SO YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME?
-my name is KATIE.
-i am 13 years old.
-i live in the greatest (note the sarcasm) state on earth, pennsylvania.
-i can be the most mature person you know, or i can be on the floor laughing til i cry in a matter of seconds.
-i get depressed often.
-i've broken the law 6 times.
-I LOVE TO TYPE IN CAPITALS. IT SOUNDS LIKE IM YELLING!!
-my friends call me "Dr. Phil" because i am mature for my age and like giving advice.
-at the moment, im looking for love.
if you want to know anything else or want an immediate answer to a problem you may be having, IM me at L1FEwithoutLUST. i love to chat also, so feel free to talk to me whenever.
E-mail: CUTE_whenyouSCREAM@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Allentown, PA
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: L1FEwithoutLUST
Yahoo: CUTE_whenyouSCREAM@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 3, 2006
Answers: 7
Last Update: February 5, 2006
Visitors: 1245
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hey katie, i bet you can guess who this is.
but anyways i do need your opinion on what to do with my life. as you know i am going out with meagan and she cheated on me and i forgave her last year around december...but she is always hanging around other guys and it makes me feel like she still is cheating on me and all. i mean she is kinda of a slut, before i went out with her she already lost her virginity and gave like 5 guys BJ's. but still. i love her so much. but also ever month she like breaks up with me and brings me to pretty much crying then says she was joking about it all. and the wierd thing is shes really over protetive, for example, i was on the phone with my friend samii and i got off the phone and i called meagan and she asked whats up and i said i just got off the phone with a girl and she flipped out. and when she calmed down about five minutes later, i called her back and she was having cyber sex with some guy and acted like it was no big deal. shes got problems.. and to top this all off, im gay. i make out with my freind rob alot and he has sucked me before. but i would never have rob as my bf. and i still love meagan. ive told you most of this before but i never really did it at one time and asked for your help on it but i finally need help. should i break up with her, stop being gay, both, go out with someone else, or move to PA and go out with you?
so please help babe, thanks
(signed)
your not so secret admirer. (link)
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Dear Confused as hell,
First of all Earl, are you REALLY sure you are gay? Whenever I say stuff about that to you, I always get a "I'm not officially gay" answer. And most people don't just become gay, they are born like that and they are always attracted to the same sex. Think about what your friends would say and how they would treat you if they found out you were gay.
About Meagan, I say, dump her. Really, she sounds like a lunatic. Maybe a very pretty and sexual lunatic but one nonetheless. It's not fair that she cheated on you, and distrusts you around girls. You are the one who shouldn't trust her, and Earl I have known you for a while and I know what a great guy you are and really, I think you can do a whole lot better. Girl or guy. If you wanna know anything else, drop me another message.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
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okay so i met this boy durning the summer and i felt that we had something though we never exactly talked, well we did just not in a way with actual words if you know what i mean. but i havent seen him in 8 months and i cant stop thinking about him. and i cant call or IM because i dont know the info. i miss him so much though and i think i may actually love him. but the thing is latly ive been really down. basically crying every night and i feel as if im falling appart. how can i get over this??
please help.
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Dear Torn Apart,
It's not real love. If you don't talk to someone and have not even seen them for eight months, it's just not love. I'm sorry, but it isn't possible.
Maybe the reason you're crying is because subconsciously you are depressed about something, and you are relating it to this boy but that's not the real reason you are upset?
I know quite a few people that have been diagnosed with depression, and sometimes they think back to things that once made them happy and it deeply affects them now.
Love is a strong word. Don't use it lightly.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
P.S. I'm sorry if the beginning was a little harsh.
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I'm not quite sure what to do. My "best friend" from last year is changing. We used to tell eachother EVERYTHING!! But this year she cheated on her boyfriend, broke up with him, and went back out with him and didn't even tell me. I had to find out from someone else. And she doesn't know about the guy I REALLY REALLY like. Its because she doens't take the time to find out. Every weekend I invite her to the mall, and EVERY time she says she busy and then calls me telling me how bored she is.. Also when ever I hang out with ehr myy grades drop. I dont know if I should stay "best friends" with her or not? Please help (link)
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As the road of life moves along ( haha wow I should be shot for saying that) people change.
You and your best friend are most likely developing different likes and dislikes. This may cause you both to feel awkward and uncomfortable around each other, and could also make you not want to tell each other everything like in the past.
