then it will like get better but around 5 the headache will come back. asprin isnt helping at all. Then about 2 days again i woke up and i was incredably pale and dizzy and nausious. i didnt throw up or anything but it came and went the same as the headache. now since this morning whenever i try and breath deeply i start coughing horribly and i cant stop (its a weak cough though). someone please help tell me what's wrong i just want to know what medicine to take and what things might help me feel better. thanks i rate 5s.

Wow i had the same thing happened to me the palness,dizzy and nausious what is was is that i had low blood suagr a form of diabeties, those are the smytoms for it but the other problems you been having arent anything to do with diabetes.Oh yea does diabetes run in your family at all? Let me know, i could help you out

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ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?

please help me :'(

confussed luv

Hey Im here to help you the best i can.Well i would talk to him if i was you. Ask him if he has feelings for your best friend but let him know that you wont be mad or anything. You just want to know.If he says no and you can tell that hes lying, just ask him if he is lying and if he says no again just say swear on are relationship. Yea that might sound a little korny to say but hey it works for me. Well if that doesnt work just tell me what happened and ill help you again.Well hopefully this helped

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I have two younger siblings. Some might say that I shoulk babysit them fir free, but I also cook, clean, and chase them around. I think I should get a little something. What do you think?

Yes i do think you should get something, even tho they are your siblings you do have a life too and dont wanna spend time watching your siblings.And talk to you parents about it too

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track starts on march 6th

i can't even fun a quater mile with out geting out of breath!

i am 14(8th grade ) and i just bought a treadmill yesterday

what can i do so i can start track...( even though their are NO tryouts thanks alot babes )

If i was you i would run around your block a few times everyday or every other day, and you keep doing more days or more laps each time.If you have to take a break only a 30 second break nothing more or it could be less. And before you know if you can fun a mile without stoping

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How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high!

You can tell by the way he toches you. And by the way how he uses words.Leading you on to have sex with him.On every guys mine is sex, thats all they want, their nasty. Yes there might be a couple guys out there that dont care about sex but its hard to find them. If your smart dont have sex with them wait till your older, even if you use protection or not just dont do it.I really hope this helped

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im 13/f. My boyfriend beats on me. I have marks and scars on my arms and legs from him. Im a cheerleader so they always show. I really like him but i hate him when he does this to me. What should i do?

**sleepiesheep**

Your 13 years old hunny you shouldnt be hurt like that no one should you really should break up with him. Go get him some help anything! Tell an adult,teacher,police anyone that you trust. Im telling you break up with him.

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I have a great girlfriend, one I've been going out for nearly three years now. We have never really fought or argued or been mad at each other or anything. We both have problems here and there with school and home, but small ones with each other. I do need advice on that though...See, my teacher once told me two years ago that most if not all guys will hear a girl tell her problem and then go to try and solve it, when really the girl just wanted him to listen and hear her out. Is that true? Sometimes I find myself doing that, even after thinking about what my teacher said. So my question is...does being a listener and just talking about a problem count just as much as trying to come up with a solution. For these kinds of problems I mean things like: yeah my friends did this to me; I'm not sure what to do about this sport; I feel a certain way when ___; etc. It does seem that half the time she tells me something, I right away try to come up with a solution or tell her what to do about it. It usually ends up falling right back in my face, or making her feel upset. Would you (girls) appreciate it more if the guy that was there...helped out with a solution, just listened to you about it and talked to you about it, or a little of each. Thanks, I would really appreciate it.

A little of both honestly. Be a listener to her let. Let her know your there to listen. If she needs someoen to hold her, hold her then. Just help out her, girls love it when a guys listens to them and helps out.

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So my boyfreinds birthday is next thursday and I want to do something special for him. But then comes the problem. We're both still in school (hes going to be 17 and im 16) So i can't really doing anything that great during the day...and then that night i have a volleyball game like an hour away and i usually dont get home until about 11pm so i dont know what I can do...anyideas?

If i was you celebrate his birthday on the weekend, yea i know its not his birthday but its okay he will understand

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Ok i'm 14/f and i have this bf who is 15 and we have been together for like ever. like 1 year and months but i know i need to break if off because he is the main source of my sadness and why i am always getting introuble. i can't though, its way to hard for. I really wish he would to me, so that i didn't have to do it, but that would probaly make me more upset and my mind would be so mad at myself. but i KNOW i have to, any idea's of how to make up my mind or know for sure if were meant to be truly? i love him so much and he understands me and can always make me laugh ectc. but when he's unahppy, i can never seem to make him happy, so he makes me unahppy.this is like alll the time. i hate it, but i can't ditch him for making me unhappy and depressed, can i? please help me out with sorting this out and everything, write me and i will write back with more information on the situation if you need more info. i just need some other opinons on this, because all my friends say to end it and no advice on the matter. thank lots

Tell him how you feel, dont jsut sit there tell him. Say to him its not the right time anymore for me to have a boyfriend and tell him why. Hes a guy he needs to know. Yes it might be hard for you but if hes making you life unhappy all the time then hes not worth it and yes you love him but you can also love him as a friend...can you not? Do what you think is right not what other thinks..well i really hoep this helped and tell me how everything goes

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i am in 7th grade and i have a friend who i have known even before skool we were always the best of friends but then she moved to a different skool and well we have hip hop together with some other of myfriends and when i am there she never even says a word to me and it really hurts she has always been a good girl and now she is just so caught up in her looks and she she hangs out wit and boys and all my other friends think this to and i dono if i should be angr wit her and all that ir if i should just forget about it cause when i see her and she doesn't even reallt notices me it jind of hurts my feelings please help

Well maybe shes going threw a rough time in her life and her changes and everything is because of something that is going on.If i was you i would talk to her alone with no one by you. Tell her how you feel about her ignoring you. And ask her why she changed so much. Sometimes the changes are for the good or for the bad

Hope this helped

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i've been single for more than a year now because i still love this guy. i can't seem to get over him no matter what. sometimes i even cry myself to sleep at night or when some people ask me if i have a boyfriend i always have an urge to cry but i dont want to in front of them. i got in a bad situation with him so my parents arent that fondd of him even thought it wasnt his fault but they dont know that. he says he still likes me but he knows that i wont go out with him again (which im pretty sure isnt true) so he has been going out with other girls. im just confused and cant figure out what to do. thanks for any help!
-haley

Well i would just talk to him let him know how you feel about him and let him know that you care about him and everything. He will understand and even ask him how he feels about you too. Ecspecially even if he likes, you will be surprised by what he says. I realy hope this helped

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Help! Help! Help!

I used to have this boyfriend my parents hated to death. He moved all the way across the United States (I live in California) and emailed me his new phone number. While my parents were at a meeting, I called him and talked only like a minute since he had to go to a school event. Will his number show up on the phone bill? If so, my parents will see it and become suspicious, because we almost never call people out of state. I have a Panasonic phone with caller ID if it helps.
Can anyone give me any good excuses for when my parents round on me?

Well that happened to me before to and how i deal with it is i just told my parents that someone pranked called me and i really wanted to know who it was and why they did it.Even tho it was from another state. So maybe you should just tell your parents something like that. They will believe you, trust me it happened to me...Hopefully this helped.

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