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my friend went to a new skool
i am in 7th grade and i have a friend who i have known even before skool we were always the best of friends but then she moved to a different skool and well we have hip hop together with some other of myfriends and when i am there she never even says a word to me and it really hurts she has always been a good girl and now she is just so caught up in her looks and she she hangs out wit and boys and all my other friends think this to and i dono if i should be angr wit her and all that ir if i should just forget about it cause when i see her and she doesn't even reallt notices me it jind of hurts my feelings please help
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If that's the way she's going to be, then forget about her. You'll make better friends, and maybe she'll even grow up and get over herself. Maybe not. Either way, it's not your loss or problem.
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i think that you should talk to her about it. if you would rather not do it to her face, talk to her online, send her an e-mail, or slip her a note at dance. you should tell her you miss hanging out with her, and ask her if there is a reason she hasn't seemed very interested in talking to you recently. tell her you know she has a new school & new friends, but that doesn't mean she can't have her old friends too. if this doesn't work, you need to know that sometimes friends just grow apart - it's sad, but at least you had a great friendship you will always treasure. but i would try talking to her first, before deciding the friendship is over. hope this helps!
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It`s okay to feel like this. But changing into a new school and hanging out with new people can really change anybody. I say if she doesn`t make an effort into talking to you; then you shouldn`t either. This girl has obviously changed & met new people. Ignore her too. I know that you guys were best of friends, but sometimes life needs a little bit of change. You really don`t want to hang around someone who doesn`t even pay attention to her other friends. I say ignore her.
But if you want to make an effort into talking to her and become atleast friends again, then pull her aside and ask her why she`s being so rude and ignoring you. If you actually talk to her; she might be nice to you again. But I don`t know for sure..
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Well maybe shes going threw a rough time in her life and her changes and everything is because of something that is going on.If i was you i would talk to her alone with no one by you. Tell her how you feel about her ignoring you. And ask her why she changed so much. Sometimes the changes are for the good or for the bad
Hope this helped
<3 Brittany
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maybe i can help you okay i just recently had afriend who did the same thing to me and now me and her we never talk no more. the point that i am getting to is that a long distance friendship is really hard to keep with and then out of the bloom the person comes back to a whole new person and forgats who the real friend is and i am talking about you and your friend she is not really your friend cuz she would not ignore you and think about her looks so really that friend that you thought was a best friend is really not and forget about her. she going to realize that later she is missing a good friend that knew the real her i hoped i help out
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well, as people get older they change, some for the better and some for the worse. maybe her other friends act like this, so thats where she gets it.
first what i would do, is i would think about if i really want to be friends with her still. if all she is doing is hurting your feelings, do you really want to still be friends with her? plus, she doesn't really sound lke that great of a friend if she just ignores her old friends.
if you still want be friends with her, then i would just talk to her about it. just be like "hey, i noticed we havent really talked in a while.. how is your new school?" or something like that.
hope i helped
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