Try making new friends. Not to replace you old friend, but to hang out with when your friend says she "is busy." When she sees you with new people odds are she will realize that she misses you and want to be friends again. And if she doesn't and continues to treat you unfairly, then you aren't "best friends" and probably never were.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
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okay so we are from new york state, and my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and he just found out that his grandpa was supposed to die within a week liek a week ago he found that out.. and his parents are down with his grandpa right now and he just found out he has to fly down to florida in 3 hours bc he had just passed away. I really need help on how to try to help him and liek what to say to him besdies im sorry and i love you. i feel so bad and hes so upset about it and im just really sad i cant be there to cofort him bc he has to go down to florida. HELLPP and maybe you can think of somethign i can do for him when he gets back (he leaves today saturday, and comes back tuesday) (link)
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What a stressful situation. It sounds like both of you are going thorough alot. Your boyfriend because of the loss, and you because you can't be there with him helping him pull through.
I guess I can share a little personal preferance with you though. Three years back, my cousin (who is now 13) lost her father to a heart attack. I was and still is her best friend and she did something that I regret constantly now. She ignored it. She didn't talk about it, didn't give people any insight at all. I never pressured her into talking about it, because I had no idea what pain she was going through and I didn't want to make it worse.
This really sucks because now whenever someone mentions her father, she thinks of him with hate and spite because she thinks that he was the cause of all that bitterness.
Back to the topic, I am not really sure what you can do to comfort your hurting boyfriend... But just talk about it. He might not want to right away but I'm sure he'll come around. And when he does, make sure that he thinks of his grandfather with love and respect and remembers him that way.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
P.S. Also, make sure that your boyfriend knows you are always there for him. Give him a shoulder to cry on, if not two.
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everytime I try to install limewire onto my computer, it doesnt let me because it says theres a firewall block or something. I was wondering if this has ever happened to any of you, and what i could do to fix it and get limewire back onto my computer.
ill rate HIGH, thanks in advance. (link)
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I just recently downloaded LimeWire, and I ran into this problem.
All I did was ask my step-dad to check out the program and remove the firewall.
I don't know if you own your own computer, but if you don't, ask the owner. I've never heard of any viruses coming from LimeWire, so it's safe.
Hope this Helps,
Katie
P.S. Okay, I was just informed that LimeWire can give you viruses, but only with the stuff that you may download, not the software itself. My mistake, sorry.
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I have two younger siblings. Some might say that I shoulk babysit them fir free, but I also cook, clean, and chase them around. I think I should get a little something. What do you think? (link)
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This could really go either way. If you do not get an allowance, then I think that it is only logical to ask your parents for some money.
On the other hand, if you do get an allowance, then maybe you shouldn't ask for cash, but instead other privileges. For example...
"Hey mom, last Friday night I had to watch Terry and Shaun, so do you think I could stay out an hour later tonight?"
Hope this Helps,
Katie
P.S. Kudos on the baby-sittting. God knows it sucks.
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ok so im a 14 year old girl. and i know i have a lot of time to get a boyfriend but here it goes..
there are these two really obnoxious girls in my grade and the guys always swarm over them. i really dont even understand why. they are really fake and agressive like always touching them and stuff and they wear so much make up and like brand name clothes and stuff like that. they are also both really concieted so i dont understand why the guys would like them. like im friends with the guys too but thats just it im FRIENDS with them so none of them would even see me as being their girlfriends. i cant help it i dont know why i keep being in the position as the "friend" never the "girlfriend". i mean im kind of shy and im not the kind of girl who will just throw myself at the guys. thats not who i am and i dont want to be a fake person.
also when these two girls are talking to the guys i dont know what to do. i mean i dont want to just go over there because it would be akward and like the girls would give me looks but like these girls are with the guys liek 24/7 and the guys are always together as one group so i dont want to like shut myself out from talking to them either because then nothing will every happpen. ill never have a boyfriend!!
ugh. please help =(
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Everyone knows someone like the girls you are describing.
While most girls can see through their fake-ness and narcissism, some guys can't. Or they simple don't want to. Sadly, a lot of guys judge girls by their chest size, hair color, size of their waist, etc.
Do not fret. Boys like these aren't even worth liking or dating. You want a guy who will care about you no matter what you look like.
As to your comment about talking to boys, it's only a big deal if you make it out to be. Just go over and strike up a conversation, and if those two prima-madonnas are there, so what? That just gives you more of a reason to be confident and daring. I'm sure that the boys in your class will notice you stepping up to the plate and will give you more attention if you make it clear that you want it.
Hope this helps,
Katie
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