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depression from love??
okay so i met this boy durning the summer and i felt that we had something though we never exactly talked, well we did just not in a way with actual words if you know what i mean. but i havent seen him in 8 months and i cant stop thinking about him. and i cant call or IM because i dont know the info. i miss him so much though and i think i may actually love him. but the thing is latly ive been really down. basically crying every night and i feel as if im falling appart. how can i get over this??
please help.
<3torn appart
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well it could be love at first sigt but the problem is you don't even know his name he could be a total jerk so what i am trying to say it you will probably never see him again and if u do see him again don't get your hopes up beause if you meet him and he isn't wat you expect then you probably would be crushed
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Dear Torn Apart,
It's not real love. If you don't talk to someone and have not even seen them for eight months, it's just not love. I'm sorry, but it isn't possible.
Maybe the reason you're crying is because subconsciously you are depressed about something, and you are relating it to this boy but that's not the real reason you are upset?
I know quite a few people that have been diagnosed with depression, and sometimes they think back to things that once made them happy and it deeply affects them now.
Love is a strong word. Don't use it lightly.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
P.S. I'm sorry if the beginning was a little harsh.
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i kind of had something similar, even though we were really good friends and went out. but over summer, he didnt have IM and i couldnt call him because his parents were really strict, so i never got to see him. i know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but eventually you kind of just get over it. try going to the mall or movies with your friends and find some cute guys to try and get him off your mind.
besides, i don't think you can "love" someone without even talking to them .. he could be a complete jerk.
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Shut up and get over it.
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