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i really need to break it off
Ok i'm 14/f and i have this bf who is 15 and we have been together for like ever. like 1 year and months but i know i need to break if off because he is the main source of my sadness and why i am always getting introuble. i can't though, its way to hard for. I really wish he would to me, so that i didn't have to do it, but that would probaly make me more upset and my mind would be so mad at myself. but i KNOW i have to, any idea's of how to make up my mind or know for sure if were meant to be truly? i love him so much and he understands me and can always make me laugh ectc. but when he's unahppy, i can never seem to make him happy, so he makes me unahppy.this is like alll the time. i hate it, but i can't ditch him for making me unhappy and depressed, can i? please help me out with sorting this out and everything, write me and i will write back with more information on the situation if you need more info. i just need some other opinons on this, because all my friends say to end it and no advice on the matter. thank lots
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Well this is the exact same thing that happened with me and my boyfriend. I didn't want to break up with him beause i knoew it would hurt him as much as it hurts me but he ended up breaking up with me. He now says he wants to get back with me but doesn't show it at all. I think you should not break up with him because he sounds like he really needs you to just be there for him. H eneeds someone who he can depend on as more then just a friend he needs you. If things are just not going well like at all then break up with him if you think it is the rigth thing to do but if you don't know it is probablly because you want to stay. If this makes any since and you need more help please feel free to write me back and ask anything else i am always here
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Love meggs
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you mite not have to break it off if you talk to your bf about how your feeling he mite understand and you guys can work it out but if that doesn't work then tell him you love him but this relationship is to emotional for me tell him you still love him but its for the best that u break it off but first talk to him to see if there is anyother way you guys can stay together and be happy
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Dear Ireallyneed,
At the age of 14, being with your boyfriend for over one year is a pretty long relationship. I understand that it is very difficult to break off a long relationship, however, it sounds like this relationship is bringing you down...swiftly. You are at a crossroads right now and you have a choice to make. You have options. There are a lot of things you like/love about your boyfriend, but I believe that you have been thinking about this for quite some time. The only problem with that is that it just creates more stress. What you need to do is break it off with him now, in a way that it is definitely over and he understands that. If he asks for explanations, tell him that the relationship is not working out well for either one of you and you need to have some time to find out what makes you happy again. That's it. It's the truth and you do not need to offer any other explanations. Do not badmouth him to others, and if they ask the reason, tell them that it was a mutual decision and you have no hard feelings towards him...(even if you do...it will make you look gracious and classy) If he tries to engage you in an argument, it takes two to fight, please remember that. You don't have to fight with him. If you are unhappy and sad and getting into trouble, doing things that make you feel bad about yourself, please, just let him go. You'll feel hurt for a little while and maybe a little lonely, but in the long run (and you'll be surprised how quickly you'll heal without a bad influence in your life) you'll find happiness quickly. And perhaps you'll learn more about yourself and what you will accept and what you will expect in a relationship. Good luck! Linda
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Tell him how you feel, dont jsut sit there tell him. Say to him its not the right time anymore for me to have a boyfriend and tell him why. Hes a guy he needs to know. Yes it might be hard for you but if hes making you life unhappy all the time then hes not worth it and yes you love him but you can also love him as a friend...can you not? Do what you think is right not what other thinks..well i really hoep this helped and tell me how everything goes
<3 Brittany
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Hmm...no offence, but are you by any chance staying in the relationship because you feel you need to? Well anyways, if trying to end it is what you are going for, then write him a letter. Take the time to type up a letter explaining how you feel about him, but how his way of treating you and all those other things just make you feel terrible. I mean there are no clear cut rules of what you can and can't do in a relationship - it really does depend on what is going on...Hope things go well
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Duh.
Are you that stupid?
If he makes you unhappy ditch his ass.
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