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How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high!
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A guy who is just interested in sex woould be all over you or try and pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Then when you don't do it, get mad and/or leave you. He'd treat you more like an object then someone he loved or cared about, possibly even ignore you unless you were making out or something.
you can tell if a guy loves you if he is willing to go only as far as you want to. From the way he looks at you, smiles at you, and touches you. If he does a lot of nice things for you..i.e write poetry, buy you things etc. He tells you I love you and is not afraid to let you or anyone else hear it.
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You can tell by the way he toches you. And by the way how he uses words.Leading you on to have sex with him.On every guys mine is sex, thats all they want, their nasty. Yes there might be a couple guys out there that dont care about sex but its hard to find them. If your smart dont have sex with them wait till your older, even if you use protection or not just dont do it.I really hope this helped
<3 Brittany
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You can't. Not unless you withhold. If he stays with you and you don't give him any, then he's not just interested in sex.
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hi! I just got out of a relationship where all the guy wanted was physical things a few months ago. He was all over me from the start and I had to push him away. Since he wasn't getting what he wanted from me he cheated on me. That's how I knew that he only wanted me for "advantages." Also whenever we were out he would check out other girls and comment about how hot they were. So watch how he looks at/talks to/acts around other girls, that could be a good clue also. I hope he really does love you, you deserve it. Luv Megz2009
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I would say if they are constantly talking about sex or tryin to do sexual things alot then they just want sex from you..
If the guy doesn`t do that and does other things with his girl friend such as take them out,cuddle and talk like a human being then they have some sort of feelings for the girl.. ♥Dez
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well, my b/f just broke up with me saturday and we were going out for 6 months and we were in love. you know he's in love if he calls you whenever he says he will. Never keeps you waiting for anything. Says i love you and looks in your eyes. Says he'll do anything for you whenever you need it. And you know they dont have to be exaclty about any of this but around this area you know? Always wants to be aroud you! rate me
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If they keep talking to you about sexual things, or make a move on you every ten minutes then they are looking for sex.
If he stares into your eyes, tells you your beautiful, and acts like he really does love you then he probably does.
Ashley♥
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Well pretty much they wont ask you to have sex to many times.
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If he doesn't ask you more than once if you are interested in having sex and still acts the same around you no matter what your answer is to him. Also, if he compliments you more than saying derogatory comments.
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When a guy doesn't push you into have sex or force you to have sex with him, then he loves you. If he demands you have sex with him, he's just interested in sex. Be sure not to push him more than he's pushing you either. Some guys don't like really pushy women.
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Tell him you have decided to wait for marriage to have sex (or to have any more sex, if you aren't a virgin). If he really loves you, he'll stay with you anyway and won't try to get you to change your mind. If he doesn't really love you, he'll eventually find some excuse to leave after he realizes you aren't going to change your mind.
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As my mum n ethics teacher always says..."If the man loves you...he's not gona make you have sex with him a week, month or day after if you don't want to!" If you want to then that's just a different story because you are both using each other.
Also I think if he keeps telling you how 'hot' you are n not saying he loves you and that you are beautiful...he's just using you! Then again he might say these things and don't mean it but it's up to the guy you have to know his friends and his background. Maybe he just like to have fun but he really loves you!
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If u see him all over other girls, then he's desperate for sex. but if he spends most of his time being w. you or around you, then sex isnt the only thing he's looking for. either way, all guys are desperate for sex but the good ones actually want that "communication" w. the girl too.
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Generally, a guy who is genuinely interested in you will never rush you into bed. Because he wants to get to know you first, he wants to spend time talking to you, hanging out with you an just being with you before moving onto that step.
If a guy is just interested in sex, most of the talk will be sex-related, his eyes will quite often wonder you up and down when he looks at you and any compliments you receive will be along the lines of how sexy you look, how great your boobs look in that top, how good he reckons you are in the sack etc.
If there is any doubt that a guy wants to just get you in the sack, rather than get to know you and you're in the market for a long term relationship, just tell him that you're not wanting a sexual relationship right now. If he just wants sex, he'll be out that door faster than you can say "get me out of the chastity belt!"
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if a guy is willing to wait until OU are ready to hae sex, he most likely loves you, is a guy is pressuring you into having sex, even if you want to, he doesnt know that, so chances are he is only interested in sex.
make sure you know before you give it up to a guy that is not fully commited.
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